You just won't know it if you don't try...
But even if there was no chance for you to have her, there are millions of girls
in the world, and probably thousands of exeptionnal ones...
I like thinking that there's one girl for each one of us, and very often, she's
not the one we thought about. We're so afraid of being alone that we think of
the smallest feeling that it's love, but I can tell you, it's a mistake.
And one day you'll realize it too, don't be scared, love is never easy, but
that's why it is love, and that's why it is great.
That's very poetic, but fact of the matter is she's not this perfect angel you
seem to envision. That doesn't mean she's a bad person. Stop wasting your life
and feelings lamenting and just ask her on a date. She's only human - take your
blinders off. If she rejects you, then at least you can move on with your life.
Just be yourself, stop being fake. Realize that in life, you are alone and
loneliness is a burden we all face. You act false to be something more perfect,
what happens for the rest of your life? Do you still act fake even after you're
with this girl? Ask yourself, is it true love if you have to be fake?
Quote by jasaiyajinJust be yourself,
stop being fake. Realize that in life, you are alone and loneliness is a burden
we all face. You act false to be something more perfect, what happens for the
rest of your life? Do you still act fake even after you're with this girl? Ask
yourself, is it true love if you have to be fake?
Exactly. You regret being rejected for a day, but you regret never asking for a
lifetime.
Just be yourself and talk to her. Explain you have some feelings. Don't be
afraid. Otherwise, you'll have to keep hiding. If you can't be yourself with her
and have her like you, then it's not meant to be anyway. If you keep living the
lie, is it any wonder you feel so crappy you have to post in a 'lamentations'
section of some Internet site?
I hope this doesn't seem harsh. I am telling you what you need to hear. Don't
trust your feelings, they'll deceive you. That goes for both fear and
infatuation.
Cliff Notes: Just do it. That's what you came here to hear, and well, here it
is! GO DO IT! Just heed our warnings and be yourself! I'm not saying these
things to make you feel better, I'm saying them so you will use it. Don't waste
our advice just because we are expressing it in text rather than in voice. Don't
try to make it perfect, either. Nothing in life is perfect!
I agree with everything everyone has said, especially Linear there... But
there's one thing I feel like you guys might have missed... >:-)
You say you feel like one of a crowd, a pebble in the street, etc., but people
notice the big rocks out in the street more than the pebbles. If you want her to
notice you more and like you more, then go work out, jog, draw, or improve any
imperfections you may have. Although a fine sword is clean, reflective, smooth,
and sharp, it had to burn and be hammered to get that way. Nothing will come to
you just because you're you (except material possessions, if you're rich), if
you want something you have to fight for it! Just remember my three mottos,
which together make an awesome combo:
Never give up, never give in
Improve yourself beyond what people think you should be like
Don't say "For lo, this is hard which thou hast commanded of us!", if
you try and try some more then it'll become second nature to you and will be as
much a part of you as the eyeballs in your face. A quick way of saying this is
"Just do it!"
Hope you can work out all your problems, dude, I know what it's like to want
something more than life itself, yet you can't attain it. Hang in there!
Show her your true, noble self. If she rejects you, what of it? She's just a
tiny fish in the vast ocean of humanity like you feel you are. Another one like
her, only better, may very well come along when you least expect it. But if she
accepts you...WATCH OUT WORLD! The two of you will be an unbeatable team and you
yourself will be all the happier for it.
Be yourself. That's what YOU deserve and what SHE deserves. Let her know who you
really are, see how she reacts.
Tell her that she's a really good friend, you you never want anything bad to
happen to her. Tell her that if she ever needs anything, you'll do whatever you
can to help her.
Be honest to yourself and her. Its important. Even if things don't work out how
you want them to, at least let her know how wonderful and beautiful she is to
you...and that she'll ALWAYS be that *to you* nomatter what. That's love.
I say just go for it. You're never going to find out what you want to know if
all you do is sit back and dwell on these emotions. Never keep love bottled up
inside, it will slowly eat away at you. And just know that after that, it's
going to be a long, winding road to get what you want. Nothing in life comes
easy. If they did, then we'd have nothing to live for.
this is really too hard... to love someone who might not love you back...
why must i be this way, who tries to hide in the fake faceo f happiness...
my friend feels for her and so do i... but i can feel that he has better advantages....
im just another face in the crowd...
another pebble in the floor...
but still i care for her... and i cant just tell if she does too...
and now... i think of things i usually dont...
trying things i usually hate... saying things i really shouldn't...
and through all this pain... no one is here to comfort me...
and no one to say that its gonna be alright...
nobody understands... i just hope that she can...
maybe i should just die and escape the pain and humiliation...
