omg!
i couldn't beleive it, i like this gut he is sooo hot, but it end that he likes
gay guy,or think he is.
i saw him with another guy and they were holding hands!
it sux!
what should i do?
hey, dun feel stoopid...
u kno wut they say, "the good ones are always gay" 0__o
lol jus jokin ^__~
maybe hes bi, or jus experimenting?
mind if i ask how old?
if hes young, then he might not be 100%...
and even if he was, it might not be too late to 'convert' em hehe ^__~
u can try to go up to him and talk to him...
try to pick up on any signals...*gaydar alert!* @__@ lol
weeeellll, u can't really tell if someone is gay jus by talkin to em,
but maybe u might be able to see if theres any connection between u and
him
to flirt or not to flirt, that is the question ^__^
thats a tough call...
i would say jus start talkin to em, and depending if things r goin good or
not,
then maybe u can try to start flirting
dun try to stress too much about it,
there will be plenty of other guys who r not gay ^___~
HAHAHAHAHAAHAHAHHA damn that suxs dark,well maybe you can find ya self a
straight guy,as they say theres plenty fish in the sea lol
oh and yes you can tell if a guy is gay by talking to them its common
sense when they sound like a girl,and just ask around,dont ask the guy,cuz if he
aint then he would be pissed lol
Hey, the hottest guys are gay! ^-^ No, but seriously...don't feel bad. He's just
not the right guy for you is all. We make mistakes...and in this case, it's not
your fault for liking a guy who happens to like a guy.
Maybe you were at the wrong place at the wrong time. See if you can be sure he's
gay or not before jumping to conclusions...I've feminine-like guy friends who
are straight but...well...feminine? (think it's
"metrosexual")
But I must say...it's coincidental that all the gay guys that have come to my
attention are really good-looking THis has
nothing to do with this topic, though...^-^"
LOL.well theres a saying the good ones are gay.but by him holding aonther guy's
hand...i think you shouldnt jump to conclusions too quickly and observer him
some more to be sure he really is gay
This is very common, don't feel stupid. Gay guys are such great friends and can
be very hot too. So if you're not friends him already, become friends with him.
Aaah, i once fell for a lesbian.
Anyhow, do you know the guy personally, or do you just think he's hot? Cause if
you know him personally, I could kinda understand your position. You're probably
going "he would make such a great STRAIGHT guy."
I know how you feel. It happened to me, twice! When I was in high school I just
didn't have Gay Radar! I couldn't tell when a guy was gay. I mean I was really
good friends with these guys, I should have know. Everyone else did! I
eventually told the guys how I felt about them and then they told me they were
gay and I felt totally stupid! At least it
was easier to get over the rejection then it would have been for a straight guy!
Also I am still really good friends will the two guys I didn't know were gay. It
is still weird though to hear about their boyfriends.
I've been in your exactly same position, but in the other way 'round... I am the
Gay Guy, and the girls are attracted to me. And they say that it's not fair,
that they can make me a 'real man' (what the hell is being a 'real man' anyway),
and even they say that it's unnatural.
If they knew that I didn't chose it... It just happened, so, I had to accept the
fact that it wont change ever. The only thing that I can do is be respectful
with the ones who loves me and trying not to be a pain in the ass all the time,
makin' my friends being embarrased about my behavour and things like
that.
Well, I hope you find the right guy, 'cause it's probably out there...
PS: If you're gonna be friend of the gay guy, really mean it. I mean, if you get
near him just for trying to 'getting him in the bright side of force', I tell
you: that's impossible. And you'll gonna be torn apart, and your haert and soul
will suffer a long long time. But if you really want to be his friend (just a
friend), go ahead. I think you wont regret it.
well, the question is easy well respond... FORGET ABOUT IT... I happen to
experience the same thing... but i wasn't dribbling for him...
He was gay, when he told me that, it happened when the Coyote goes wrong trying
to catch the rider:S My world fell apart:S
The next thing i thought was: shame shame:S
jejeje, it happens, nobody's perfect.
