i have and feel really sad about this because I hurted my best friend.
Why?
because of my irresponsability.
everything happened on fisic class as always i was doing nothing and the teacher
came and ask me for my activity and i said to him that a frien borrow my
notebook. so i went to the olace where my friend sits and i asked her for her
notebook ´cause i was doing nothing, she as the good friend she is
lended me her notebook, i thouhg that the teacher wouldn´t realize
but he did it so he gave us the failing grade and my friend got angry with me
and now i´m feeling very very bad.
Hmm..there is a particular person i love, but I cat quite mean to him...but a
more serious example would be a certain person I loved admitted to loving me. I
lied and told him I didn't love him. He was very sad, but I was even more so. I
don't even know why I did that! I feel extremmely stupid for saying that.
hmmm... im sure i have done that many times... many more than i remember... my
best friend and i got into a fight because we dont go to the same school anymore
and we used to barely ever see each other... even though we are next door
neighbors.... so one day we made a date that we were gunna hang out watch movies
and just have fun... and i ended up completely forgetting and going to this
other kids house... she was so upset and i felt so bad... were okay now
though... you learn to forgive each other... something like this will probably
happen again, but you just have to learn that your friendship is more important
that something like a grade! hope this helped... ill talk to you later
hopefully!
I used to be manipulative and was darksided and walked over my friends and
family. Im not that person now and they know that but still haunts me a bit.
Quote by glassheartHmm..there is a
particular person i love, but I cat quite mean to him...but a more serious
example would be a certain person I loved admitted to loving me. I lied and told
him I didn't love him. He was very sad, but I was even more so. I don't even
know why I did that! I feel extremmely stupid for saying that.
That's easy to fix. Just tell him that you DO love him and that you were very
confused and now it is clear and your sorry that it had to be hard for him now
kiss me you fool !
Actually, I think it's pretty much a fact that you only really ever hurt the
people you love. If you don't love some one, it becomes hard to hurt them unless
it's malicious. Having friends and lovers and loved ones allows these people to
get inside your bubble and you to get inside theirs. This is how the damage is
done. Always try and repair the damage that you have done as fast as possible as
the guilt of this stuff will hang around for ever.
But yes, I have definately hurt people I love. Too often. People have hurt me in
the past as well but in general I forgive them all and I can only hope that they
wish the same for me.
Quote by jlpg i have and feel really sad
about this because I hurted my best friend.
Why?
because of my irresponsability.
everything happened on fisic class as always i was doing nothing and the teacher
came and ask me for my activity and i said to him that a frien borrow my
notebook. so i went to the olace where my friend sits and i asked her for her
notebook ´cause i was doing nothing, she as the good
friend she is lended me her notebook, i thouhg that the teacher
wouldn´t realize but he did it so he gave us the failing
grade and my friend got angry with me and now i´m feeling
very very bad.
have something similar happened to you?
It happened to me a lot of time. But don't worry, just let time pass and your
friend will realize by herself that all this was because of the teacher's
authority and then forgive you. Don't rush things, just let her cool herself,
then reason will reappear.
But I don't discuse your teacher's authority either, your teacher should have
done this because he/she should show that he/she should be respected. If anyone
can do anything, things will turn into chaos in the classroom.
But punishing you just because of a notebook was also severe. For this case, I'm
with you.
hmmm...I had it the other way round, and also I can be quite realistic sometimes
and it hurts people. With my friends I will stand up for myself but to the point
when I'm hurting my friend ( not physically obviously.)
well..at the beginning when i came together with my bf..i dunno why i was with
him into a relationship..coz i didnt loved him..he was like nothing special in
my life..i only was thinking about myself....so when i was at his home i was on
icq+chatted with <nother boy..and i was more into him then my bf....after all
he found it out...i hurted him so much...but he forgived me--but still i feel
sorry
well in order for me to save someone close to me i had to leave her she had
loved me very much but i had to let her go (parents disapproved ) she almost
killed herself so i left her to start over her life with someone
else..........well u always hurt the one you love and that's true
Hunny, yeah, I guess we all do that sometimes ya? Hurt the ones you love... for
me... I am the bad omen of the familyl... always hurting ppl emotionally and
stuff... mostly my clostest love ones.
Yeah. I hate to say it but i hurt my parents and siblings most of the time.But
it seems that we're only human and never perfect. Isn't that what makes life
beautiful? Forgive and strive for the best is the key
i have and feel really sad about this because I hurted my best friend.
