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hello pplz... i am having a little bit of a problem... well... my friend is really angry at me because i did sumthing that she didn't want me to do but end in the it is not like she is my mother and what i did had nothing to do with her... what would you do if you were in this situation and what do you think i should do?

whoa...thats some dilemma. Well, in something like that, I say at first, hope for it to blow over so it won't become to much of an issue and even if that something had nothing to do with her, it would've really affected her in any way for her to get mad at ya like that so talk to her about it and see why it even bothered her.

Well I tried my best to help.

Well, from what I see, I think you're friend is being jealous... or thinking for your well being. If you don't know, try picturing yourself in her shoes and think about it. Sometime people get mad at simple things. Just like you are right now, you're both angry and upset with her. Angry, cause she's bossing you around and upset, cause she's your friend and she's angry with you.

Try calming down and think logically, if she is your friend then the only thing she wants is your wellbeing. Talk to her when the both of you have calmed down. The only way to solve this is by communicating. Tell her about your thoughts, what you really thing. Since she's still upset at you, give her a little space, she's probably still bitter about it too. If she says stuff you don't like, be patient and try too see what she really thinks. Please don't get angry again. It's only gonna make things harder.

Is she a good friend? If she is, then just have a little more faith in her. And yourself. Have faith that things are going to work out in the end. If you really want to do it, then there's always a way to do it, you just have to look harder.

i trust you to make the best descision. :)

Good luck and I hope that what I've said can help you out. :)

for me if am not married no one can control my life and tell me what to do or not..even if im married but in that case ill be more honstly with my man to tell him that at the beginin' ..
well maybe im wrong n that but everybody has hes/her way n livin nd that my way..cause nobody deserve to live ur life

well u can hope that things will blow over and avoid conflict...or u can sit down and talk to her. :D

that's pretty tough... i'd agree with limes-eye and Itami-Chan and try talking to your friend. explain to her that it was your decision, not hers. it's kind of hard to judge because we don't really know what happened, but just keep in mind that she probably cares about you (she IS your friend) and was only thinking in your best interest.

hmm.try to talk to her about it.
tellher y u didn't wantto.
there are something that u can't doo,bakeher cake,lol!!
just do break the friendship b/c of smething stupid.

Quote by Itami-Chanwell u can hope that things will blow over and avoid conflict...or u can sit down and talk to her. :D

yeah i agree, i bet you dont want to cause more problems with your friend, so you can probably confront her about the situation

Quote by darkAngel4evrhmm.try to talk to her about it.
tellher y u didn't wantto.
there are something that u can't doo,bakeher cake,lol!!
just do break the friendship b/c of smething stupid.


nope
just tell her...as you said she s not your mother...you're a reasonable person? tell her....just asume your act, don t be sorry

She'll get over it, if not, find a better friend.

Thank you everyone for your suggestions but i dunno if she is my friend anymore... because i have another problem with her... well there is this one i am talking about and there is another one... well there are a lot of pplz in the situation so i am going to use names but not their real name... ok i am a crush on this guy at my school and my friend banana has a crush on the other guy named orange and orange said "hello" to banana and all my other friends were like "awwwwwwwwwwwwwwwww" and then banana and i said "it was just a hello" and then when i said that the friend taht i am having the other problem with turned to my friend, apple and said that i was jealous of banana because orange said "hello" to her and i know about this because apple told me but anyway i dunno why she said that because she knows very well that i don't like orange and i like someone else. can you help me with this situation aswell?

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