O.O Omg... Brit...Wow... That's a hard one. Have you told your mother? If not
then I really think you should. She could help. If she doesn't believe you or
you don't have one (Sorry...) Then you shuld call the police. If he hits you
thats a real crime. You need to stand against him. DO NOT LET HIM HURT YOU! Hope
I helped. Tell me if you need anything. Love ya always.
merged: 12-06-2005 ~ 12:45am
Oh yeah if you are afraid to tell him that you are scared...You have to tell
him...I understand you might not want to but you have to. Maybe if he hears the
truth he will stop for your sake. If not... Take my advice and call the cops. He
might hurt you so don't let him. I'm here for you okay? *hugs*
I agree with inuhanyoumiko, stand up for yourself. Stand against his ways not him. Do you know what I am saying? When you do stand up for
yourself, whether it be going to the police, taking him to court, whatever, do
it with respect. He is your father regardless of what he does. Maybe all he
needs is some anger management. Talk to people you trust who will literally be
there with you when you confront him about it, and calmly talk about it. If
worse comes to worse, then call the police or take him to court. Just keep in
mind that whatever you have to do to get away from his anger/battery, do it
calmly and with respect.
Sit down with him and talk about with your mom and dad. Nothing is going to fix
it self when your dad doesn't know you feel this way. If your father can't
handle it and goes on a rage is the time when you need to take legal action and
get him out of your life.
These sorts of trama can cause LIFE time problems for a child. I high suggest
talking it out, if it doesn't work, then look up legal action.
Yes, takes Shadowline's advice. Talk to him first WITH OTHERS AROUND, then he
may be more willing to listen. If that does not work, then take lagel action.
Cops? Do we really have to get them involved-to Milkito
I guese youy are right maybe i should try that-to YoungPhenix
Fight the power LOL LOL He He HE-To TimothytheDarkMagician
I know you don't want to hear this but he through me when i was still around 4 I
am 13 now.
Quote by Britnee55Cops? Do we really
have to get them involved-to Milkito
I guese youy are right maybe i should try that-to YoungPhenix
Fight the power LOL LOL He He HE-To TimothytheDarkMagician
I know you don't want to hear this but he through me when i was still around 4 I
am 13 now.
It does not matter at what age he threw you.
It's still called child abuse and start taking action before
something serious or deadly happens.
well if u feel sort of uncomfortable goin to the cops,
try talkin to ur teacher about it (well, if u got a good understanding teacher
^___^)
or any adult figure in ur life, like perhaps an aunt or uncle
and definatelly have someone else there with u when u try to talk to em...
he'll be less likely to do anythin stoopid like abuse
i have a dad like that, i say go up to him and tell him about your fear, see how
he reacts, if he reacts fatherly then tell him what you need to tell him,if he
reacts badly then isolate yourself from him, avoid all contact with him,he'll
soon realize of your fear and will come at you peacefully
i really think you have to call the cops...its no normal that he hurts you!,
even if you tell him your fears, i believe that things will no change, but
always try! and why your mother still stay with him?
anyway, if the things dont resolve, call the cops and after all, you must to
positive, the life isnt always fair, but you havent to give up, it will be best
later, dont worry!I always say that theres no problem, all can be resolved
My real dad is sooooooooooo FAT! Think of big foot then think of big foot with a
beer belly! Then tell me who is tougher my step dad or my real father. My step
dad is very swwet but he gets mad easily. but being my dad is fat do you realy
think he is tougher then he looks!
This post is a month old so I hope you've already take some kind of action
Britnee55. The situation you described is extremely serious. I am an adult male
and there is NO excuse for his actions. Sorry, but your mom is enabeling him by
saying she will do something "next time". You need to talk to a school
counselor (if you haven't already) or trusted adult friend who will take action
on your behalf. There are also abuse hot-lines you can call. People in your
community will help you with this. If you ever feel an immediate threat from him
call 911! Don't let this go, you need to protect yourself and brothers and/or
sisters if you have any. Kira0586 is right, life is not always fair. Talking
directly too him will not work, he will make excuses and promise it won't happen
again. He is abusive to you because he is insecure and afraid of real adults.
Don't be a victim! Good luck!
I think it`s rather to leave this kind of father rather then keep on suffering
and felt unhappy through your whole life and your mom too. Although it`s not a
complete family yet you are having happiness and freedom with your mom!
hmm i suggest you contact authorities, he seems too aggro, i have a bad
relationship with my father, but thats because hes just stressed...but i think u
should tell people, maybe even get aggro at him, scare him a little urself
Hm..thats a bit like my dad...but these days i can run faster then him..then i
dont come home for a few hrs and he apologses to me. I donno if it will work on
ur dad...yeh..why dont u just tell him that ur scared of him? Can u get ur mum
to tell him off? Sorry..probably no help..
My dad gets mad easily and when he does something wrong he blames it on me what shuould I do if he punches me? I was thrown by him when i was little.
