I am a guy and Im a bit chubby just wondering if i have a chance lol

I am also refered to as a nerd by my peers but I guess they might be jealous of my grade point average. I am a really nice guy who want to enter a deep and meaningful relationship

I can make almost anyone laugh so Ive been told I have a good sense of humor

Also If intelligence is a bad thing in a relationship then count me out

yes you do
if the love is real then the woman should not judge you just because your chubby

Of course you have a chance. Girls usually judge more by why the guys personality is like and not my what they look like. So as long as you are a nice guy then you should be fine.
And also, chubby guys are more cuddly!!

there's always a chance as long as you're a nice guy ^_^ i hate it when people judge by just how someone looks. The nice guys are the best, and i see nothing wrong with a chubby guy, there's just a little more to love ^_^

of course you do. in fact, (w/holding any other variabes like richness or connections) you probably have a better chance of getting a girl who you know likes you for you. attractive people often have to question whether someone's interested in them for their looks or their hearts.

I hate it when people judge someone by the way they look. Its stupid. You have a good chance if your nice. I hate mean and rude guys no matter what they look like. And its great that your smart. There is absolutly nothing wrong with being smart either.

Quote by darkertruthof course you do. in fact, (w/holding any other variabes like richness
or connections) you probably have a better chance of getting a girl who
you know likes you for you. attractive people often have to question
whether someone's interested in them for their looks or their hearts.

i second that! i hate shallow people. for me personally, nice and intelligent are high on my list of traits i look for in a potential boyfriend. (along with a sense of humor XP) i know you'll find someone who can appreciate you for who you are and i wish you the best of luck on your search!

shouldn't be so self-conscious but then again,
its seems that fat kids have a harder time getting girls,
at lest the ones they want (learn to lower you expections lol)
anyways theres always hope as long as your not fugly XP
but you know, girls probably want a guy that they know will
live past 50 without a heart attack so get in better shape!

just how "chubby" are you. there's a line between chubby and fat. i hope you know that.

now lets switch shoes for a sec. would you date a "chubby" (according to your definition of chubby) girl. can you imagine walking down the street with her, going to a resturant with her, and being in the public's eye with her. if you say yes, then you have a chance. if no, do yourself a favor and remain single for life.

but you know what they say, nice guys finish last. girls like guys with a bit of mischief. they dont want a momma's boy who dont know how to have fun. so let loose and shake those jelly rolls!

O.k here's how it goes. Yes chicks like fit guys but yes you do have a chance on finding someone that will like you. There's all kinds of girls out there the thing is that you just have to find her. It might take awhile but a good realtionship always takes time to find. Plus if people put you down just cause your a bit cubby and smart just tell them to f**k off. My brothers kinda like you just that he's into guns. So don't rush to find someone and enjoy life for the mean time.

Hey you should have more confidence in your self! and of course there's a chance being intelligent should be a plus for you, So you go out there and you find yourself a girl!

Sure hon, everyone has a chance. ^_^ Most girls don't go so much by looks anyway. As long as you're a nice guy I'm sure you'll find someone who likes you.

Besides, chubbier guys are better to cuddle.

personally I think bigger men are better than toothpick men

of course there's a chance for you. you're intelligent and most definitely have a great personality, so with those two qualities alone you can find a lot of girls that would go for you. if a girl at first doesn't like you, dazzle her with your great knowledge and make your personality shine! ^_^ i'm very optimistic in these cases. you definitely have a chance. don't give up.

Well, sry for posting to this thread but I couldn't resist cause I'm myself quiet chubby guy myself.

Quote by burnoutbut you know what they say, nice guys finish last. girls like guys with a bit of mischief. they dont want a momma's boy who dont know how to have fun. so let loose and shake those jelly rolls!

that depends about the girl. But don't know why bad guys are so 'cool' but you are right that momma's boys have quiet bad luck (it seems it's going to be rly hard for me to find a girl).

Quote: know how to have fun

about that, what do you mean by knowing how to have fun? drinking alcohol?
If you meant that then I think you are wrong. Propably alcoholist is the last thing
anyone would want. Thou even if someone knows how to party doesn't immidiently mean
that they are alcoholists.
Well, in later in their life girls propably want trustful, loyal and nice person more than
some bad guy.

Of course you have a chance. ^.^ My boyfriend's a bit chubby and I lub the guy to death. ;-; Just be yourself, be kind, and you shouldn't have a problem. ^.^

Actually, it doesn't really matter about how much fat you have. At anime expo, I saw a guy propose on his knees to his obese girlfriend and he said that he was happy when she asked him out four years back.
You just have to find someone who likes you, and if she rejects you after you ask her out, then that girl isn't the one for you.

why not??
as long as you have good personality, girls will like you!
i'd prefer a nice chubby boy rather than an annoying slim and handsome boy

hmm..it depends on that girl though..
i don't think anyone could be perfect..just like other people say..that no one's perfect..
everyone has their own speciality and weakness..good and bad points..
well,if you're so worried about your looks,then go do something about it..like exercise maybe? but of course,don't over do it..
i don't think intelligence is a bad thing..you see,that might be the good point about you

hrmm..i have a friend who's kinda..big sized and chubby too..but last time i heard that some girls like him.haha.it was kinda shocking but as time goes by,it isn't anymore.btw,he's one guy alright..very socialable.it's easy to make friends with him as long as you don't make him angry.haha.you know,he has a tomato face.lol. he's kinda cute sometimes..but!..there's one thing..some people say that he mix a lot with girls..it's like he's always with them..but ah well,we can't force him right?he gets angry kinda easily too..
i have a friend who likes him..and he likes her too. that's what they told me about..some time ago? but now,i dunno..the guy said that they're not so close and the feeling seems to fade away.. i dunno la. i can't be such a busy body right?
anyway,you still have time. you're only 14! i know friends who were fat when they were young but they're now thin and tall.. growth.haha.

so,..don't worry so much okay? it still depends on the girl la.
..i'm not so sure about that..about when most of the girls don't go so much on guys' looks. sure,people always say that what's inside is most important..but they usually go for looks first..maybe later they'll be considering the guy's heart.i dunno much..i'm not very experienced . well i'm just saying out what i think about this.. no offence,k? it's not that i'd put ur hopes down about saying girls see more on guys' looks..well i mean like,say that it's you..do you see the girl's looks ..or the heart? well sure,what's in their heart is important too but people usually see their looks first,judging the book cover.. it is true that just judging someone on their looks is not good.people often get tricked by other's looks..only that they realised that what they've been doing was wrong..what they felt was just a fake feeling.

about your case,i'm sorry i can't help much but to just give what i think. remember, different people different thoughts... * that's what i always say..heh.
hope i helped! if i didn't manage to,then,i apologise.. oh my..it seems that i'm repeating my words overand over again eh? this is too long^_^' it's my very first,writing so long in mt..haha okay,i'll stop here.good luck btw^^ and sure,everyone's got a chance

sure you have a chance!!.. most of the girls are more interested in personality.. they want a carrying guy.. a guy that would love them.. the looks doesnt really matters!

Yes, definatly. I personally am not the skinniest thing so I know what's it's like to be judged by your looks, and I hate it. Besides aslong as you are nice and have a good personality that's all that matters. ^^

It all depends on what girls look for in there man. Most ppl I've known, like guys with great personality. So no matter what size you are, some1 will definitely luv you for you:)

YES! It also proves she really loves you for you. ^^ Good luck!

No offence, but this is a really retarded question. Are you suggesting that love is only partial to skinny people? Go for it, man!