Ok, I have a problem and yesterday I realized that I need to get help. I usally
don't like to ask for help, cause I feel like I'm "bothering" or being
a burden for other people... but...
I've been really depressed lately and I'm talking about a
"long-term-depression". I got "use" to it... I mean there
are people with worse problems out there... I have a roof over my head, food, my
family and friends (even though they are all far away now).
I had bad day and ok days. I knew that I had a problem, but I ignored it. It's
not like I'm taking drugs or drinking or doing something "stupid"...
The thing is last night I, for the first time, did something really stupid and I
don't know what to do now.
The point of this thread is to ask you people, "who do you talk to when you
are really sad, or who do you go and ask for help?"
I could also use some adivce concerning this as well.
I have a very good relation with my mom and I have to best friends ever... but I
can't turn to them. I can't make them worry about this. Especially not my mom. I
can't tell her...
Pretty much all my friends are in Argentina (I moved from Argentina to Denmark
one year ago). I'm also living alone here... my mom lives 250 km away.
I know I haven't mentioned the "stupid thing" I did... It just feels
too odd telling everyone here... I need someone to talk to, but I can't think of
anyone right now. It's easier telling this to you, cause I'm just a strager for
almost everyone here...
But you may talk to us here if you want to... and I/we'll gladly to help
someone! To tell you the truth girl, I'm too depressed to think over my
problems...
More like you should talk to someone you know really well and not some people
online...Because in a way it would be pretty weird having a stranger knowing all
these things...You should really talk to your parents or really close friends
about this...
Quote by FateDecidesMore like you
should talk to someone you know really well and not some people online...Because
in a way it would be pretty weird having a stranger knowing all these
things...You should really talk to your parents or really close friends about
this...
Yes what my friend say hear is right........I acually also having the same
problem as you....i am also sad about you.....please don't be angry at me if my
words hurt you...bye..and take care.... XP
Girl to me, my best advice, is for u to talk to your close friend since u don't
wanna worry your mom, depression times are really hard for someone, i special
had, and possibly have a lot of sad and drepession times. It may be hard for u,
well i'm sure is hard, but as a friend here on MT, if u need anything, anything
at all, don't feel worry of asking me anything, if i can i'l help u. Hope u get
better, so u just take care.
Thanks for your advices.
I will try to find someone... I'm just not sure who to talk to...
It's even harder when you are in a country with a weird language, as Danish, and
so many things are happenig so fast... But I guess that's just an excuse...
If you can't tell any of your close friends/family members your situation, you
could always turn to some net friends (?) and tell them your story, and ask for
their advice. I'm not sure how comfortable you are with talking to net
"strangers" about this, but I'm alright with it... Another thing ->
You shouldn't feel like you're burdening someone or bothering someone. You're
just asking for help and advice, and if the person thinks you're a bothersome,
that's just one mean person that doesnt deserve to be associated with you
Well there are professional counselors you could talk to, and even though all
your friends are in argentina you could email them right. But I kno that living
in denmark and having most of your friends in argentina definetly makes it hard.
If you want im always ready to listen to people, but thats only if you want.
Anyways I hope that everything gets worked out in the end!
Quote by hytokiriGirl to me, my best
advice, is for u to talk to your close friend since u don't wanna worry your
mom, depression times are really hard for someone, i special had, and possibly
have a lot of sad and drepession times. It may be hard for u, well i'm sure is
hard, but as a friend here on MT, if u need anything, anything at all, don't
feel worry of asking me anything, if i can i'l help u. Hope u get better, so u
just take care.
Same here if ur got any probs .. u can share it with me coz i got probs that i
cant do it alone and i need help too....... Hi Hytokiri!!! Y is it that I cant
get in on ur userpage(I dont know what is it called)??
well ill talk to you if you want as yesterday something happend to me and well
its not too good either actually it is very bad and im not sue what to think so
if you want to talk you can
Well, I guess you could spill it to a friend over IM. It may not compare to a
friend to hug or a shoulder to cry on, but I suppose it relieves some of that
tension. If you feel its of a serious nature, then you may want to seek
counselling. Just remember, whoever you're thinking of right now's got your
back, even if they are 250km or so away. So hang in there.