O.O Omg... Brit...Wow... That's a hard one. Have you told your mother? If not then I really think you should. She could help. If she doesn't believe you or you don't have one (Sorry...) Then you shuld call the police. If he hits you thats a real crime. You need to stand against him. DO NOT LET HIM HURT YOU! Hope I helped. Tell me if you need anything. Love ya always.
merged: 12-06-2005 ~ 12:45am
Oh yeah if you are afraid to tell him that you are scared...You have to tell him...I understand you might not want to but you have to. Maybe if he hears the truth he will stop for your sake. If not... Take my advice and call the cops. He might hurt you so don't let him. I'm here for you okay? *hugs*
I agree with inuhanyoumiko, stand up for yourself. Stand against his ways not him. Do you know what I am saying? When you do stand up for yourself, whether it be going to the police, taking him to court, whatever, do it with respect. He is your father regardless of what he does. Maybe all he needs is some anger management. Talk to people you trust who will literally be there with you when you confront him about it, and calmly talk about it. If worse comes to worse, then call the police or take him to court. Just keep in mind that whatever you have to do to get away from his anger/battery, do it calmly and with respect.
This is called child abuse. Tell your mother, relatives, friends, or call the authorities
but do what Apokalypsi said. "Do it with respect."
Yes I tould her. But you know she hates him too so that is the hard part.
call the cops for child abuse..give evidence too^^
Sit down with him and talk about with your mom and dad. Nothing is going to fix it self when your dad doesn't know you feel this way. If your father can't handle it and goes on a rage is the time when you need to take legal action and get him out of your life.
These sorts of trama can cause LIFE time problems for a child. I high suggest talking it out, if it doesn't work, then look up legal action.
I agree with all the above, and. . .
FIGHT THE SYSTEM!
Yes, takes Shadowline's advice. Talk to him first WITH OTHERS AROUND, then he may be more willing to listen. If that does not work, then take lagel action.
Talk to him with other family members, and if all else fails call the cops of move in with other family members.
Cops? Do we really have to get them involved-to Milkito
I guese youy are right maybe i should try that-to YoungPhenix
Fight the power LOL LOL He He HE-To TimothytheDarkMagician
I know you don't want to hear this but he through me when i was still around 4 I am 13 now.
It does not matter at what age he threw you.
It's still called child abuse and start taking action before
something serious or deadly happens.
well if u feel sort of uncomfortable goin to the cops,
try talkin to ur teacher about it (well, if u got a good understanding teacher ^___^)
or any adult figure in ur life, like perhaps an aunt or uncle
and definatelly have someone else there with u when u try to talk to em...
he'll be less likely to do anythin stoopid like abuse
My mom says she will turn him in next time he does anything to hurt us Kids
merged: 12-08-2005 ~ 12:32am
What about my step dad?
Yeah rihgt my dad not stoopid that is sooooooo funny LOL LOL LOL LOL LOL
yea, step dad works...
especially if hes nice, but also bigger and tougher than ur other dad ^___~
so ur dad is stoopid? or not stoopid? or sooooo stoopid that he sold his car for gas money? ^___^
i have a dad like that, i say go up to him and tell him about your fear, see how he reacts, if he reacts fatherly then tell him what you need to tell him,if he reacts badly then isolate yourself from him, avoid all contact with him,he'll soon realize of your fear and will come at you peacefully
i really think you have to call the cops...its no normal that he hurts you!, even if you tell him your fears, i believe that things will no change, but always try! and why your mother still stay with him?
anyway, if the things dont resolve, call the cops and after all, you must to positive, the life isnt always fair, but you havent to give up, it will be best later, dont worry!I always say that theres no problem, all can be resolved
My real dad is sooooooooooo FAT! Think of big foot then think of big foot with a beer belly! Then tell me who is tougher my step dad or my real father. My step dad is very swwet but he gets mad easily. but being my dad is fat do you realy think he is tougher then he looks!
he punches you? dude, that's brutal. i think you need to talk to him when he's not mad. tell him how you feel and what you have been expecting.
Get a frying pan and beat the SHIBBY OUTTA HIM!
I
would..>_>
This post is a month old so I hope you've already take some kind of action Britnee55. The situation you described is extremely serious. I am an adult male and there is NO excuse for his actions. Sorry, but your mom is enabeling him by saying she will do something "next time". You need to talk to a school counselor (if you haven't already) or trusted adult friend who will take action on your behalf. There are also abuse hot-lines you can call. People in your community will help you with this. If you ever feel an immediate threat from him call 911! Don't let this go, you need to protect yourself and brothers and/or sisters if you have any. Kira0586 is right, life is not always fair. Talking directly too him will not work, he will make excuses and promise it won't happen again. He is abusive to you because he is insecure and afraid of real adults. Don't be a victim! Good luck!
I think it`s rather to leave this kind of father rather then keep on suffering and felt unhappy through your whole life and your mom too. Although it`s not a complete family yet you are having happiness and freedom with your mom!
hmm i suggest you contact authorities, he seems too aggro, i have a bad relationship with my father, but thats because hes just stressed...but i think u should tell people, maybe even get aggro at him, scare him a little urself
Hm..thats a bit like my dad...but these days i can run faster then him..then i dont come home for a few hrs and he apologses to me. I donno if it will work on ur dad...yeh..why dont u just tell him that ur scared of him? Can u get ur mum to tell him off? Sorry..probably no help..