Anyone else ever had this happen? I'm a girl, and I went to a gay bar to have a
good time with my friends without having to worry about some guy trying to drug
me or get into my pants. Is that so much to ask?! Apparently, it is... Within
ten minutes of sitting down, three different guys had started flirting with me.
One of them even went as far as to say "Let's ditch these fags and go
someplace more private." XO I swear, I was about to deck him. (lucky for
him, I just gave him a blank stare and the finger). My friend Jason thought it
was hilarious. I had him scare him off for me. (He sat in the guy's lap and
licked him. Seriously freaked him out. I guess he wasn't bi then...).
Anyway, am I the only one that this has happened to? Is there any place that's
safe anymore?
just wondering, did it ever accure to you that if your in a gay bar then a girl
might try to hit on you. girls can be as peverted as guys sometimes, lol. that
guy must have been there looking for some lesbians making out or something. well
it sure was an interesting time for you.
that happened to me and a couple of friends once. we went to a gay dance club
for exactly the same reason as you. we figured we could have fun without the
hassle of guys trying to pick us up, but we were wrong.
Well that's interesting, but I must say. It appears that no matter where you now
a days nowhere is safe anymore. Lol. I guess being too attractive can be a bad
thing after all.
My friend Cathy tried to drag me to a gay bar but I got a little
<s>violently</s> sick beforehand so I couldn't go. Or else I'd
probably be saying much the same story. :P
Actually, it was kind of a bar/club…
but mostly a bar. I wasn’t drinking or
anything, though, ‘cause
I’m underage. Hanging there seemed like
a good idea at the time.
… a few girls did hit on me. But they
were really nice about it, and backed off when I told them that I was straight.
I like lesbians.
Yeah, Jason is a great guy. He always saves me when I get myself in
trouble… after laughing for a few
minutes, of course. Who wouldn’t?
look i know what guys go through (being one myself) but if i'm going to think
with something i'd rather use my brain. and no, there really is no safe place.
you can get hit on, get hit by something, or be killed anywhere on the planet.
you should just buy a gun or a knife if something does get out of control ( i
hope that never happens to you, but just in case)
Yep, the bar club thingy was, in theory, where the gay/les/bi peeps go. Love it
there! I can't remember the name of it, but it's near Ashbury in San Francisco.
It's a really nice place.
Hmmm... I guess a guy could've thought I was one too from the back. I'm pretty
tall, and I wear jeans and tees, but if they were to look at me from the side...
well, lets just say guys usually aren't as well endowed.
lhao OMG I just have to tell you what happened the time we went there last
summer. Jason, his boyfriend David, and I were hanging out there like this last
time, and poor Jase couldn't get this girl to leave him alone! She was the big
booty/boob type, and he doesn't like seeing boobs. This chick pratically had
them spilling over the top. He
kept trying to let her down nicely, but she wouldn't take the hint!
Eventually, he came up with some polite excuse for us to leave (I was trying to
hide my laughing and his bf was just sitting there, watching him squirm with no
expression whatsoever. The guy's so much like a rock it's scary sometimes...),
and he dropped his wallet. Just as he reached to pick it up, the girl swooped
down to give him a facefull of her cleavage, and her boob fell out. Jase
totally flipped out. He made this pathetic little squeaking sound, swore a blue
streak, and ran away. It was so funny.
Just to show you that it isn't just the straight guys who can't take a hint.
That makes sense, though the Jason guy... We know he's gay but he doesn't really
need to freak over breast, but then again, I'd laugh my ass off as well seeing
the sorrowful pain
Go to a Gay beach! My mom has accidently went their before, maybe you should try
that ^_^; actually, you should just hang out somewhere like more organized then,
like a nice resturant, not a bar...
Good thing you didn't deck him, or he could have filed assult charges on you.
But then again you could have filed sexual harrassment charges too. That could
have turned out ugly if you hit him.
That totally could happen. Not everyone in a gay bar is gay; a lot of people go
to support their friends or just try out a new place. And it's thrilling for a
gay person to pick up a "straight" person, so to speak, since they
know the other person is inexperienced.
Anyone else ever had this happen? I'm a girl, and I went to a gay bar to have a good time with my friends without having to worry about some guy trying to drug me or get into my pants. Is that so much to ask?! Apparently, it is... Within ten minutes of sitting down, three different guys had started flirting with me. One of them even went as far as to say "Let's ditch these fags and go someplace more private." XO I swear, I was about to deck him. (lucky for him, I just gave him a blank stare and the finger). My friend Jason thought it was hilarious. I had him scare him off for me. (He sat in the guy's lap and licked him. Seriously freaked him out. I guess he wasn't bi then...).
