I like this girl... but i cant tell her how i feel because im afraid of loosing
her friendship that means alot to me....
I ve already lost friends in the same way... I dont want to loose her 2....
let her kno how u feel...
but do so very very subtlely ^___~
dun be blunt, and jus say out of nowhere "hi, i wuv u more than a
friend" lol ^___^
u want to build it up slowly
start off by bein very sweet to her...
treat her like a queen, but dun really say anythin along the lines of "i
love u"
simple compliments would be good to start off wit ^___~
notice the little things about her..."did u get a new haircut? looks very
purrty" ^___~
next, try to see if u can open up to each other
talk about guy/girl relationship stuffs...
yet still not really saying anything like "i like u more than a
friend"
just be general about it, like "wut do u look for in a guy?"
and listen to wut she says! take notes ^___~ (not physically...mentally
lol)
go shopping together, take clues of some of the things she likes...
that way, u can buy it for her like the next month (jus make sure to wait at
least 2-4eeks before buying and giving it to her) ^___~
when she sees how sweet u are and appreciates the nice lil things u are doing
for her,
then start to flirt with her
see how she reacts to that...
usually u can tell if its green light or red light
if green light ^___~ then go for it...
maybe not the same day...
plan sumptin special...maybe surprise her ^___~
well, hope this helped
remember, take it slowly and one step at a time
u wanna be able to read her reactions, and change the pace based on em
if u can tell shes feelin u, then speed it up a bit (take chances)...
if u cant tell if she is yet, then continue at the same speed...
if shes gettin a lil turned off, slow down a bit (maybe take a small break, then
go at it again later)
i think dont rish into it yet.make sure she feels the same to you before
confessing to her and scaring her away...oh and do sweet things for her before
you confess, it'll make her like you more and also make the confession softer
this is like the 5th time this identical threads beein created. but what ajb
said is on the spot.
just dont scare her out a normal friendship, but can i ask? if you find out that
she just wants to be friends, wouldnt when eva ur around her be like ... wierd?
at least for the first few months?
remember this my opinion and mine alone.
You are pathetic, I hate people like you, "I like this person as more than
a friend, but I don't want to lose her as a friend" pish, pathetic, take
the risk tell her or don't and live in regret, I don't care but know that
nothing in life is ever gonna go they way you truely want it and that's where
risk comes in, you never take any risks you might as well just be dead.
Quote by Distortionremember this my
opinion and mine alone.
You are pathetic, I hate people like you, "I like this person as more than
a friend, but I don't want to lose her as a friend" pish, pathetic, take
the risk tell her or don't and live in regret, I don't care but know that
nothing in life is ever gonna go they way you truely want it and that's where
risk comes in, you never take any risks you might as well just be
dead.
ouch... u probably dont have many friends do u?
I understand what u r saying (altough u said it kinda harshly) and u have a
point... although its easier said than done.... The problem is that loosing isnt
very easy especially when it comes to matters of the heart... and I ve lost good
friends this way... do u think its easy to find REALLY good friends these
days?
oh, yeah...I forgot.... u r the "not friendly" type of person...
The problem abut this risk is that I can loose the friendship of someone I
love...
AND NEXT TIME U DO A "OPINION" TRY NOT TO BE SO F**KIN OFENSIVE...
thats my advice to u Distortion...remember this my opinion and mine alone.
I like this girl... but i cant tell her how i feel because im afraid of loosing her friendship that means alot to me....
I ve already lost friends in the same way... I dont want to loose her 2....
help....
let her kno how u feel...
but do so very very subtlely ^___~
dun be blunt, and jus say out of nowhere "hi, i wuv u more than a friend" lol ^___^
u want to build it up slowly
start off by bein very sweet to her...
treat her like a queen, but dun really say anythin along the lines of "i love u"
simple compliments would be good to start off wit ^___~
notice the little things about her..."did u get a new haircut? looks very purrty" ^___~
next, try to see if u can open up to each other
talk about guy/girl relationship stuffs...
yet still not really saying anything like "i like u more than a friend"
just be general about it, like "wut do u look for in a guy?"
and listen to wut she says! take notes ^___~ (not physically...mentally lol)
go shopping together, take clues of some of the things she likes...
that way, u can buy it for her like the next month (jus make sure to wait at least 2-4eeks before buying and giving it to her) ^___~
when she sees how sweet u are and appreciates the nice lil things u are doing for her,
then start to flirt with her
see how she reacts to that...
usually u can tell if its green light or red light
if green light ^___~ then go for it...
maybe not the same day...
plan sumptin special...maybe surprise her ^___~
well, hope this helped
remember, take it slowly and one step at a time
u wanna be able to read her reactions, and change the pace based on em
if u can tell shes feelin u, then speed it up a bit (take chances)...
if u cant tell if she is yet, then continue at the same speed...
if shes gettin a lil turned off, slow down a bit (maybe take a small break, then go at it again later)
well, good luck ^___~
i think dont rish into it yet.make sure she feels the same to you before confessing to her and scaring her away...oh and do sweet things for her before you confess, it'll make her like you more and also make the confession softer
this is like the 5th time this identical threads beein created. but what ajb said is on the spot.
just dont scare her out a normal friendship, but can i ask? if you find out that she just wants to be friends, wouldnt when eva ur around her be like ... wierd? at least for the first few months?
Perhaps you'd like to refer to more of others' suggestions to the same problem found here: Stay as friend or confess?
thankx alot guy u ve been very helpful... especially u ajb...
THANK YOU.
I ll let u know if I ever make anything of it
Sorry about that unicorn2006.... gotta keep my eyes open...
remember this my opinion and mine alone.
You are pathetic, I hate people like you, "I like this person as more than a friend, but I don't want to lose her as a friend" pish, pathetic, take the risk tell her or don't and live in regret, I don't care but know that nothing in life is ever gonna go they way you truely want it and that's where risk comes in, you never take any risks you might as well just be dead.
Distortion, your too harsh with words
Like the others said dont rush into it. Id kinda hint around and see how see feels and then make a move.
ouch... u probably dont have many friends do u?
I understand what u r saying (altough u said it kinda harshly) and u have a point... although its easier said than done.... The problem is that loosing isnt very easy especially when it comes to matters of the heart... and I ve lost good friends this way... do u think its easy to find REALLY good friends these days?
oh, yeah...I forgot.... u r the "not friendly" type of person...
The problem abut this risk is that I can loose the friendship of someone I love...
AND NEXT TIME U DO A "OPINION" TRY NOT TO BE SO F**KIN OFENSIVE... thats my advice to u Distortion...remember this my opinion and mine alone.