I think it is perfectly fine for a girl to tell a guy how they feel, some guys are just as woried and shy as most girls, so for the girl to make an effort defiantely is nice. It worked out well for me, and my bf now of a year and a half never thought it looked bad just very sweet
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- Aug 10, 2006
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if girl like a guy go for it
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- Aug 10, 2006
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Heck yes you should tell the guy. There's nothing I like more than an assertive girl. That is unless she is kinda creepy and like not very flattering in those jeans of hers that do not I repeat DO NOT make her look good. But that's just me
- Aug 10, 2006
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Yes! It would make things so much easier if they did!
However, if a girl does this too early, it might seem as if she is being too forward. Also, it might have the tendency to turn thins awkward afterwards.
- Aug 11, 2006
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both parties should tell how each other feels. that why both will now what is happening in the relationship. i dont have a problem if you have been dating for a while, but if you just met her.... i'll be werry
- Aug 11, 2006
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Yeah ofcourse she should ..matter of fact it would be really helpfull coz most guys dont have a clue what Females think i for one being a guy would love it if girls started to tell the male how they feel exactly :) peace
- Aug 11, 2006
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well, you can either tell him; or not tell him. And I think that telling him would be better.
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- Aug 11, 2006
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I... don't... know. I mean, I'm having a hard time getting this girl to like me; I already dropped the "L bomb" on her (meaning I told her in my letter to her that I... I... love her...). She's not saying anything but she's still friendly to me. She's probably confused on what she really feels and feels that she isn't ready to say how she really feels... But I'll wait for her... =)
- Aug 11, 2006
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BY GOD YES!
Guys have such a hard time working up the nerve to ask a girl. The girl telling the guy how she feels out would take a huge burden off his shoulders. If she's certain enough of her feelings to want to ask the guy, by all means do it.
- Aug 12, 2006
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yes
- Aug 12, 2006
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for me i believe it's ok for the girl to confess if she wants to.. it wasnt appropriate before for a girl to confess maybe because it was "customs" that dictates that the guy should always make the first move.. well, now that shouldnt be a problem, it's really a game of who goes first in confessing.. who has the most guts to confess first.. :P
make use of what you have currently.. focus on the present with the past to guide you and the future to look forward to..
- Aug 12, 2006
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Of course! :D Why not? We are not living in the past, nowadays it should'nt matter if a girl confesses her feelings to him. In what way does it look bad?...At least she's being honest and not scared to ask. We should all be able to speak our minds, gender dosen't matter.
- Aug 14, 2006
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I think girls should be able to tell guys how they feel with out being critisized. But I also think it would be a bad idea because what if the guys don't reflect the same feelings.
I need more affection than you know- Aug 14, 2006
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I would just do it. Better to know than regret for the rest of your life (like I am).
- Aug 14, 2006
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sure why not? well why would it look bad, personally guys can tend to be oblivious to certain matters and might need to be clued in trust me, but it isnt really a bad thing
- Aug 14, 2006
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See this is the part of life that really disturbes me. Any time a girl tells a guy how she feels it almost all the time never turns for the worst. You will rarely get a guy that's not sentimental about this, but if you did that's good to because you find out that he was a real dipshit and you go on with life. With guy's it's different. If the guy's a good person then he will rarely find the courage to tell that girl how he feels. And because we're guys and we're usually with the wrong girl, and when he does finally gets around to tell her it always ends nasty.
Now don't get me started on how "Oh that happens to girls, too. it always happens to us." That is utter bullshit. You say that because you watch those series on TV all the time, or watching those Anime. You women never go through that and you know it.
So yes tell us how you feel. It who really help us dense, porno loven' guys out.
- Aug 14, 2006
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Sure, it can work both ways. I don't see the reason why not. =)
- Aug 28, 2006
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Its perfectly fine, i gues that girls have some trouble with rejection though.
- Aug 28, 2006
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but when a guy tell a girl his feeling
after what his feelings was told, and the girl kept quiet how? it's like no feeling on that guy...
that s what i'm scare of..- Aug 28, 2006
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why not?
i did!
well i think you should consider wether he deserved it or not
boys could be arrogant sometimeshowever, i told the guy i liked that i loved him
his respond is positive about me,
he thought that i am, well, brave
in my country, only few girls have the courage to tell boys how they felt about himwell, honestly, the man i liked was shocked, and maybe he felt discomfort
(bcoz he didn't has any feelings to me, but it's allright)
after about one month, he returned to normal, he acted like nothing had happened
and he didn't tell anyone what happened,
he appreciated me,
i was very relieved ^^so why not?
it's the girl's era! ^^- Aug 29, 2006
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I dont think that there's anything keeping a girl from telling a guy. C'mon it's modern day the craziest things go on, if you think about it, lots of girls tell guys the way they feel and most of the time everything turns out the way that she envisioned it, but for the times that it doesn't exactly work out and the guy is a jerk about it then the girl can see that there was nothing special about him. I know that people all the time say stuff like 'well ur not all taht anyways' they're just mad, but that's the type of thing that makes them err whacked out? I dunno how to say it. If it doesn't work out, then I think that the girl and the guy should be able to at least be friends, there's not threat to that, right? If he's really nice then it should be a win/win situation.
- Aug 30, 2006
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I don't see why a girl shouldn't. If a girl feels something towards someone else, why should she be scared of communicating that feeling? Not just in words, but in actions too.
- Aug 30, 2006
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i would prefer if the girl told me how she fealt it would so much easier. I'm too scared of being rejected people say it is a very bad feeling and i just don't want to feel it.
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http://junto.sytes.net- Sep 08, 2006
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Hell Yeah! no matter what it mite be! as should we all!
- Sep 13, 2006
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