Why?
because of my irresponsability.
everything happened on fisic class as always i was doing nothing and the teacher came and ask me for my activity and i said to him that a frien borrow my notebook. so i went to the olace where my friend sits and i asked her for her notebook ´cause i was doing nothing, she as the good friend she is lended me her notebook, i thouhg that the teacher wouldn´t realize but he did it so he gave us the failing grade and my friend got angry with me and now i´m feeling very very bad.
have something similar happened to you?
Hmm..there is a particular person i love, but I cat quite mean to him...but a more serious example would be a certain person I loved admitted to loving me. I lied and told him I didn't love him. He was very sad, but I was even more so. I don't even know why I did that! I feel extremmely stupid for saying that.
erm, not really but I've felt it the other way around, I got hurt instead
I have not I think I could have in the past i just forget.
hmmm... im sure i have done that many times... many more than i remember... my best friend and i got into a fight because we dont go to the same school anymore and we used to barely ever see each other... even though we are next door neighbors.... so one day we made a date that we were gunna hang out watch movies and just have fun... and i ended up completely forgetting and going to this other kids house... she was so upset and i felt so bad... were okay now though... you learn to forgive each other... something like this will probably happen again, but you just have to learn that your friendship is more important that something like a grade! hope this helped... ill talk to you later hopefully!
I used to be manipulative and was darksided and walked over my friends and family. Im not that person now and they know that but still haunts me a bit.
I've hurt a handful of people that I hold close to me. As a punishment I have a scar to remind me of that time about 3 years ago now^^
That's easy to fix. Just tell him that you DO love him and that you were very confused and now it is clear and your sorry that it had to be hard for him now kiss me you fool !
Always! Almost due to my icy attitude...i hate myself X(
Actually, I think it's pretty much a fact that you only really ever hurt the people you love. If you don't love some one, it becomes hard to hurt them unless it's malicious. Having friends and lovers and loved ones allows these people to get inside your bubble and you to get inside theirs. This is how the damage is done. Always try and repair the damage that you have done as fast as possible as the guilt of this stuff will hang around for ever.
But yes, I have definately hurt people I love. Too often. People have hurt me in the past as well but in general I forgive them all and I can only hope that they wish the same for me.
It happened to me a lot of time. But don't worry, just let time pass and your friend will realize by herself that all this was because of the teacher's authority and then forgive you. Don't rush things, just let her cool herself, then reason will reappear.
But I don't discuse your teacher's authority either, your teacher should have done this because he/she should show that he/she should be respected. If anyone can do anything, things will turn into chaos in the classroom.
But punishing you just because of a notebook was also severe. For this case, I'm with you.
Hmm yes, i went to tell everyone in class about "something" concerning him, in the end he got pretty angry, now were are fine again...
hmmm...I had it the other way round, and also I can be quite realistic sometimes and it hurts people. With my friends I will stand up for myself but to the point when I'm hurting my friend ( not physically obviously.)
I punched my brother the other day
But seriously, this girl I used to like too a compliment wrong and cryed... So, yeah I have hurt someone I loved
Uhmmmmmmm Not really they had hurt me for me the question would be different
well..at the beginning when i came together with my bf..i dunno why i was with him into a relationship..coz i didnt loved him..he was like nothing special in my life..i only was thinking about myself....so when i was at his home i was on icq+chatted with <nother boy..and i was more into him then my bf....after all he found it out...i hurted him so much...but he forgived me--but still i feel sorry
well in order for me to save someone close to me i had to leave her she had loved me very much but i had to let her go (parents disapproved ) she almost killed herself so i left her to start over her life with someone else..........well u always hurt the one you love and that's true
Yes I have. And I regrett it. But now I can't take it back nor make up for it. Sucks to be me.
yeah definitely...almost all the time, i got to change that bad habit..it's killing me & 'em *hiks-hiks*
I always hurt people I love. No idea why... but somehow I want to be sure they still love me even though I am mean.
Hunny, yeah, I guess we all do that sometimes ya? Hurt the ones you love... for me... I am the bad omen of the familyl... always hurting ppl emotionally and stuff... mostly my clostest love ones.
yea I hurt my mon when I run away fron home last year ago man I'm sorry mon
Yeah. I hate to say it but i hurt my parents and siblings most of the time.But it seems that we're only human and never perfect. Isn't that what makes life beautiful? Forgive and strive for the best is the key
i know im a burden to my family...i feel like i should get my own place but i think im afraid of the outside world