to escape my misery and depression... to have peace and serenity once again...
but she doesn't want me to... but what can i do with all this pain...
this disappointments and curses...
i cannot face this pain alone... only if there someone to hold my hand...
a shoulder for me to cry on... someone who i can hug when im hurt...
someone that can understand how i feel... but is there someone there that can do this for me?
no... some people who i know my friends have their own share of problems...
but i dont know if they can cope with mine...
but i just want her to love me as much as i love her...
i will hug her tight in the deadliest of tornadoes...
i will fight for her in the mightiest of all battles...
i would rescue her from the dragons keep and vanquish my destiny...
if she commands me to...
but.. that is just one thing that i cannot assure...
how about you guyz? do you think i can do it... do you think there is something that i can have her?
You just won't know it if you don't try...
But even if there was no chance for you to have her, there are millions of girls in the world, and probably thousands of exeptionnal ones...
I like thinking that there's one girl for each one of us, and very often, she's not the one we thought about. We're so afraid of being alone that we think of the smallest feeling that it's love, but I can tell you, it's a mistake.
And one day you'll realize it too, don't be scared, love is never easy, but that's why it is love, and that's why it is great.
That's very poetic, but fact of the matter is she's not this perfect angel you seem to envision. That doesn't mean she's a bad person. Stop wasting your life and feelings lamenting and just ask her on a date. She's only human - take your blinders off. If she rejects you, then at least you can move on with your life.
Just be yourself, stop being fake. Realize that in life, you are alone and loneliness is a burden we all face. You act false to be something more perfect, what happens for the rest of your life? Do you still act fake even after you're with this girl? Ask yourself, is it true love if you have to be fake?
Exactly. You regret being rejected for a day, but you regret never asking for a lifetime.
Just be yourself and talk to her. Explain you have some feelings. Don't be afraid. Otherwise, you'll have to keep hiding. If you can't be yourself with her and have her like you, then it's not meant to be anyway. If you keep living the lie, is it any wonder you feel so crappy you have to post in a 'lamentations' section of some Internet site?
I hope this doesn't seem harsh. I am telling you what you need to hear. Don't trust your feelings, they'll deceive you. That goes for both fear and infatuation.
Cliff Notes: Just do it. That's what you came here to hear, and well, here it is! GO DO IT! Just heed our warnings and be yourself! I'm not saying these things to make you feel better, I'm saying them so you will use it. Don't waste our advice just because we are expressing it in text rather than in voice. Don't try to make it perfect, either. Nothing in life is perfect!
I agree with everything everyone has said, especially Linear there... But there's one thing I feel like you guys might have missed... >:-)
You say you feel like one of a crowd, a pebble in the street, etc., but people notice the big rocks out in the street more than the pebbles. If you want her to notice you more and like you more, then go work out, jog, draw, or improve any imperfections you may have. Although a fine sword is clean, reflective, smooth, and sharp, it had to burn and be hammered to get that way. Nothing will come to you just because you're you (except material possessions, if you're rich), if you want something you have to fight for it! Just remember my three mottos, which together make an awesome combo:
Never give up, never give in
Improve yourself beyond what people think you should be like
Don't say "For lo, this is hard which thou hast commanded of us!", if you try and try some more then it'll become second nature to you and will be as much a part of you as the eyeballs in your face. A quick way of saying this is "Just do it!"
Hope you can work out all your problems, dude, I know what it's like to want something more than life itself, yet you can't attain it. Hang in there!
Show her your true, noble self. If she rejects you, what of it? She's just a tiny fish in the vast ocean of humanity like you feel you are. Another one like her, only better, may very well come along when you least expect it. But if she accepts you...WATCH OUT WORLD! The two of you will be an unbeatable team and you yourself will be all the happier for it.
Your post was too long
, but
that doesn't matter, you can do anything if you believe in yourself, and I
beleive in you thaat you can
Be yourself. That's what YOU deserve and what SHE deserves. Let her know who you really are, see how she reacts.
Tell her that she's a really good friend, you you never want anything bad to happen to her. Tell her that if she ever needs anything, you'll do whatever you can to help her.
Be honest to yourself and her. Its important. Even if things don't work out how you want them to, at least let her know how wonderful and beautiful she is to you...and that she'll ALWAYS be that *to you* nomatter what. That's love.
such a sad but beautiful poem..
I say just go for it. You're never going to find out what you want to know if all you do is sit back and dwell on these emotions. Never keep love bottled up inside, it will slowly eat away at you. And just know that after that, it's going to be a long, winding road to get what you want. Nothing in life comes easy. If they did, then we'd have nothing to live for.