Alright I have a big problem. You see there is this guy who I really like(d) and
a while back he told me that he liked me as well. (I'm not saying love becuase I
know its not love) Anyways the thing is that my best friend likes him as well
and even though she said she would leave him alone,he hasn't. She started
emailing him behind my back......*sigh* I dont know what to do, you see I think
he likes her as well! She came to my house yesterday and said that he told her
that he loves her...I feel so bad...what should I do?
I cant face him, I tried to talk to him about it but I cant...do I even have a
right to be mad...or should I be happy for my best friend and move on? It just
hurts and I dont know what to do...
I know you like him, but for the long run, leave HIM alone! I've seen this pan
out before so trust me it wasn't pretty, just say hay he's yours and leave it at
that.
Quote by DistortionI know you like
him, but for the long run, leave HIM alone! I've seen
this pan out before so trust me it wasn't pretty, just say hay he's
yours and leave it at that.
yea, agree because i saw this a lot happening with my friends and its gonna hurt
later on if u don't do that.
Quote by LoneTenchiI did leave him
alone cuz I dont want to ruin things between him and my friend but it just
really hurts...
It will hurt but just remember, there always someone else around the corner,
plus I always think it's better to have a friend than, a boy/girl-friend, and if
that doesn't help, indulge yourself in you favorite activity for awhile when you
get down, or set a goal for yourself and achieve it, god I sound corny, but hay
let's get cornier, buck up! there's always someone better!
Edit: that or you could become like me, anti-social, fake, and afriad of
getting romantically involved with anyone, but longing for someone. (that's
right I opened up so suck it down! and enjoy it now!)
i've been in this situation before... in my situation, my (former) best friend
ended up dating the guy and we had a huge fight and our friendship was never
able to go back to the way it was before. i really hope that that doesn't happen
for you. i know it hurts, but i'd just try to move on. however, if you really
can't deal with acting happy when you're not... at least talk to your friend
first. (i should have done this...) tell her how hurt that you feel that she
went behind your back. you don't have to stop all communication with the guy,
but just recognize your boundaries... (actually, it's funny cuz the guy that my
former bf and i fought over is now my best friend...)well, i hope that you are
your friend are able to work things out!
I would talk to your friend first, the guy .. you can deal with later.. better
getting the information from your friend than him. Have you firmly told the guy
that you like him as well? Does your friend know that you already claimed him?
Simply liking someone does not make them yours. You have to make things clearer
to your friend and to him.
hmm.. i think you should move on with your life..
if you wanna clarify things with the guy, you should talk to him..
if you are still angry with your friend.. it can be understood~~
but i think you should be happy for your friend.. love cant be forced and you
will find a better guy.. dont
worry..
Quote by LoneTenchiAlright I have a
big problem. You see there is this guy who I really like(d) and a while back he
told me that he liked me as well. (I'm not saying love becuase I know its not
love) Anyways the thing is that my best friend likes him as well and even though
she said she would leave him alone,he hasn't. She started emailing him behind my
back......*sigh* I dont know what to do, you see I think he likes her as well!
She came to my house yesterday and said that he told her that he loves her...I
feel so bad...what should I do?
I cant face him, I tried to talk to him about it but I cant...do I even have a
right to be mad...or should I be happy for my best friend and move on? It just
hurts and I dont know what to do...
Talk to him and see if he
really said that or if she is trying to lie to you. Even if he says he didn't,
there's a good chance he's still interested. A lot of guys in the 15-12 range
are happy to have someone interested in them and they don't usually like to
choose. If he tries to play both of you, you should probably leave him alone
before he hurts you and ruins your friendship.