So forget about it, he wont look u if u dont like him. That's the thing that a
gay guy would tell u... "I only kiss a girl if she's hot, or if she's my
woman type, and u're my type:)":p
so, if he hasn't tell u that... or u r not his friend... wella wella, say
goodbye and like a quote said in my language:
"Ma' palante vive gente y somo bueno lo vecino"
"Foward live more pple and the neigbhor are better..."
I can recommend you one thing... FORGET HIM, because even if he is not gay he
can be a bisexual and that sort of "man" can become a real nightmare
if you fall in love with him.
I had met a lot of good women who had a boyfriend or even a husband who was
bisexual and these men never stop their lasciviousness, not for a woman or for
their children, they expand the sexual diseases and lie to their wifes, in fact
they hide behind their marriages and had lovers of their same sex because they
"sort of" like women but enjoy sex with man... can you believe this? I
hate this sort of people, but the worse part is that gays and lesbians had the
guts to say "yes I'm gay" and they face the human prejudices and fight
for their rights, this people had courage while bisexual people don't. So, if
you remotely find a gay guy attractive... it would be better if you took some
distance from this man because you can get deeply hurt, he can be a good friend
but you can end up like the female character of "The object of my
affection" (if you haven't seen the movie I highly recommended it to you),
or he can be a bisexual and you can end up like my cousin Paola... she found her
husband (after ONE week of marriage) having sex with his best friend and
wedding's bestman in her house and on top of her bed and her son was -at that time- 6 years
old... her son could had arrive from school early to find his uncle and
stepfather having sex... ughh it's disgusting just to think about that.
If anyone got offended I'm half sorry, because I had seen too much suffering
(thanks to my gay uncle who was used by bisexual men and my cousin Paola who
suffered a lot too) from these people to feel compasion for them, and thanks to
them women suffer, children suffer but their never stop their behaviors. I meet
once a marriage of two bisexual people and their sons and daughters felt shame
thanks to their parents and they suffered because they knew that their parents
weren't normal and that they had lovers of the same sex... I was 13 years old at
that time and I can still remember my friends shame when her mom looked at a
girl and said "look at that girl and those "breasts" (she said
another word but it's too strong to be writed in daylight lol)... she's sooo
hot" mmmm poor girl I felt shame and she wasn't my relative, her mother
looked at that girl as if the girl was an excelent dessert.
Well that all I can tell you, it will hurt for a while but in the end you can
find a real man to love who can give you the pleasure that only a man who really
likes females can give (or you can end up like the wife of Heath Ledger in the
movie "Brokeback mountain"... living a nightmare thanks to a selfish
man). Feelings and emotions are very delicate and if you love someone who can't
love you with the same strenght back you will suffer a lot, so sometimes it's
better to stop you emotions while you can still can control them and leave
behind those feelings that can become the key of your self-destruction, gay men
can be splendid friends, I had meet some who were extremely good looking and
inteligent, you can had a great time with them as friends because they are
-usually- sensitive and good mannered and they can give you great advice when
it's needed, but they will never love you as a woman so it's the best to be just
their friend and nothing more.
I hope that my advice can be of some help to you, I had never been in this
situation but I can imagine how you're feeling. Don't feel stupid, it's normal
for a woman to feel interested in men... even if he's gay because he is a man
after all and by nature it's normal to feel attaction to the opposite sex.
hahahahah....i dont blame you for liking gay guys....gay guys are the once who
usually dresses so decent.....they have style and edge...their hair are always
neat and clean...they always smell good.........but well....they like guys...and
there's SOOOOOO LITTLE chance that they'll fall for a girl.....that's the
problem......
Quote by diana86hahahahah....i dont blame
you for liking gay guys....gay guys are the once who usually dresses so
decent.....they have style and edge...their hair are always neat and
clean...they always smell good.........but well....they like guys...and there's
SOOOOOO LITTLE chance that they'll fall for a girl.....that's the
problem......
hmmm.. taht is sooo true. but, what can i do?
i'm going to use the other person's advise and just be friends.
omg!
i couldn't beleive it, i like this gut he is sooo hot, but it end that he likes gay guy,or think he is.
i saw him with another guy and they were holding hands!
it sux!
what should i do?
hey, dun feel stoopid...
u kno wut they say, "the good ones are always gay" 0__o
lol jus jokin ^__~
maybe hes bi, or jus experimenting?
mind if i ask how old?