Quote by omnibladewell ill talk to you
if you want as yesterday something happend to me and well its not too good
either actually it is very bad and im not sue what to think so if you want to
talk you can
I want to help poeple just the same as poeple want to help me so Ill give the
best I can
I really dunno, people always come to me with their problems i usually keep it
to myself and figure it out by myself. So far i've solved all my problems but i
guess i would talk to my friend Grace, she's the one who always has a new
problems everyday and i help her with them, its pretty ironic but thats who i
would talk to.
Sometimes when I'm very sad and depressed, I talk to some net friend I like to
call Wizard. I tell him of everything that happens to me in my life, good and
bad things. He can talk to me about everything too.
And when I can't find him, something that helps me analize the situations and
calm myself down is writing.
It's not healthy for you to keep something inside that you don't feel good
about.
You should see a counselor, or if you don't really want to bother anyone,
just
write all you feeling in a personal notebook.
Emotions does not need to be vocalized, it can be written too.
you should ask for help. you wont be bothering them if you need help. if you
need to talk they should listen if they care about you and if they dont there is
someone who will.
If u are in a university u can talk to your teacher, u can get some good advices
for sure...
Or u can talk to dearest and nearest friend and u can open your heart for him/
her....
For me, maybe i will talk to my big sister, she will give some good and nice
suggestions and advices...
Sorry that i can't write more than that... wish u the best....
I really hope you feel better.
You are very couragous to even ask for help because i can't do that.
I hate seeing people depressed so I hope everything works out for you.
Quote by Rhonda21I really hope you feel
better.
You are very couragous to even ask for help because i can't do that.
I hate seeing people depressed so I hope everything works out for
you.
I feel the same way. Hope you can solve your problem. Good luck.
Quote by Rhonda21I really hope you feel
better.
You are very couragous to even ask for help because i can't do that.
I hate seeing people depressed so I hope everything works out for
you.
I feel the same way. Hope you can solve your problem. Good
luck.
same here!
Si queres podes hablar conmigo...ya se que soy una pendeja inmadura pero de vez
en cuando me ilumino y algo de sabiduria sale de mi linda cabezita.
Espero que se solucione todo
Serched... found nothing about this...
Ok, I have a problem and yesterday I realized that I need to get help. I usally don't like to ask for help, cause I feel like I'm "bothering" or being a burden for other people... but...
I've been really depressed lately and I'm talking about a "long-term-depression". I got "use" to it... I mean there are people with worse problems out there... I have a roof over my head, food, my family and friends (even though they are all far away now).
I had bad day and ok days. I knew that I had a problem, but I ignored it. It's not like I'm taking drugs or drinking or doing something "stupid"...
The thing is last night I, for the first time, did something really stupid and I don't know what to do now.
The point of this thread is to ask you people, "who do you talk to when you are really sad, or who do you go and ask for help?"
I could also use some adivce concerning this as well.
I have a very good relation with my mom and I have to best friends ever... but I can't turn to them. I can't make them worry about this. Especially not my mom. I can't tell her...
Pretty much all my friends are in Argentina (I moved from Argentina to Denmark one year ago). I'm also living alone here... my mom lives 250 km away.
I know I haven't mentioned the "stupid thing" I did... It just feels too odd telling everyone here... I need someone to talk to, but I can't think of anyone right now. It's easier telling this to you, cause I'm just a strager for almost everyone here...
Sorry about the long post...
Hmm... you should go to a councilor...
But you may talk to us here if you want to... and I/we'll gladly to help someone! To tell you the truth girl, I'm too depressed to think over my problems...
