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what would you do if you had a protective friend?

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you see, it's like this... i have a this friend... he's really nice... the thing is, he is so protective... it's not that bad but then something comes up... he gets so jealous... yeah... i have a lot of friends that he doesn't know of... some of those friends of mine asked if they could court me... well, i don't like some of them so i said sorry but there was this guy who i liked... he asked that question... my bestfriend didn't want that guy to get close to me... i think that he's somewhat unfair... he's had girlfriends before and he can court and date other girls... why won't he leave me alone? as of the moment, he doesn't have a girlfriend but he's still so protective of me... he's quite sensitive and i don't want to hurt him much since he's nice... what do i do with him? i also want some privacy and some control...

Just tell him the simple fact of the matter is that you should be able to do what you want.

remind him his position, he is just your friend not your boyfriend, right? maybe, He had a huge crush on you, that he doesn't want anyone to go near you.... that's what I think... anyway, I don't have much friends in real life, and they are not protective, in fact, they already leave me and go to other people...

Nothing... just let him/her do what he/she wants but I'll talk to him/her if it's going too far...

Akaiken is jelous cuz i asked uchiha-saori on a date.

nways.. a friend is a friend... he should know is limits..

I'd feel awkward and I would just ignore the person if the person was not much of a friend. If it was a close friend of mine, I'd just tell him/her to not be like that. There's nothing wrong with telling a friend if you don't like something.

if he can date who he wants
why can't you?
he doesn't own you, if you like that other guy just go for it.
i'm not exactly sure what you may owe this best friend of yours/how close your relationship is
but look if he really does care about you
he should respect the fact that you have your own life
and that you can see other guys
unless he thinks that guy might be trouble or something.. or a bad influence
but from what you've told us it just seems like he doesnt want to let go of you
and thats just being selfish (or maybe he likes you?)
so you should just sit him down and set his head straight

Quote by shijirokenremind him his position, he is just your friend not your boyfriend,
right? maybe, He had a huge crush on you, that he doesn't want anyone
to go near you.... that's what I think... anyway, I don't have much
friends in real life, and they are not protective, in fact, they
already leave me and go to other people...

well, he did have a crush on me... but that was ages ago... when we were still in elementary... we didn't know each other then... i beat him in our spelling competition then he started teasing me... he stopped because i answered back... we became friends after that... i knew he liked me because he told me... but that was long ago... after that, he had a lot of girlfriends but he still kept on "protecting" me...

Quote by AkaikenNothing... just let him/her do what he/she wants but I'll talk to him/her if it's going too far...


Same thing here.

just say. i have a life you know. and when you say it try to make it sound sincere

well, i think ur quite lucky to have him as a friend... but... i think he is waay overreacting.. its not really his job description to be overprotective of u since hes not ur boyfriend.. he should really leave you alone for some time and make u think for urself... i really do think he is being unfair with the situation... my advice to u is to talk to him and settle and clear things up.. he should understand that he is overreacting and he shouldnt be doing things that could ruin ur friendship.. make him understand that u need some fresh air for a change.... XD.. hope i helped u.. XD...

if u need someone to talk to just pm me K??

ja for now... XD

i would let him do what ever he wanted to but if he interfred with some importain tings i wold talk to him

Tell me his name and I'll kill him. (kidding)

He's not your husband to dictate what you'll do. If I had a over protective friend, I'll talk to him/her and explain my own reasons in a nice way. I don't know If he has crush on you or concern only. Tell him that you wants a privacy. You have own life and it's none of his business.

A playboy makes me angry again!!! I'm getting mad now!!!! They're deserve to DIE & damn to hell!!!!!!!!!!!!!>=(

Sorry uchiha-saori if I've said these things.

talk to him, you! ^_^'

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