if hes young, then he might not be 100%...
and even if he was, it might not be too late to 'convert' em hehe ^__~
u can try to go up to him and talk to him...
try to pick up on any signals...*gaydar alert!* @__@ lol
weeeellll, u can't really tell if someone is gay jus by talkin to em,
but maybe u might be able to see if theres any connection between u and him
to flirt or not to flirt, that is the question ^__^
thats a tough call...
i would say jus start talkin to em, and depending if things r goin good or not,
then maybe u can try to start flirting
dun try to stress too much about it,
there will be plenty of other guys who r not gay ^___~
HAHAHAHAHAAHAHAHHA damn that suxs dark,well maybe you can find ya self a straight guy,as they say theres plenty fish in the sea lol
oh and yes you can tell if a guy is gay by talking to them
its common
sense when they sound like a girl,and just ask around,dont ask the guy,cuz if he
aint then he would be pissed lol
OMG that sucks ass i mean its already bad if he has a gf its worst if he has a pretty gf its sacrastic if he has a boyfriend O.o...
no actually u cant...
they did many scientific and non-scientific tests on it lol 0__o
jus cus a guy acts girly, that doesn't mean he is homosexual...
liking the same sex, thats wut gay really means, rite?
give him an ungay potion, then dance around like a chicken saying bukahakachikawakakulapakatakawaka...
I agree, that sounds like a reasonable thing to do. 0_o
Hey, the hottest guys are gay! ^-^ No, but seriously...don't feel bad. He's just not the right guy for you is all. We make mistakes...and in this case, it's not your fault for liking a guy who happens to like a guy.
Maybe you were at the wrong place at the wrong time. See if you can be sure he's gay or not before jumping to conclusions...I've feminine-like guy friends who are straight but...well...feminine? (think it's "metrosexual")
But I must say...it's coincidental that all the gay guys that have come to my attention are really good-looking
THis has
nothing to do with this topic, though...^-^"
LOL.well theres a saying the good ones are gay.but by him holding aonther guy's hand...i think you shouldnt jump to conclusions too quickly and observer him some more to be sure he really is gay
yeah go stalk him some more
na just become a friend with him..if hes gay
ull have a hot gay friend and if hes not
u can go from there.
hah.. Ive been in the same situtation... i tell u the same things my friend told me.. when u think a guy is perfect he turns out gay...
well, for future reference...most hot guys are gay.
This is very common, don't feel stupid. Gay guys are such great friends and can be very hot too. So if you're not friends him already, become friends with him.
Aaah, i once fell for a lesbian.
Anyhow, do you know the guy personally, or do you just think he's hot? Cause if you know him personally, I could kinda understand your position. You're probably going "he would make such a great STRAIGHT guy."
I bumped an old thread by accident. Sorry peoples!
I know how you feel. It happened to me, twice! When I was in high school I just didn't have Gay Radar! I couldn't tell when a guy was gay. I mean I was really good friends with these guys, I should have know. Everyone else did! I eventually told the guys how I felt about them and then they told me they were gay and I felt totally stupid!
At least it
was easier to get over the rejection then it would have been for a straight guy!
Also I am still really good friends will the two guys I didn't know were gay. It
is still weird though to hear about their boyfriends. 
Hey , it's not stupid . It's a mistake , many people have the same situation as you . Let's smile . The sky today is so beautiful
Oh, what a pity...
I've been in your exactly same position, but in the other way 'round... I am the Gay Guy, and the girls are attracted to me. And they say that it's not fair, that they can make me a 'real man' (what the hell is being a 'real man' anyway), and even they say that it's unnatural.
If they knew that I didn't chose it... It just happened, so, I had to accept the fact that it wont change ever. The only thing that I can do is be respectful with the ones who loves me and trying not to be a pain in the ass all the time, makin' my friends being embarrased about my behavour and things like that.
Well, I hope you find the right guy, 'cause it's probably out there...
PS: If you're gonna be friend of the gay guy, really mean it. I mean, if you get near him just for trying to 'getting him in the bright side of force', I tell you: that's impossible. And you'll gonna be torn apart, and your haert and soul will suffer a long long time. But if you really want to be his friend (just a friend), go ahead. I think you wont regret it.