no, girl, i say save face! dont talk to anyone, be the better person and
just leave this train wreck alone! keep your friend, and remember you only
liked, not loved the guy! ....i say find another guy to get over your mini
crush, and have fun! ...going around and talking about this and that will only
make the drama worse, and make you look really desperate, so if you were to ask
my opinion irl, i'd say stay aloof
sorry lone...I dont know the answer but I can give you my prediction. It sounds
like your friend lacks some qualities that makes a person a good friend if she
said she would back off and then got all sneaky..My advice: Be sweet. Be cool
and wait....just wait....it'll be over before the school year's out...then he
can find out what a nice person you are and you can find a new "real"
best friend
Alright I have a big problem. You see there is this guy who I really like(d) and a while back he told me that he liked me as well. (I'm not saying love becuase I know its not love) Anyways the thing is that my best friend likes him as well and even though she said she would leave him alone,he hasn't. She started emailing him behind my back......*sigh* I dont know what to do, you see I think he likes her as well! She came to my house yesterday and said that he told her that he loves her...I feel so bad...what should I do?
I cant face him, I tried to talk to him about it but I cant...do I even have a right to be mad...or should I be happy for my best friend and move on? It just hurts and I dont know what to do...
Just talk to the guy first before jumping to conclusions.
I know you like him, but for the long run, leave HIM alone! I've seen this pan out before so trust me it wasn't pretty, just say hay he's yours and leave it at that.
yea, agree because i saw this a lot happening with my friends and its gonna hurt later on if u don't do that.
Talk to him...
and as for your friend...if she was a friend...she wouldnt do it behind your back,,,
I did leave him alone cuz I dont want to ruin things between him and my friend but it just really hurts...
It will hurt but just remember, there always someone else around the corner, plus I always think it's better to have a friend than, a boy/girl-friend, and if that doesn't help, indulge yourself in you favorite activity for awhile when you get down, or set a goal for yourself and achieve it, god I sound corny, but hay let's get cornier, buck up! there's always someone better!
Edit: that or you could become like me, anti-social, fake, and afriad of getting romantically involved with anyone, but longing for someone. (that's right I opened up so suck it down! and enjoy it now!)
i've been in this situation before... in my situation, my (former) best friend ended up dating the guy and we had a huge fight and our friendship was never able to go back to the way it was before. i really hope that that doesn't happen for you. i know it hurts, but i'd just try to move on. however, if you really can't deal with acting happy when you're not... at least talk to your friend first. (i should have done this...) tell her how hurt that you feel that she went behind your back. you don't have to stop all communication with the guy, but just recognize your boundaries... (actually, it's funny cuz the guy that my former bf and i fought over is now my best friend...)well, i hope that you are your friend are able to work things out!
I would talk to your friend first, the guy .. you can deal with later.. better getting the information from your friend than him. Have you firmly told the guy that you like him as well? Does your friend know that you already claimed him? Simply liking someone does not make them yours. You have to make things clearer to your friend and to him.
Hope that helps.
if you wanna clarify things with the guy, you should talk to him..
if you are still angry with your friend.. it can be understood~~
but i think you should be happy for your friend.. love cant be forced and you will find a better guy..
Talk to him and see if he really said that or if she is trying to lie to you. Even if he says he didn't, there's a good chance he's still interested. A lot of guys in the 15-12 range are happy to have someone interested in them and they don't usually like to choose. If he tries to play both of you, you should probably leave him alone before he hurts you and ruins your friendship.
no, girl, i say save face! dont talk to anyone, be the better person and just leave this train wreck alone! keep your friend, and remember you only liked, not loved the guy! ....i say find another guy to get over your mini crush, and have fun! ...going around and talking about this and that will only make the drama worse, and make you look really desperate, so if you were to ask my opinion irl, i'd say stay aloof
sorry lone...I dont know the answer but I can give you my prediction. It sounds like your friend lacks some qualities that makes a person a good friend if she said she would back off and then got all sneaky..My advice: Be sweet. Be cool and wait....just wait....it'll be over before the school year's out...then he can find out what a nice person you are and you can find a new "real" best friend
Guys are not worth, friend ship is much more important
Kk I'vve had this problem, and it hurts, well burns more like it.............but I hope u got through or will get through it all right
I agree with dutchforce