what does it feel when we are being rejected bec. we're different from them?
bec. they don't understand us and maybe that's the reason why we seclude
ourselves from others, bec. we knew that they won't accept us, but .... is it
really hard for them to understand our situation?
It feel like to told urself that "i'm weird?",i think. In the
past,i've some problem about the way i like a girl.because i'm a girl.So,it's
weird? & i think it's weird I
cann't help myself about it.i try many time to like a boy.But it isn't done.I
don't know why.
Anyway,i donn't care how another people think about me.If they reject me.So? i
don't want to meet some people like that too.Thk for rejected me.I'm very glad
to do that too.
When i change my mind to think like this.i've a good day more than my past.
& now,i like to be myself.Don't watn to change to another one to make
them accept me.
When I was a teenager I felt that way alot. No one understood me or seemed to
care about me. So I closed in on myself and shut out everyone around me. I
wanted people to know the real me, be interested in what I liked or thought, but
since I was shy and no one asked, I felt rejected and lonely. I've since started
coming out of my shell now and my isolation from those around me is becoming
less apparent, at least to me it is. I've
found that I do have friends who genuinely care about me and appreciate me for
me. Still working on my family though as we were never a really close
and open type of family.
Quote by vampyreIt feel like to told
urself that "i'm weird?",i think. In the past,i've some problem about
the way i like a girl.because i'm a girl.So,it's weird? & i think it's
weird I cann't help myself about it.i try many time to like a boy.But it
isn't done.I don't know why.
Anyway,i donn't care how another people think about me.If they reject me.So? i
don't want to meet some people like that too.Thk for rejected me.I'm very glad
to do that too.
When i change my mind to think like this.i've a good day more than my past.
& now,i like to be myself.Don't watn to change to another one to make
them accept me.
That's right, anyone who can't accept who you are isn't worth getting to know
themselves.
Close minded people make me sick. It's frustrating that they would put other
people down, segregating them, because they don't live up to their standards. In
fact, it downright pisses me off.
Religion and sexual orientation. Personal experiance with issues for both has
shown me that these are too huge issues for bigotry. And you know what? I just
see them as sad people who are missing out on a lot because they push others
away and stay within their little seclusive environments.
No one should ever change for another person, they should be who they want to
be, whatever makes them feel good about themselves.
People who can't accept that have a lot to learn, and are way behind the times.
It feels empty, really. (contradiction?) You know, AyameSeishiro, I really
understand what you're trying to say. Hey, 'sorry for not divulging that little
experience of mine here (went through depression some years ago...), it's still
a gaping wound for me, so I'm kinda hesitant on sharing in here publicly. But,
just letting you know that you are not alone in
this!... and I pray hope that you knowing/feeling that you're not alone
would suffice as a warm comfort. ^_^
And pretty much Shkira-friend beat me to it to the
pol-econ-social-psycho-personal analysis, so ditto there!
Problem today is there is "stadard"... If you're not one of these
standard, you'll be rejected by many...
Those who don't like somthin any else love cause it's the mode will be
rejected...
ppl like me or many other who simply don't care about mode, movie.... are always
rejected...
Still, remember somethin: you're never alone, there's always ppl who care about
you, even if your diferent...
My bro always teasing me cause I only have few friend... He had "ton"
he said... When he arranged a fest for his birthday, 3 of the 43 invited ppl
came... When I did mine, 6 of the 6 came...
prefer having 2-3 REAL friend that understand you well and like you for you are
trully than getting 10-20 or even 30 "friend" with what you'll only
talk of weather, TV and creepy thing...
Well, if you're not trying to be a reject on purpose and you're just plain
different, who cares what people think of you? Don't waste your time with people
who waste their time disliking you.
i try to ignore it the best i can...i know in school there are people who hate
me for who i am...but i am who i am, if they dont like then thats their problem
and not mine...as some before have said "be true to yourself"
I know it too well.. It just fills you with sadness & depress... People
only laughs at you for a hobby or something.. They don't understand it hurts you
and make you a closer (AS not open) person... You slowly stay away from other
people And get back... All my life i've been like this... It hurts... a lot...
I will feel deeply hurt inside
will think is because I weird, ugly, horrible, terrible person.
will stay away from people
feeling insecure everywhere I go.
been before in this situation,
that's why I had a few freinds only
still trying to get the fear out of me.
it feels dead..u'll think that there's something wrong with yourself and u can't
do anything to fix that...but my opinion is to hell with what other people
think, if they can't accept you, then don't giv a damn....think about it like
this....you're special, that's why you don't get along with others well...god
has a special reason why you are here and why you are experiencing this
nightmare....but in the end, u'll b the one laughing...so dont worry
yes... i do think so... hmmm... so it's like what we call inferiority complex?