Id give up
everyone knows you cant turn a gay guy straight if you get romanticly envolved some how chances are down the road you'll end up hurt
what should u do?
well, the question is easy well respond... FORGET ABOUT IT... I happen to experience the same thing... but i wasn't dribbling for him...
He was gay, when he told me that, it happened when the Coyote goes wrong trying to catch the rider:S My world fell apart:S
The next thing i thought was: shame shame:S
jejeje, it happens, nobody's perfect.
So forget about it, he wont look u if u dont like him. That's the thing that a gay guy would tell u... "I only kiss a girl if she's hot, or if she's my woman type, and u're my type:)":p
so, if he hasn't tell u that... or u r not his friend... wella wella, say goodbye and like a quote said in my language:
"Ma' palante vive gente y somo bueno lo vecino"
"Foward live more pple and the neigbhor are better..."
take care
I can recommend you one thing... FORGET HIM, because even if he is not gay he can be a bisexual and that sort of "man" can become a real nightmare if you fall in love with him.
I had met a lot of good women who had a boyfriend or even a husband who was bisexual and these men never stop their lasciviousness, not for a woman or for their children, they expand the sexual diseases and lie to their wifes, in fact they hide behind their marriages and had lovers of their same sex because they "sort of" like women but enjoy sex with man... can you believe this? I hate this sort of people, but the worse part is that gays and lesbians had the guts to say "yes I'm gay" and they face the human prejudices and fight for their rights, this people had courage while bisexual people don't. So, if you remotely find a gay guy attractive... it would be better if you took some distance from this man because you can get deeply hurt, he can be a good friend but you can end up like the female character of "The object of my affection" (if you haven't seen the movie I highly recommended it to you), or he can be a bisexual and you can end up like my cousin Paola... she found her husband (after ONE week of marriage) having sex with his best friend and wedding's bestman in her house and on top of her bed and her son was -at that time- 6 years old... her son could had arrive from school early to find his uncle and stepfather having sex... ughh it's disgusting just to think about that.
If anyone got offended I'm half sorry, because I had seen too much suffering (thanks to my gay uncle who was used by bisexual men and my cousin Paola who suffered a lot too) from these people to feel compasion for them, and thanks to them women suffer, children suffer but their never stop their behaviors. I meet once a marriage of two bisexual people and their sons and daughters felt shame thanks to their parents and they suffered because they knew that their parents weren't normal and that they had lovers of the same sex... I was 13 years old at that time and I can still remember my friends shame when her mom looked at a girl and said "look at that girl and those "breasts" (she said another word but it's too strong to be writed in daylight lol)... she's sooo hot" mmmm poor girl I felt shame and she wasn't my relative, her mother looked at that girl as if the girl was an excelent dessert.
Well that all I can tell you, it will hurt for a while but in the end you can find a real man to love who can give you the pleasure that only a man who really likes females can give (or you can end up like the wife of Heath Ledger in the movie "Brokeback mountain"... living a nightmare thanks to a selfish man). Feelings and emotions are very delicate and if you love someone who can't love you with the same strenght back you will suffer a lot, so sometimes it's better to stop you emotions while you can still can control them and leave behind those feelings that can become the key of your self-destruction, gay men can be splendid friends, I had meet some who were extremely good looking and inteligent, you can had a great time with them as friends because they are -usually- sensitive and good mannered and they can give you great advice when it's needed, but they will never love you as a woman so it's the best to be just their friend and nothing more.
I hope that my advice can be of some help to you, I had never been in this situation but I can imagine how you're feeling. Don't feel stupid, it's normal for a woman to feel interested in men... even if he's gay because he is a man after all and by nature it's normal to feel attaction to the opposite sex.
It was a horrible thing what happened toy our cousin Paola...
But I don't think that Bisexuality really exists. I've always thought that Bisexuals are gays/lesbians affraid of what they are.
hahahahah....i dont blame you for liking gay guys....gay guys are the once who usually dresses so decent.....they have style and edge...their hair are always neat and clean...they always smell good.........but well....they like guys...and there's SOOOOOO LITTLE chance that they'll fall for a girl.....that's the problem......
i'm going to use the other person's advise and just be friends.