More like you should talk to someone you know really well and not some people online...Because in a way it would be pretty weird having a stranger knowing all these things...You should really talk to your parents or really close friends about this...
Yes what my friend say hear is right........I acually also having the same problem as you....i am also sad about you.....please don't be angry at me if my words hurt you...bye..and take care.... XP
Girl to me, my best advice, is for u to talk to your close friend since u don't wanna worry your mom, depression times are really hard for someone, i special had, and possibly have a lot of sad and drepession times. It may be hard for u, well i'm sure is hard, but as a friend here on MT, if u need anything, anything at all, don't feel worry of asking me anything, if i can i'l help u. Hope u get better, so u just take care.
Thanks for your advices.
I will try to find someone... I'm just not sure who to talk to...
It's even harder when you are in a country with a weird language, as Danish, and so many things are happenig so fast... But I guess that's just an excuse...
Thanks again!
If you can't tell any of your close friends/family members your situation, you could always turn to some net friends (?) and tell them your story, and ask for their advice. I'm not sure how comfortable you are with talking to net "strangers" about this, but I'm alright with it... Another thing -> You shouldn't feel like you're burdening someone or bothering someone. You're just asking for help and advice, and if the person thinks you're a bothersome, that's just one mean person that doesnt deserve to be associated with you
Well there are professional counselors you could talk to, and even though all your friends are in argentina you could email them right. But I kno that living in denmark and having most of your friends in argentina definetly makes it hard. If you want im always ready to listen to people, but thats only if you want. Anyways I hope that everything gets worked out in the end!
Same here if ur got any probs .. u can share it with me coz i got probs that i cant do it alone and i need help too....... Hi Hytokiri!!! Y is it that I cant get in on ur userpage(I dont know what is it called)??
well ill talk to you if you want as yesterday something happend to me and well its not too good either actually it is very bad and im not sue what to think so if you want to talk you can
Well, I guess you could spill it to a friend over IM. It may not compare to a friend to hug or a shoulder to cry on, but I suppose it relieves some of that tension. If you feel its of a serious nature, then you may want to seek counselling. Just remember, whoever you're thinking of right now's got your back, even if they are 250km or so away. So hang in there.
I want to help poeple just the same as poeple want to help me so Ill give the best I can
I really dunno, people always come to me with their problems i usually keep it to myself and figure it out by myself. So far i've solved all my problems but i guess i would talk to my friend Grace, she's the one who always has a new problems everyday and i help her with them, its pretty ironic but thats who i would talk to.
No body is perfect at least thats y there are other poeple coz 1 of the reasons is to help each other
Sometimes when I'm very sad and depressed, I talk to some net friend I like to call Wizard. I tell him of everything that happens to me in my life, good and bad things. He can talk to me about everything too.
And when I can't find him, something that helps me analize the situations and calm myself down is writing.
It's not healthy for you to keep something inside that you don't feel good about.
You should see a counselor, or if you don't really want to bother anyone, just
write all you feeling in a personal notebook.
Emotions does not need to be vocalized, it can be written too.
I agree.
you should ask for help. you wont be bothering them if you need help. if you need to talk they should listen if they care about you and if they dont there is someone who will.
If u are in a university u can talk to your teacher, u can get some good advices for sure...
Or u can talk to dearest and nearest friend and u can open your heart for him/ her....
For me, maybe i will talk to my big sister, she will give some good and nice suggestions and advices...
Sorry that i can't write more than that... wish u the best....
by makeing this thread you have taken a big step for helping yourself
I really hope you feel better.
You are very couragous to even ask for help because i can't do that.
I hate seeing people depressed so I hope everything works out for you.
I feel the same way. Hope you can solve your problem. Good luck.
same here!
Si queres podes hablar conmigo...ya se que soy una pendeja inmadura pero de vez en cuando me ilumino y algo de sabiduria sale de mi linda cabezita.
Espero que se solucione todo