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Love, Friends & Family

Minitokyo » Life & Lifestyle Fora » Love, Friends & Family  Not a game

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...has...anyone ever...disappointed someone...who's special to them...in whatever way...and...had a feeling of remorse and guilt...afterwards? As if...you cannot believe...that you've done something...to upset that person? And...even though they say, "Aw, don't worry about it..."...doesn't it feel...as if their voice...is dissimulated? Bad feeling isn't it.

nope, I never regret anything, regretting something isn't going to change anything. Everything I do is for a reason, if someone gets hurt along the way then they can simply hurt me back, its not that difficult to accomplish.

Yes I have. But I think that sometimes we can not help it if we disappoint others. Sometimes one will never measure up to the standards of others. All we can do is apologize and hope that will remove the bad blood.

Yeah. I tried to help this friend of mine... but in the end I feel useless because nothing seems to imporve in his/her situation. And I feel horrible because I couldn't help them...

...that's...exactly it. Envoking, isn't it?

Yeah LOTS of times.... Sometimes my mom sometimes my friends... Heck sometimes my family...

I always try to move on though. Things like that shouldn't bring you down...

Quote by AlishaYeah LOTS of times.... Sometimes my mom sometimes my friends... Heck sometimes my family...

I always try to move on though. Things like that shouldn't bring you down...


Yeah I agree with you Alisha, but sometimes its hard to help it not to feel bad.

Quote by CadiYeah I agree with you Alisha, but sometimes its hard to help it not to feel bad.


You mean it's hard to get over that feeling. Right?

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You mean it's hard to get over that feeling. Right?


Yea, its hard to not feel bad in the frist place when you know you disappointed them.

Quote by CadiYea, its hard to not feel bad in the frist place when you know you disappointed them.


Yeah I know what you mean...

It's hard to forgive yourself.

yes, we are our own worst enemies.....Visis, you must strive to make -->honesty<-- the utmost priority when it comes to friends....and if that friend dont want to tell you the truth of how they feel and be fake about it, you're better off without them!!!.....really, thats terrible though, best wishes :)......the fact that you feel so bad is evidence of what a good person you are! :D

Quote by CadiYeah. I tried to help this friend of mine... but in the end I feel useless because nothing seems to imporve in his/her situation. And I feel horrible because I couldn't help them...

yes, this is how i feel as well. Not being able to help the people you care about...its a terrible feeling T_T It sometimes makes me feel like i am letting them down; like, what kind of friend am i? i can't help them with their problem...it makes me sad :(

as for me i don't care much if i disappoint some people. Actualy they are disappointed and not me so it's their problem and not mine. and as long as it isn't my problem all is ok.
I never have the feeling of remorse and guilt ;)

I feel that way a lot..especially with my family. I always feel like I'm never good enough for them. :(

i hate disappointing people...I always want to do my best and if I do something wrong and upset them then I always feel really bad about it. I know it's impossible to not disappoint people at sometime or another, but I can't help but feel bad if I do. :(

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