But yes, if people can't accept us for who we are then better yet let's just
leave them be
being rejected has been hard for me because it made me so isolated and more shy
and depressed sometimes i feel like i dont belong anywhere because im weird or
different but i do have friends that accept me so if those people have a problem
with me and accept me atleast i have friends that will
what does it feel when we are being rejected bec. we're different from them? bec. they don't understand us and maybe that's the reason why we seclude ourselves from others, bec. we knew that they won't accept us, but .... is it really hard for them to understand our situation?
It feel like to told urself that "i'm weird?",i think. In the past,i've some problem about the way i like a girl.because i'm a girl.So,it's weird? & i think it's weird
I
cann't help myself about it.i try many time to like a boy.But it isn't done.I
don't know why.
Anyway,i donn't care how another people think about me.If they reject me.So? i don't want to meet some people like that too.Thk for rejected me.I'm very glad to do that too.
When i change my mind to think like this.i've a good day more than my past.
& now,i like to be myself.Don't watn to change to another one to make
them accept me.
When I was a teenager I felt that way alot. No one understood me or seemed to care about me. So I closed in on myself and shut out everyone around me. I wanted people to know the real me, be interested in what I liked or thought, but since I was shy and no one asked, I felt rejected and lonely. I've since started coming out of my shell now and my isolation from those around me is becoming less apparent, at least to me it is.
I've
found that I do have friends who genuinely care about me and appreciate me for
me. 
Still working on my family though as we were never a really close
and open type of family.
That's right, anyone who can't accept who you are isn't worth getting to know themselves.
Close minded people make me sick. It's frustrating that they would put other people down, segregating them, because they don't live up to their standards. In fact, it downright pisses me off.
Religion and sexual orientation. Personal experiance with issues for both has shown me that these are too huge issues for bigotry. And you know what? I just see them as sad people who are missing out on a lot because they push others away and stay within their little seclusive environments.
No one should ever change for another person, they should be who they want to be, whatever makes them feel good about themselves.
People who can't accept that have a lot to learn, and are way behind the times.
It feels empty, really. (contradiction?) You know, AyameSeishiro, I really understand what you're trying to say. Hey, 'sorry for not divulging that little experience of mine here (went through depression some years ago...), it's still a gaping wound for me, so I'm kinda hesitant on sharing in here publicly. But, just letting you know that you are not alone in this!... and I pray hope that you knowing/feeling that you're not alone would suffice as a warm comfort. ^_^
And pretty much Shkira-friend beat me to it to the pol-econ-social-psycho-personal analysis, so ditto there!
Problem today is there is "stadard"... If you're not one of these standard, you'll be rejected by many...
Those who don't like somthin any else love cause it's the mode will be rejected...
ppl like me or many other who simply don't care about mode, movie.... are always rejected...
Still, remember somethin: you're never alone, there's always ppl who care about you, even if your diferent...
My bro always teasing me cause I only have few friend... He had "ton" he said... When he arranged a fest for his birthday, 3 of the 43 invited ppl came... When I did mine, 6 of the 6 came...
prefer having 2-3 REAL friend that understand you well and like you for you are trully than getting 10-20 or even 30 "friend" with what you'll only talk of weather, TV and creepy thing...
Final: DO NOT change for other, stay ur'self...
Well, if you're not trying to be a reject on purpose and you're just plain different, who cares what people think of you? Don't waste your time with people who waste their time disliking you.
Yup He's right. Being true to yourself is what matters the most. : )
yea, best is not to think about being rejected etc it will only depress you and lower your self esteem
i try to ignore it the best i can...i know in school there are people who hate me for who i am...but i am who i am, if they dont like then thats their problem and not mine...as some before have said "be true to yourself"
I know it too well.. It just fills you with sadness & depress... People only laughs at you for a hobby or something.. They don't understand it hurts you and make you a closer (AS not open) person... You slowly stay away from other people And get back... All my life i've been like this... It hurts... a lot...
Hm... maybe i fell bad... but i try to kill them =O
I will feel deeply hurt inside
will think is because I weird, ugly, horrible, terrible person.
will stay away from people
feeling insecure everywhere I go.
been before in this situation,
that's why I had a few freinds only
still trying to get the fear out of me.
it feels dead..u'll think that there's something wrong with yourself and u can't do anything to fix that...but my opinion is to hell with what other people think, if they can't accept you, then don't giv a damn....think about it like this....you're special, that's why you don't get along with others well...god has a special reason why you are here and why you are experiencing this nightmare....but in the end, u'll b the one laughing...so dont worry
yes... i do think so... hmmm... so it's like what we call inferiority complex? But yes, if people can't accept us for who we are then better yet let's just leave them be
being rejected has been hard for me because it made me so isolated and more shy and depressed sometimes i feel like i dont belong anywhere because im weird or different but i do have friends that accept me so if those people have a problem with me and accept me atleast i have friends that will