Hey guys, I have a bit of a problem. Me and my girlfriend have been seeing each
other for like a month now. Things started great, went out whenever I could. But
things are different now, when we're together it's all great. But when we're at
school, or work, she seems distant. I dunno it's hard to explain, it's like I
get the cold shoulder. Now I'm sitting here trying to figure out if I did
anything wrong. I mean, I treat her well. I don't crowd her or anything. I
dunno, any opinions would help.
Have you ever thought about asking her? It would be the easiest way to know if
you did something wrong. Maybe she is having some family problem or something.
just try talking to her.
the worst you can do is get angry about it, which i don't think you are.
just let her know that you've noticed her acting wierd and that you're
concerned.
You've probably already thought about talking to her about why she distances her
self from, so here so thoughts about what it might be.
She may feel the need for a separation between her friends and you
She may be ashamed of you and wish to keep the fact you to are dating secret
She may have another boyfriend that she doesnâ?t want you to know
about
So to put it lightly need to talk to her or these thoughts will keep coming up
to ruin your relationship with her
I hope I Help you.
Thanks everyone. I have talked to her about it, and she just passes it off like
nothing's wrong. Though I will talk to her and find out exactly how she feels,
and determine wether or not it's a good thing to keep seeing each other.
I had exactly the same problem as you, and I actually couldn't figure it out,
even though I talked to her. But, yes, I still recommend talking. All the best
^.^
Quote by jasaiyajinIs she or has she
ever been depressed? Any other psyche problems in the past
Cathal?
No it's not that. I'm positive about that to say the least.
I'm gonna talk to her the next time I see her. I want to know if I did anything
wrong, I just want to know period. Because it's getting to me. I think somedays
I should follow my own advice, I mean I've had close friends come to me with
their relationship problems, and I've helped them out the best I could. I would
always ask them "Are you happy? If you can answer yes without hesitation,
then it's worth working out. If not, then you should get out. Because in the
end, is it really worth it to be unhappy for as long as your together?" For
me I did a lot of thinking about this, and right now I can safely say that I'm
not happy. Perhaps I shouldn't let my desire to be with someone, cloud my
judgement, and put a blanket on my feelings.
Hey guys, I have a bit of a problem. Me and my girlfriend have been seeing each other for like a month now. Things started great, went out whenever I could. But things are different now, when we're together it's all great. But when we're at school, or work, she seems distant. I dunno it's hard to explain, it's like I get the cold shoulder. Now I'm sitting here trying to figure out if I did anything wrong. I mean, I treat her well. I don't crowd her or anything. I dunno, any opinions would help.
Have you ever thought about asking her? It would be the easiest way to know if you did something wrong. Maybe she is having some family problem or something.
just try talking to her.
the worst you can do is get angry about it, which i don't think you are.
just let her know that you've noticed her acting wierd and that you're concerned.
Yup, like they said, talk to her. Asked what's wrong and help her with it.
You've probably already thought about talking to her about why she distances her self from, so here so thoughts about what it might be.
She may feel the need for a separation between her friends and you
She may be ashamed of you and wish to keep the fact you to are dating secret
She may have another boyfriend that she doesnâ?t want you to know about
So to put it lightly need to talk to her or these thoughts will keep coming up to ruin your relationship with her
I hope I Help you.
Thanks everyone. I have talked to her about it, and she just passes it off like nothing's wrong. Though I will talk to her and find out exactly how she feels, and determine wether or not it's a good thing to keep seeing each other.
Is she or has she ever been depressed? Any other psyche problems in the past Cathal?
I had exactly the same problem as you, and I actually couldn't figure it out, even though I talked to her. But, yes, I still recommend talking. All the best ^.^
No it's not that. I'm positive about that to say the least.
I'm gonna talk to her the next time I see her. I want to know if I did anything wrong, I just want to know period. Because it's getting to me. I think somedays I should follow my own advice, I mean I've had close friends come to me with their relationship problems, and I've helped them out the best I could. I would always ask them "Are you happy? If you can answer yes without hesitation, then it's worth working out. If not, then you should get out. Because in the end, is it really worth it to be unhappy for as long as your together?" For me I did a lot of thinking about this, and right now I can safely say that I'm not happy. Perhaps I shouldn't let my desire to be with someone, cloud my judgement, and put a blanket on my feelings.