"Boyfriends are like Tamagotchis...if you don't give them enough attention,
they lose interest in you."
He's done stuff like this before, and the last time he did, I asked him about
it, and he just said, "no, no, I wasn't trying to tell you something, it
was just a general truth."
Right
I really don't know how I should react to this sort of stuff.... help?
Lol, well i have heard of the guy having this problem but never the lady. Me and
my GF had this problem when we first started dating. i am dense when it comes to
readin her. She would hint and hint and hint then finally realize that i wasnt
getting the message and start yelling at me finally i sat her down and said
"Sweety, im dense, you have to tell me what you want, dont hint at
it." So i think that either you could pretend you dont notice it, and he
will eventually just give up, or you could sit him down and say "stop it,
that really ticks me off."
Edit: For a relationship to succeed, constant communication is needed. If you
dont like something you have to tell him about it or else he wont be able to do
anything about it
AyatoPryde is right, just be straight about how you feel, i know i sometimes
give off subtle hints that annoy my bf and he does the same to me ^^; after a
big fight (which I admit, was caused by me overreacting to something he hinted
at) we decided to be more honest (blunt maybe would be a better word), beating
around bush bad so just tell him to say what he means and if he doesnt mean
anything, why the heck is he giving off those 'general truths'
that tamagatchi one is along the same lines of what I blew up about with my bf
actually.....people can be weird (i wont say just men since i know ive done it
too)...
Corner him and ask him and tell him that you wanna know why he'd write such a
thing. Cause to me it definitly sound like a hint.. A huge one at that. Good
luck. ^^;
I hate it when my boyfriend does this...
Today he had this quote in his AIM profile:
"Boyfriends are like Tamagotchis...if you don't give them enough attention, they lose interest in you."
He's done stuff like this before, and the last time he did, I asked him about it, and he just said, "no, no, I wasn't trying to tell you something, it was just a general truth."
Right
I really don't know how I should react to this sort of stuff.... help?
if it really bothers you he should stop for your sake Im sure if you were annoying him he would want you to stop
Lol, well i have heard of the guy having this problem but never the lady. Me and my GF had this problem when we first started dating. i am dense when it comes to readin her. She would hint and hint and hint then finally realize that i wasnt getting the message and start yelling at me finally i sat her down and said "Sweety, im dense, you have to tell me what you want, dont hint at it." So i think that either you could pretend you dont notice it, and he will eventually just give up, or you could sit him down and say "stop it, that really ticks me off."
Edit: For a relationship to succeed, constant communication is needed. If you dont like something you have to tell him about it or else he wont be able to do anything about it
AyatoPryde is right, just be straight about how you feel, i know i sometimes give off subtle hints that annoy my bf and he does the same to me ^^; after a big fight (which I admit, was caused by me overreacting to something he hinted at) we decided to be more honest (blunt maybe would be a better word), beating around bush bad so just tell him to say what he means and if he doesnt mean anything, why the heck is he giving off those 'general truths'
that tamagatchi one is along the same lines of what I blew up about with my bf actually.....people can be weird (i wont say just men since i know ive done it too)...
he ain't mature enough not to understand that others might give it a different meaning, far from what he thought it meant..
Corner him and ask him and tell him that you wanna know why he'd write such a thing. Cause to me it definitly sound like a hint.. A huge one at that. Good luck. ^^;