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OK I know everyone has had one of those members that just randomly add you to the friendlist without warning or reason, and to me that annoys the hell out of me, or one of those members that say wow you're a popular member let me add you to my friendlist because you're cool, or maybe you've had one say "I like you're gallery can I add you?" I mean technically it's not even a friendlist anymore its just a list of memebrs... I mean yeah you have your close friends on it but if you were to probably narrow it down it would be more than cut in half. I know people add members to their friendlist so that they can see when they submit something new but still.. I mean everytime one of those stupid members just randomly adds me I ignore it, I mean in reality I just wanna go post in their gb and go "stop adding people to your damn friendlist it wont make you liked anymore than you already are" but i dont because I'm not always a bitch ( I know who knew) anyway I just wanna hear your opnions on it and vote on the poll ^^ Thanks
NOTE I did NOT mention names nor will I and you shouldn't either ><

omg....I was hoping someone would make a thread like this!!! It annoys the little green globs outta me (what green globs...I dunno). I just had that happen to me yesterday!! And I think that, not to be mean or anything, the people who don't post that they're adding you, are mostly new members....that are never active, EVER again!!! I mean, I wouldn't mind as much, if it were an active person, and they would visit every once in a while but gosh! Sometimes, when people do that I just ignore it...but most of the time I just add them back *sigh* cuz I don't like to be mean...

lol I agree damn those noobs, no offense not all noobs are bad... lmao

hmmm yea it annoys me sometimes, i mean i like meetin new ppl an stuff, but i wish they'd give a reason or at least post in my guestbook

haha yes yes quite annoying indeed,
though i guess im soo cool that people can't help but add me
*watches as everyone runs to remove me from their list* ><
well i mostly ignore it most of the time and in the they'll remove me
but it sure is quite a bother, getting notiffs from strangers about adding
you, i keep telling people, chat with me before we add or do something
that gets my attention, i just dont add anyone on and i sure dont like adding
people that are going to be idle all the time. Lets just make our posts, and
when we run into each other then we can talk, as for now, leave me be, i dont
wanna have friends that i dont know too well ^^;;

I like to make friends. . . And the idea of adding it to the list is the one of not losing communication with none of them ^^

Many of my friends are people that helped me many times, and they supported my insistence (thanks to all ^^)

yes it is quite annoyin i wish they could at least ask first! >=(

Some members have added me to their friendslist without warning as well. At least 30 members added me that way recently. But after time, it can get really annoying. Right now, I'm going to have to shed some members off my list because I can't keep up with everything that they submit.

Yeah, that sorta thing happens to me too! What annoys me the most is members adding me to their FL and not even leave a post saying why! >_> That gets me real ticked! I should delete sum friends I dun even chat with regularly or occasionally! :sweat:

lol well I just delete all my notifs I mean if its not from a close friend then screw it not worth my time unless its actually something good and deserves a comment which is rare

Quote by DarkMaiden1369lol well I just delete all my notifs I mean if its not from a close
friend then screw it not worth my time unless its actually something
good and deserves a comment

I do the same thing. I don't bother with much unless it's a guestbook post or a PM. I'm even cutting down on posting in threads, and I mean starting right now.

It's fine...but if my friendslist becomes flooded with users I haven't even spoken to that often, then I suppose I'll delete some of them.

Haha, I've only gotten one like this, but it bugged me. was kosher with it because I didn't want to be rude though.

Now I have a whopping 2 friends. :nerd:

I don't mind people adding me to their friends so long as they leave a note in my GB about it.

*checks friendlist* DarkMaiden is one of fifteen... uh-oh. I hope I don't get deleted now ^_^'

Anyway, I never had the 'pleasure' of spam-friends-adding, only spam-favorites and spam-comments, but I think I would just ignore them. I'm not really a high profile member but I can understand it becoming a nuisance if loads of people add you to their list every day. Just flame them in their guestbook ;)

you add me I add you, you give me a reason I give you one, seriously you can't expect to be friends with everyone in your list... -_-


why does it annoy you that someone is trying to be friendly? or the fact that they think you're popular, cool or a good artist? anyone who thinks these things of me, deserves to be in my list.

It's annoying but I still go back and add them to my friends list cause I don't want to seem mean or anything like that. I'm even nice enough to write in there guestbook even though they never wrote in mine. Yes I know new guys can be annoying or maybe even stupid but I like adding friends. But hey who knows? That person can be really nice or sweet.

Yes, it annoys me sometimes. I mean, they just add me to their fl without even telling me.

Is it that annoying really? I don't think so...what's wrong with this.
I mean there are many good artists and cool people with interesting ideas or such in MT.
It's very normal that people especially new members; try to get some new friends. And they choose people who are popular which is very normal in my opinion.
What is popularity anyway? u are a good artist or argumentative then u get popular quickly...that's about it in the artificial world. If u are one or both people ll notice u easily and want to be friends or at least keep an eye on u or ur works.
I really don't understand why u gey annoyed with this but everyone has their point of view I guess...

lol, yes it is kinda annoying. use too, i woulda add those who neva posted on my gb and i dunno them. now its different. i add them if i no them or they post on my gb, or w/e. there r still ppl who do dat, and i ignore it, i dun post on their gb ta ask y, i juss ignore it and its funnie dat they dun remove me O_o

Eh~ I don't really care. I add back cuz I don't have it in me to ignore someone... I already have about... I dunno... 40? 50? 70? ppl who did that... but some ppl turned out to be rather nice. I have several ppl who added me, but at one point turned out to be decent friends. ^ ^

But the ones that add you, but continue not to chat and stuff... well... let's just say that they aren't really cool in my book. :\

Then again, the reason I add back those kind of ppl is prolly cuz I don't add anyone myself. Lost interest in making friends.

realliy..=_____=''

brokenchan is a big fat loser then..she doesn't mind anyways...

=_________________=

:: has to stop adding random people on her list ::

trots away to do more hwk....the reason of absences of minitokyo.

I really dont mind, if someone wants me on their freindlist.. id probably add em. More ppl to look at my walls lol

The more frirnds the better I guess but XD I guess thats just me

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