Anyway, am I the only one that this has happened to? Is there any place that's safe anymore?
LMAO good laugh
hehe sounds fun
personally it hasn't happened to me but I know a few of my friends it has happened to.
great laugh
*hugs*
Kimaris
well wtf wher you doing in a gay bar anyway
ZOMG that is funny hahaahahahaha well next time go to the lesbian bar and i Promise no one will hit on you.........
just wondering, did it ever accure to you that if your in a gay bar then a girl might try to hit on you. girls can be as peverted as guys sometimes, lol. that guy must have been there looking for some lesbians making out or something. well it sure was an interesting time for you.
thank god for male friends who're there to save you, right? lol your friend sounds awesome.
hasn't happened to me cuz I'm underage.
O_o...and I thought they were supposed to be gay...
~Why a gay bar? There are other "safer" ones around... next time, I think you should think of the risk before actually going into the bar.~
Ehm...you know, i really doubt "no one" would hit on her lol.
that happened to me and a couple of friends once. we went to a gay dance club for exactly the same reason as you. we figured we could have fun without the hassle of guys trying to pick us up, but we were wrong.
Well that's interesting, but I must say. It appears that no matter where you now a days nowhere is safe anymore. Lol. I guess being too attractive can be a bad thing after all.
no rest for the wicked I guess! :-P
My friend Cathy tried to drag me to a gay bar but I got a little <s>violently</s> sick beforehand so I couldn't go. Or else I'd probably be saying much the same story. :P
that guy friend of yours is wicked, give him a pat on the back for me lol
so what were these losers doing there? you guy went to avoid being hit on, whats their excuse? :?
Actually, it was kind of a bar/club… but mostly a bar. I wasn’t drinking or anything, though, ‘cause I’m underage. Hanging there seemed like a good idea at the time.
… a few girls did hit on me. But they were really nice about it, and backed off when I told them that I was straight. I like lesbians.
Yeah, Jason is a great guy. He always saves me when I get myself in trouble… after laughing for a few minutes, of course. Who wouldn’t?
look i know what guys go through (being one myself) but if i'm going to think with something i'd rather use my brain. and no, there really is no safe place. you can get hit on, get hit by something, or be killed anywhere on the planet. you should just buy a gun or a knife if something does get out of control ( i hope that never happens to you, but just in case)
LOL now THAT was nice
Sorry
to be a dope to ask this, but the gay bar you were in was for any homosexual
type right (Gay, Lesbian and bi)? 
roflmao! I think they thought you were a guy maybe lol!
Yep, the bar club thingy was, in theory, where the gay/les/bi peeps go. Love it there! I can't remember the name of it, but it's near Ashbury in San Francisco. It's a really nice place.
Hmmm... I guess a guy could've thought I was one too from the back. I'm pretty tall, and I wear jeans and tees, but if they were to look at me from the side... well, lets just say guys usually aren't as well endowed.
lhao OMG I just have to tell you what happened the time we went there last summer. Jason, his boyfriend David, and I were hanging out there like this last time, and poor Jase couldn't get this girl to leave him alone! She was the big booty/boob type, and he doesn't like seeing boobs. This chick pratically had them spilling over the top.
He
kept trying to let her down nicely, but she wouldn't take the hint!
Eventually, he came up with some polite excuse for us to leave (I was trying to hide my laughing and his bf was just sitting there, watching him squirm with no expression whatsoever. The guy's so much like a rock it's scary sometimes...), and he dropped his wallet. Just as he reached to pick it up, the girl swooped down to give him a facefull of her cleavage, and her boob fell out.
Jase
totally flipped out. He made this pathetic little squeaking sound, swore a blue
streak, and ran away. It was so funny.
Just to show you that it isn't just the straight guys who can't take a hint.
That makes sense, though the Jason guy... We know he's gay but he doesn't really need to freak over breast, but then again, I'd laugh my ass off as well seeing the sorrowful pain
Go to a Gay beach! My mom has accidently went their before, maybe you should try that ^_^; actually, you should just hang out somewhere like more organized then, like a nice resturant, not a bar...
Good thing you didn't deck him, or he could have filed assult charges on you. But then again you could have filed sexual harrassment charges too. That could have turned out ugly if you hit him.
That totally could happen. Not everyone in a gay bar is gay; a lot of people go to support their friends or just try out a new place. And it's thrilling for a gay person to pick up a "straight" person, so to speak, since they know the other person is inexperienced.
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