okay umm. . . . here is the story i know this guy . . we are kinda close realy
close . . and i moved but we have been keeping in toch and i finaly get to see
him again. and i kissed him but someone saw. . .this other girl. and she got
angry and walked off. he gets his depressed look on his face and trys to go
after her i jrab his arm and ask who in the world she is. he looks down. and i
tell him he has to tell me who he realy likes and he looks at the floor like its
the first time he saw grass. then i let him think about what i said and go find
his sis to take us home. so i want to know who you think is right my boy
friend. the other girl. or me. plzz be trueful.
i would have to say that you and this other girl are innocent bystandards. your
boy friend obviously has something on his mind that he wants nobody to know.
this other girl thought that she had it cut out for her but was angry when she
saw it. i dont think you or her is in the wrong. its your boyfriend that needs
to give answers unless the that girl persuaded him to do something he shouldnt
have, in which case she would be the culprit. how was this kiss anyways?
er....sounds vague....still
is the other girl a long time accomplice, long time friend with feelings...?
as in during all this time you are with him, has she ever appeared more
important than you in his mind...?
have you ever in anyway seem to get intimate with him or is this your first
try?
is that why he could not be sure, because he only sees you as a really close
friend and invested his feelings on the other girl?
i see....so that makes the two of ou rivals....
but however, really close can mean something different, ever asked him out
intimately?
coz if that is the case, he should be able or should directly be in BF mode with
you....
it seems the other girl in this case may be a very good friend instead who has
hidden feelings or perhaps just professed....the feelings
just a methaphor....
what i am saying is that the situation above can be interchanged between you and
the girl!
nice to see you enjoy the kiss....deepthroat...??(eechi laughing sound)
so really like that, but only several times......
From what I heard, you worry about right and wrong to much. Such things are a
collaberative decision between the two of you. And it may not be that he is
trying to hide something as much as he doesn't know what to say, or is
confused.
I'll just say one more thing. Life is so short for all of us, is there any need
to fret about these small things in life that we seem to make into a big deal.
Live life as it comes, and take advantage of what is given to you and not fret
what you cannot control. Don't worry about who or what she is, do what you want
to do. Otherwise, you'll never be happy.
i think your bf is the wrong one.because you and that girl didn't knew he had an
other gf. how could you do something wrong if you had(have) a relation with him
for 1 whole year(i think thats quite long) okay if you knew he had a gf (and you
wasn't his gf in the first place)and then kissed him you're the wrong one. but
you are his gf so you didn't do something wrong at al.
and you're right he have to explain who he likes more. i hope he likes you the
mostXP
i hope it work out fine^_~
good luck!!!
ok trouble! You should ask him and make him talk....and for the way you said he
react..she semed like her girlfriend or something...and as you know...that's not
a good thing....well good luck solving your problem!
wow. that sucks. im in a similar situation. some girl asked me out and i said
yes because i like her. then my other friend asks me out and i told her im
already taken and she runs off and says she hates me, another girl said she
liked me just out of the blue, i found out last friday that some other girl
likes me, and im having a bit of a nervous breakdown right now.
well if i were you i would confront this girl and just politely ask why she
acted that way. and if it happens to be the BF's 2 timing fualt, you two could
team up and beat the sh*t out of him.
Ok... I don't really like to give advice on this kind of sentimental thing, but
I really think you guys are all very confused. To tell you the truth, you've
acted very mature, imho, giving him the chance to explain and all. But I also
think he's not being honest to you and maybe not even to himself. As for the
other girl... I have no idea of what part she plays in this, since you have no
idea either (you said you don't know her, never seen her before) It's ok to
think things over and not to act in a rush of anger, but honestly, you should
start thinking about getting another bf. Mainly because you don't trust him
anymore and chances are you never get your confidence back if you stay together.
