I think nowadays dating is more a grab at physical intimacy, which may or may not entail the possibility of growth into
a relationship. Courting emphasizes friendship and romance that is intended to lead towards marriage, but alas, is rare.
I'm partial to courting, as I tried dating just for fun, and after a while it quit being fun. Must be the inner
romantic getting the best of me, but I'd rather develop something with a bit more substance. Making friends first
is definitely a good plan, in either case. <cringe> A flood of bad memories attack Llamrei- Back! Back you vile
beasts!
Note: It's probably a good plan that you make it clear that courting is your thing, as many aren't ready or
open to serious relationships - at least when you're young.