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for effort.
My next question is easier. If you were a charming 20 something year old onee-san, what would you most want a handsome
British gentleman such as myself to cook for you?
If it helps I'm half Italian.
Tbh, the food can be anything as long as you don't cook something she hates.
That usually is entirely hinged on how well you know her. I mean if I'm the 20 y.o girl, as long as I can swallow
the food, I won't have an issue with the evening. Unless the food is completely terrible and makes me get up for
the bathroom every 15 mins.
What's your budget is a better question. Anything below average and you're better
off eating out.
Whether it's the first time or not, it should always be simple. People like to over-complicate the meal and ruin
the afternoon/evening.
I like fish, personally so anything with snapper, dory, salmon, etc works with me. Steamed
fish makes a good evening, probably fried fish in the afternoon. Either one works really if you're dining indoors,
mainly because fish is simple to make and season. Good for the body too so she won't be complaining, you know?
Doesn't take long to cook and it goes with almost anything.
Especially Italian food.
I eat vegetables with light sauce and chilli for the spice, goes well with the fish and the
rice.
What is the intent of the meal?
Since I'm a simple person when it comes to food, even the many ladies I dine with on special occasions seem to like
fish.
I met my British professor when I went visiting one of my older friends in England and
ended up with quick lunch with her before I flew to the next place I was going to.. but she told me not to get her
anything heavy since she wasn't in the mood that day and told me cheesecake was good enough.
I literally sat there with her for 3 hours doing nothing but watching her eat cheesecake and drink her tea, it was the
conversation that carried everything else.
Hopefully that's good enough to tell you that you should just make what you think
you're good at making.
In truth, you can make the first thing that comes to your mind. Just as long as you don't screw up the recipe,
because then she'll have issues eating.
1 to 1 eating is more dependent on what you say during the entire time she's sitting
in front of you. If the food is good (which it mostly always is) but you have nothing to keep her going, you'll
trip either way. Make what you know you're good at making and not screwing up that isn't a
sandwich.
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Have you ever felt like you found the love of your life? What did/didn't work out? And how many grills have you
dated?
Actually yea, when I was younger I did.
I knew a Japanese girl once and she's still a close friend of mine today. Very smart and very forward thinking and
also very polite. My only gripe is that she follows stereotype of being short, very fair skinned and has very nice eyes.
Intellectually, she's someone I really like. Appearance-wise, I prefer more mature looking girls.. but that
doesn't mean I dislike her.
The only thing not working out for me is that her best friend is also a girl I know and I
have dined with her much more often, and she graduated top of her class where she studied. When I was younger, I loved
both of them because.. well it can't be explained. The conversations were good, the outings were stress-free, they
always both gave good insight and advice in their own POVs and are both PHD holders today.
Academics, basically.
When I was younger, my larger problem was making a move on any of them, because I know it'll piss off the other or
at least strain the friendship. Commitment was never kind to me that way, but I wasn't afraid of it. Actually, in a
twisted way, I committed myself to both of them. I never told them I liked either of them until 7 years into the future
from when I realized who I liked more than the other.
It paid off, the maturity from those 7 years made it easier to take, or maybe both of them
never cared? I'll never know.
I even told them that my largest regret was choosing to meet the other person, because if I just focused on 1 of them,
I'd probably be happily married.
I'm not dissatisfied with my life though, once you reach a certain point and are not so focused on sexual
endeavors, you realize all you want are just a small circle of friends who won't knife you in the back or leave you
out to dry.
I got what I wanted, so I have no complaints.
How many girls I've dated? None.
How many I've taken out to eat 1 to 1 and had a good time with? Several. I can't count them with my fingers if
you want a figure of how many. Lol
I don't 'date' girls, it's always been viewed as kid ways of viewing an
outing with a girl.
Dating is for teenagers, and sadly my teenage years involved me doing much more pressing things. I typed my Bio out
before so you should remember at least, what I was doing as a teen.
Come a time, I realized all I really did was take women out to eat. I don't go out with the intention of having
someone to pin to a bed, I think it's pretty sad to view women as bed decoration at the end of the meals.
To each his own eh?
Many women I meet with are independent women. They rarely latch onto people, instead they
just want a friend they know they can talk the evening away with, confide in or simply just have a nice enjoyable dinner
with.
These are things they told me, btw, not things I'm saying. When you meet people who are like that, you don't
see them often but you definitely will keep seeing them yearly to catch up with.
It's a welcome change especially once you grow up past a certain age when work and
major projects start to take up a good majority of your time, having girls who always want your time will turn out badly
for both me and her, and I'm sure many people hate needy guys/girls who don't know when to
stop.
Idk, make out of this what you will.
lol