Anyways, that's what I think. I hope I could help you somehow.
okay umm. . . . here is the story i know this guy . . we are kinda close realy close . . and i moved but we have been keeping in toch and i finaly get to see him again. and i kissed him but someone saw. . .this other girl. and she got angry and walked off. he gets his depressed look on his face and trys to go after her i jrab his arm and ask who in the world she is. he looks down. and i tell him he has to tell me who he realy likes and he looks at the floor like its the first time he saw grass. then i let him think about what i said and go find his sis to take us home. so i want to know who you think is right my boy friend. the other girl. or me. plzz be trueful.
i would have to say that you and this other girl are innocent bystandards. your boy friend obviously has something on his mind that he wants nobody to know. this other girl thought that she had it cut out for her but was angry when she saw it. i dont think you or her is in the wrong. its your boyfriend that needs to give answers unless the that girl persuaded him to do something he shouldnt have, in which case she would be the culprit. how was this kiss anyways?
er....sounds vague....still
is the other girl a long time accomplice, long time friend with feelings...?
as in during all this time you are with him, has she ever appeared more important than you in his mind...?
have you ever in anyway seem to get intimate with him or is this your first try?
is that why he could not be sure, because he only sees you as a really close friend and invested his feelings on the other girl?
to swiftsword: it was wonderful *sighs* and my 2nd kiss.
to devildude: i had never seen her before.
i see....so that makes the two of ou rivals....
but however, really close can mean something different, ever asked him out intimately?
coz if that is the case, he should be able or should directly be in BF mode with you....
it seems the other girl in this case may be a very good friend instead who has hidden feelings or perhaps just professed....the feelings
just a methaphor....
what i am saying is that the situation above can be interchanged between you and the girl!
nice to see you enjoy the kiss....deepthroat...??(eechi laughing sound)
so really like that, but only several times......
LOL your Bf is a bastard( NO offense) but honestly girls are not toys! I was a girl i would just dump him!
To Devildude: I have known him for 2 years and we have been bf/gf for 1 year. He asked me.
To UmazakiFury: i am leting him explan
From what I heard, you worry about right and wrong to much. Such things are a collaberative decision between the two of you. And it may not be that he is trying to hide something as much as he doesn't know what to say, or is confused.
I'll just say one more thing. Life is so short for all of us, is there any need to fret about these small things in life that we seem to make into a big deal. Live life as it comes, and take advantage of what is given to you and not fret what you cannot control. Don't worry about who or what she is, do what you want to do. Otherwise, you'll never be happy.
LOL your answer is silly! If i was you i would rather beat him up untill his death than saying wopuld you explain it!
LOL your answer is silly! If i was you i would rather beat him up untill his death than saying wopuld you explain it!
well i just want to know who he likes more me or her.
i think your bf is the wrong one.because you and that girl didn't knew he had an other gf. how could you do something wrong if you had(have) a relation with him for 1 whole year(i think thats quite long) okay if you knew he had a gf (and you wasn't his gf in the first place)and then kissed him you're the wrong one. but you are his gf so you didn't do something wrong at al.
and you're right he have to explain who he likes more. i hope he likes you the mostXP
i hope it work out fine^_~
good luck!!!
i am with mizu for this one, your boyfriend is obviously in the wrong from his reactions. i hope it all works out in favour of you ^^
ok trouble! You should ask him and make him talk....and for the way you said he react..she semed like her girlfriend or something...and as you know...that's not a good thing....well good luck solving your problem!
Hmm its just like in soinap opera. Sorry but i m not big help in this situations.I think....urm mayby no nevermind
wow. that sucks. im in a similar situation. some girl asked me out and i said yes because i like her. then my other friend asks me out and i told her im already taken and she runs off and says she hates me, another girl said she liked me just out of the blue, i found out last friday that some other girl likes me, and im having a bit of a nervous breakdown right now.
well if i were you i would confront this girl and just politely ask why she acted that way. and if it happens to be the BF's 2 timing fualt, you two could team up and beat the sh*t out of him.
Ok... I don't really like to give advice on this kind of sentimental thing, but I really think you guys are all very confused. To tell you the truth, you've acted very mature, imho, giving him the chance to explain and all. But I also think he's not being honest to you and maybe not even to himself. As for the other girl... I have no idea of what part she plays in this, since you have no idea either (you said you don't know her, never seen her before) It's ok to think things over and not to act in a rush of anger, but honestly, you should start thinking about getting another bf. Mainly because you don't trust him anymore and chances are you never get your confidence back if you stay together. Anyways, that's what I think. I hope I could help you somehow.
the problem is that i know i really love him and only him. i don't want to lose him.