ok, so not too long ago i was told by this guy that he kinda liked me...*not sure if i should scream or be happy* the problem is...i don't like him like that. he's like my little brother...we shall call him ton. (for those who know me from school...that ton)

don't go out with him because you feel guilty.

if you don't like him, then that's his problem.

i'm guessing Ton is some kind of whiny kid.

don't feel sorry for him. hormones are usually in control at this age.

I suggest you sort things out with him. Him liking you doesn't mean you having to like him back. Screaming or being happy have very little to do with how you should deal with the situation. Try to treat him normally and show him you're appreciative of what he's doing for you but at the same time you don't feel comfortable with getting too close. Tell him to respect the space between the two of you or that you'll ignore him. I hope my advice helps...

really? OMG, It is so obvious, I'm stupid, I thought he liked Kaeti... I am so very sorry, please don't go out with him or that will mean you got a date before I did. Do you really want that responsibility. Boys are in league with deer... watch out... let ton down nice and easy...
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imo you just need to tell how you feel towards him softly and your reasons

Mmm, yeah, 'cept it's vice versa for me... but we are in a relationship. It's one-sided, though, unfortunately. >< anyway, yeah, if you don't like him like that, don't force yourself. It's not fair to you. He'll learn, eventually.

HAHAHAHAA!!!

from what i red here, the boy is a loser!

like i said in my first post, it's his own problem you don't like him.

don't let him use you!

OMFG when did this happen, this is so weird, but i'm going to have to agree with sonicwind, and headaches4ever:let him down nice and easy, um tell him to like katie, or hannah b, (perfect match).

oh wow O.O hmmm i think you should not go out with him, sit down with him and tell him that you do not like him and he is like a lil bro and dont go out with him out of guilt kays ^_^

he's like your little brother? ...then don't be with him...cause you will feel guilty if you coupled up with him when you think that he's your brother not your boyfriend....
or you can try going out and date for a few days...if you think he's not the kind of guy you like...just break off....[this method is kind of cruel... ^^" ]

hmmm... that happens a lot... try to talk to him calmly and plainly state what you feel... don't beat around the bush and feel guilty... life's like that... i know that being quite frank hurts but at least you told him the truth... life isn't full of happiness always... oh well, it worked for someone i know... hope you figure things out... =)

Ton?!?! no way Lo! youll just kill him if you r even slightly harsh. b carefull... like Headaches4ever said, if u say yes, you will have gotten a real BF before the both of us! good luck Lo.

i thinnk you should give him a chance, but if you don't want to just act like you know nothing.
(u don'y have to take my advise)

just because he said that he like u doesnt mean that u should go out with him or hook up.just follow your instint and gg ^^

You don't have to go out with someone just because they like you. I have a couple guys who like me that I feel nothing for. They're good friends, and that's all I see them as. Use your best judgement. If you dont like him, going out with him might make him think you do, and leading him on isn't a good thing to do either. I'd say just let him down gently, and explain that you only want to be friends.

Good luck.

I'm sure there's this one boy who likes me (he even said "I like you in a material way" when I said... Read later) but I view him as someone to take under my wing and spread my materal feelings on him, 'cause he's just so pitiful. It's so fulfilling, though, to act like a mother, even at my age. And it's a lot easier, 'cause he isn't a baby!

Quote by idontdoperkyTon?!?! no way Lo! youll just kill him if you r even slightly harsh. b carefull... like Headaches4ever said, if u say yes, you will have gotten a real BF before the both of us! good luck Lo.

hey, hey. i try to be nice, it just always ends up in him being dead...hmm, actuall, not too bad...

your crazy leave me alone. just frigin sort it out with him

If u don't like him, why even bother. I say you just act normal around him and he'll get the msg that you only want a friendship between you guys.

Quote by SonicWindHAHAHAHAA!!!from what i red here, the boy is a loser!
like i said in my first post, it's his own problem you don't like him.
don't let him use you!

ton is a looser but I have to agree w headaches4ever let him down easy asagoro hes not that bad just strange