hi guys, I've suddenly came up with this question after watching a documentary on women giving birth. i've never been pregnant before, but it's was kind of disgust when i saw the process...

so would like to hear your points of view no matter who you are, you are most welcome to post something in here regarding about this topic. enjoy...

@.@ what the fuc* would I do?! GO INSANE! SCREAM LIKE A PHYSCO! LOL..dunno..=.=

um...pain..?

Abortions tickle.

I'd worry big time seeing that I'm a male guy ....

i have watch it also ^_^ and what i thought at that time were:
1. it's wonderful! how miraculous it could be!?
2. wel.... disgusting also....
3. how heavy are we when we are in mom's belly and now... what do she get? angry expression from us and there's a disappointed face in her face. gonna say sorry to her.... and kiss her.. muach muach....
4. thanks god that i've got parents who care to me (do that they don't approve me to go to a univ i've decided for myself).

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oops... forget one more thing: i don't wanna be a mommy... it's hurt!

I have dreamed of that, and its the worst feeling ever!

i think the words that best describe it are:

"Oh Shit!"

I don't think I'd ever go through that pain ever...I'd prolly die...doesn't matter for me cos I can't get pregnant ^_^ lol I have caffeine induced infertility. Thank you Mountain Dew and coffee

No one should ever joke about abortions. For a male I guess it is hard to even contemplate what it would be like to have a wee life growing inside of you and having the honor of being it's guardian and protector, but you should at least try and be considerate of those under the unfortunate circumstances who have to go through such a horrendous process. Maybe you should try and do a bit of research about them before you make and stupid comments about it. Any woman who has more than 1 abortion is stupid and slutty- get the message: use a condom instead of murdering ur babies. (I'm not religious by the way)

merged: 03-17-2006 ~ 06:39am
P.S. you'll never know exactly what you'd do until you actually do get pregnant, even just knowing you have a baby changes your perspective completely. I have a friend who always said she'd get an abortion if she fell pregnant, until one day she did get pregnant, today she's a loving mommy.

HEY! A woman can geta more than one abortion without being stupid an slutty. Because actually, I had 1 when I was 15 and another last year. Sometimes condoms break! And plus, you aren't murdering your baby unless it's out of you already. I know it lives inside, but still. I feel stupid saying this.

And being Preggers is HORRIBLE!

+~Tiger~+

Well at first I would be completely surprised because I am dead set against bringing children into this world but on the off chance...

I know I would have to invest in come corsets because I'm a 40 DDD and if I didn't I know I would be falling over all of the time *laughs* if not that have back problems out the ass.

Hey, I'm a guy! I'd have fun with it! I'd make jokes! I'd be wondering how even GOT pregnant. ....I think I'd avoid imaging myself giving birth though.

I have watched women giving birht, yeah it is disgusting, and i havent been pregnant and I want to.
I'd say... pain ...ouch..

I would freak out and go insane. Not only but that, my parents will be so angry with me and I wouldn't want people to think I'm a girl who sleep around with guys for fun. I mean since I'm still young and all I would love to enjoy being young until I come to that age.

well..i'll have 3 answers for this question.
1 - If I had married, I'd happy to get a baby ^_^. Well, I have 2 sons (my pet dogs ) and I'm happy to take care of them even though they're very naughty..="=
2 - If I hadnt married and had a boyfriend, probably i'd be nervous..><, and er..i dont think i'd go for an abortion.
3 - If I hadnt married and had no boyfriend, nah..I wouldnt get pregnant..XD

I have a daughter, and I love her very much...I had a very easy pregnancy...there is also a thing called a epidural...and hem drugs...I slept through most of my labor and I did not feel a thing when I delivered! I was scared at first too...but since I have been through it...I want another baby now~ (I am happily married) I don't know what I would have done if I wasn't married or was rather young...hmmm, then I would probably freak out too!

Having children is a wonderful thing, but then again I'm only 15 so I wouldn't know if I want kids or not at the time because of the painful process ^^;

I suppose people would have different points of views on it depending on their situation (ex. if you got pregnant at a very early age or from being a raped victim) [btw I am in no way making fun of it ]

If I ever got pregnant the first thing I would do is question everything I ever learned about human biology.

I have been led to believe by my mother that you won't really remember the pain and grossness of delivering a child. I think she tells me these things because she wants grandkids.

my son is 6 yrs old and i love him with all my heart and he was worth every moment of agony i mean think about it you are giving birth to another human being women are given the gift of child birth we create life pretty crazy when you think about it and def worth the pain

Giving birth looks like it'd hurt like hell. I got to watch my mom get a c-section for my little brother.

But the actual pregnant part... eh, I dunno. It kinda depends on the woman I guess. My mom always complained about her sore feet and back, but my cousin Laurie said she didn't have any morning sickness/soreness/etc....

OMG but we sure can get irritable in the first few months. I can remember one time my dad said that my mom looked like Baby Huey (she was pre4gnat with my other little bro) Common sense: You DON'T tell a pregnant woman that. She chucked a barbie at his head and made him sleep on the couch for two weeks. Poor guy...

yes it is gross from a certain angle, and also very painful sounding, but as a man, i hate that word, i don't give birth. it is sort of sad that people think of not 'bringing' a child into this world. i don't understand that. a secondly women don't create life. it takes alot more than self-righteousness and pride/empowerment to create life. as a whole we still do not know exactly how life is created, we know parts. cheers eh?

Well, I have an opinion about this subject from my personal point of view:

If I got pregnant -single or married- I will definetly have my baby because I could not kill my own child, because that life growing inside of me would be the product of my own actions and as a mature woman I would take charge of the consequences. If you made love (not have sex but REALLY made love) you will create something with love and you will want to have and see that love growing into a person.
I understand the perspective of some women who got pregnant at a very young age (or of some young men who got their girlfriends pregnant too) and doesn't feel prepared to be a parent and -being at crossroads- choose to have abortions. Even when I was teenager I was a scared as hell off pregnancy so I choosed not to have boyfriends or sex at that time because I didn't feel ready to face the consequences of a possible sexual disease or pregnancy (I was inmature but not a fool and since I couldn't afford contraceptive pills or condoms I choosed not to have any relationships with the opposite sex so -in that strange way- I was saved from falling in love and had sex in my dangerous teenager years... it was the lonely savely road I could afford at that time). Now that I'm 24 years old I see things from another perspective, pregnancy can be painfull at times and annoying at others but it's a process that rewards you with love, when a child smiles at her mother or when he feeds from her mother's breast or when he starts to talk and said "mommy" or "daddy" it's a miracle and I wouldn't kill that miracle just because an orgasm or a contraceptive didn't go right. It's your choice, to have or to kill, to feel pregnancy as a "gross" season fo nine months or as an unexpected gift of life given to you.