Maybe this thread is for people that had bad days anyway I have bad days every single day of my life .....uhmm bad, bad....tell me....

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it human nature to wish for a better life. im predicting that this saturday will be a bad day...i get my year 12 results

sherlain u cant have every day being bad...some must be better than others?

Most of my days are bad, but sometimes, when i dont like having a bad day, i try to take the best of it. even if it is too hard, but you don't know what you can do until you try!^^

meh.. wait till you get the middle age crisis.

I had my worst day a week or so ago, due to many various reasons. Decided I really needed to do something about it. So I did. Read a book on self improvement and I've been fealing better ever since. I picked up a new hobby to. I goto the book store and read a book when ever I get bored.

I won't say I'm perky or happy now. I just feal better. High expectations lead to great let downs anyway.

yeah im having bad days now dat im working....damn i hate it..

Bad days come and go, I see them more as another experience and lesson than as a lamentation. It will only go worse when keep thinking alot about bad things wich you cant change anymore.

every1 have their bad day 1 way or another ! so cheer up u r not d only 1 in a bad day ! u have a lot more ppl 2 company along !

I always have bad days in school, but not at home. Im like the fish in the water at home, and the fish in the vulcano at school.

Days are like that, but you have to take it as it comes. Good luck everybody ^^

I generally have bad days all the times mainly because I'm a loner and people pick on me. But there are good times within those bad times too. You just have to see it. For me, I may not like most of the people in my class, by I'll never forget the moments I spent with my friends in high school. Those were some really good times that I wish I could live on again. Just keep the faith, something good is bound to happen.

yeah, gets frustrating having nonstop bad after a while doesn't it...
it doesn't go away

yar... but come to think of it, how would we(everyone on earth) know what's a good day if we hadn't experienced a bad day? and the other way round, how would we know whats a good day if we hadn't experienced a good day?

well i always wish everyday was different and exciting for me. Cos my days are always filled with boredom and routines nowadays

What good in your bad days have you been able to glean out? Are some bad days not as bad as others? Take Blaze016's advice: find the good hidden within the bad. Trust me, you'll be glad you did.

Im sorta anti-social, but i have some ok friends, though im not very tolerant when it comes to immature behavior. But when i have a bad day, i keep reminding myself, look around you and find enjoyment, something as simple as listening to a clock tick or looking outside even. That and I sleep through class :P

Just keep moveing on, going in a circle of self pitty and feeling bad aint gonna help.

Heck, until 2 years ago i was incredably anti-social and a bully magnet, but now ive relized its sorta funny if/when i get picked on. They are just showing me how stupid and ignorant they are. Its rather funny and easy to ignore. Ive had the willpower to change myself over the last 2 years into a stronger person, i can talk to people, im more confident, and i am able to recognize and fix my faults.

Just gota have confidence in yourself.

Bad days allways happen, even if every day, you just need to look at it in a different light.

My worst day was a tuesday, three years ago, when I spent the entire time by myself in a room and had no contact with anyone.

Why is that so bad? On the surface it doesn't sound as if theres anything wrong with it right? Only there is see. Cause not having any contact with anyone is the same as being dead. And that's exactly how I felt, and that sucked.

Even the days of my youth where I've been humiliated or beaten up don't compare to that day of solitude... (I should mention that there were a number of days of solitude leading up to this particular day.)

What's the worst day you've ever had Sherlain? And why do you think being dead is going to be better?

for me there are not a good days....why? .....my days are like your worst day MichaelW.....I can be rounded by people but i still feel alone ....in just in case I'm being rounded ...remember that if not I'm just with my shadow and no more ....completely alone .....and about being dead It would be better coz when u are dead you don't feel anything.....but unfortunaely I'm alive.....no wings of hope for me ....I'm sorry...

Sherlain,

Everyday is a goodday, you're just looking at them the wrong way, take yesterday for example, yesterday you had the great honour of being addressed by me! But because you only see misery and pain, you just completely overlooked the wondrous event!

Anyone can be alone in a crowd, Sherlain, you're not the only one. The problem is, that most people, when they're feeling lonely and are surrounded by people, they'll reach out to someone... I get the feeling that besides MT you're not reaching out a whole lot...

Quite right, clearly there are no wings of hope for you. I guess you'll have to get by on the equally powerful Faith and support of your friends, and MT of course.

.....?....ok...>.<

You know, those dots really aren't very expressive of what you didn't understand... but that's ok... I'll just guess shall I?

Why is every day a good day? Cause good things happen to you in every day, (as well as bad things) But your point of view is just looking at the bad.

Why aren't you reaching out to people?
I dunno. You tell me. Why are you so alone?

Why don't you have wings of hope?
Because you're so depressed you don't even hope for any improvement. That's why you need to be sustained by others belief in you.