I have this problem.
I am... infatuated with someone. She knows it coz I'm too obvious in showing my
affections. She has a crush on my brother and expresses it in more subtle ways.
I notice it, since I know her very well. When she needs something, she goes to
me. She spends some time with me, w/c is ok really. But when she doesn't need
me, she hardly notices me. She's hanging around my brother, openly displaying
her affections for him in front of me. I can't hate my brother because he is
oblivious to the fact that she has a crush on him. It hurts, but I let it go.
All I want is for her to spend some time with because she wants to, not because
she needs something from me. What would you do...
I think you should tell her all this..it isn't fair on you if she acts like that
infront of you..tho she might be doing it to make you jealous or something..tho
I wouldn't know why..
If you can't tell her, write to her..sometimes it's easier..
they say the quickest way to fix a broken heart is with a new love.
maybe in the future, she will return your feelings to you. but for now, you will
only get yourself hurt and the pain will only get worse. my advice to you is,
dont wait on the sidelines for her. there are so many girls out there... dont
wait for the one you cant have.
Having it this way is just unfair! . Only asks you when she needs something, and hanging around your brother in
front of you. Thats bad, really bad. You have to tell her this. What you think
about her hanging around your brother and showing her affection in such a
revealing way. You like her too, and if shes not aware of that you get hurt and
suffer the pain, then she wont change her way. And if she doesnt care, then you
should find another person you like, just like long said.
In my opinion, its bad style what the girl is doing in front of you. Love is
indeed a pain in the ass.
Cheer up, and I hope everything will be solved.
Uh...If I liked someone...I would ask them if I could talk to them alone and
tell them excatly how I feel about him/her and tell him/her how much it hurts
that they love my brother/sister and do it right in front of me. Find out how
she feels about you and either let it go or find a way to keep her from your
brother. But if you act mean to her she isn't going to like you and she will be
more likely to go to your brother next time she needs help. Hope I was some form
of help.
I have this problem.
I am... infatuated with someone. She knows it coz I'm too obvious in showing my affections. She has a crush on my brother and expresses it in more subtle ways. I notice it, since I know her very well. When she needs something, she goes to me. She spends some time with me, w/c is ok really. But when she doesn't need me, she hardly notices me. She's hanging around my brother, openly displaying her affections for him in front of me. I can't hate my brother because he is oblivious to the fact that she has a crush on him. It hurts, but I let it go. All I want is for her to spend some time with because she wants to, not because she needs something from me. What would you do...
I think you should tell her all this..it isn't fair on you if she acts like that infront of you..tho she might be doing it to make you jealous or something..tho I wouldn't know why..
If you can't tell her, write to her..sometimes it's easier..
they say the quickest way to fix a broken heart is with a new love.
maybe in the future, she will return your feelings to you. but for now, you will only get yourself hurt and the pain will only get worse. my advice to you is, dont wait on the sidelines for her. there are so many girls out there... dont wait for the one you cant have.
Yeah it does broken hearts and if it was friend you wre with you could lose your friendship
Having it this way is just unfair!
. Only asks you when she needs something, and hanging around your brother in
front of you. Thats bad, really bad. You have to tell her this. What you think
about her hanging around your brother and showing her affection in such a
revealing way. You like her too, and if shes not aware of that you get hurt and
suffer the pain, then she wont change her way. And if she doesnt care, then you
should find another person you like, just like long said.
In my opinion, its bad style what the girl is doing in front of you. Love is indeed a pain in the ass.
Cheer up, and I hope everything will be solved.
Uh...If I liked someone...I would ask them if I could talk to them alone and tell them excatly how I feel about him/her and tell him/her how much it hurts that they love my brother/sister and do it right in front of me. Find out how she feels about you and either let it go or find a way to keep her from your brother. But if you act mean to her she isn't going to like you and she will be more likely to go to your brother next time she needs help. Hope I was some form of help.