Hmm...I know this topic might be a little touchy and i apologize to anyone i offend...but recently one of my close friend's mother passed away, and when anyone were to apologize for her loss she would always have a huge smile on her face and say..."its ok, she was a good mom" but she told me recently that inside she's so hurt and she's only masking up her sadness.

the question here is...what would you do if someone closed to you passed away?

i noe that i wouldn't mask up anything, i don't think i could even go to school.

If Someone Dear To Me Passed Away......Well I Don't Think I Would Cry Or Anything, But I Would Be Very Sad Or Depressed..... And What About You? How Would You Feel?

i would feel so sad...most likely depressed and if it was someone like my parents or sibling...i'd probably lock myself in my room and cry...

My advice might not be any good, but I would tell her just to let it all out.
Sometimes thats the best thing to do.

Quote by sEsShIeLov3Ri would feel so sad...most likely depressed and if it was someone like
my parents or sibling...i'd probably lock myself in my room and cry...

Like I Said I Wouldn't Cry, But Maybe I Would Lock Myself In My Room For Some Time......

Thats so sad. I don't even know what I would do if my mom passed away. I defentily wouldn't go to school. I don't think I would be in any condition to speak to anybody. But I would want someone there to comfort me and be by my side while I grieve. I'm so glad you sent me this thread. Me and my mom haven't been on the best of terms today. I sometimes take my mom for granted, like she'll always be here. I guess I should be a lot nicer to her. Well thanks again for sending me this thread. I wish your friend the best of luck.

Ja ne -_~

Had my stephfather (or whatever the right word for it is) pass away allmost 4 yrs from now.
Reading this I can only see how she responded in the same way I did. I was sad and all but continued to try and put a smile on my face and deal with it myself. I also kept going to school as I couldn't stand being at home where I would kept feeling sad. Everyone in school didn't even know about it untill the teacher in charge of my class announced it the day I was gone to the funeral. From what he told me later there were respones similar to yours and people couldn't understand that I would still go to school, but for me it was the only way to escape the sadness for a while and set my mind on something else.

Quote by ladyaiThats so sad. I don't even know what I would do if my mom passed away.
I defentily wouldn't go to school. I don't think I would be in any
condition to speak to anybody. But I would want someone there to
comfort me and be by my side while I grieve. I'm so glad you sent me
this thread. Me and my mom haven't been on the best of terms today. I
sometimes take my mom for granted, like she'll always be here. I guess
I should be a lot nicer to her. Well thanks again for sending me this
thread. I wish your friend the best of luck. Ja ne -_~

yea made me think that i shouldnt take my parents for granted because they can be gone just like that

I would probably be non-stop crying. I can't really help myself. But I wouldn't ever think about not going to school for a while. My mom wants me to keep going on with my education, so I would clearly go, if my parents passed away. Depression is really sad. I've never been depressed for a long time before.

I can't describe my sadness. It would waste an entire life, everyone who dies shouldn't have.

I would be so very hurt , sad, and depressed. but I would remember that they lived a good life and would smile for that

I'd be really confused. I wouldn't know what to feel but eventually I'll start breaking down emotionally. I'd be really depressed afterwards but I'll always remember of the good times we shared so that'll make me happy when I'm down.

i just have to forget it and keep it all deep inside my heart

i have been there the pain of the loss almost killed me