ok basically i will just repeat myself as i wat said in animepaper... here it
is...
normally, a guy makes the first move for girls and so they are the one who
should court or woo the girl but what will you think or said or what will be
your opinion if a girl court or woo a guy not the first thing around... ( let's
make an exceptions for a girl-to-girl relationship about this topic...)
i made this topic because i want the opinions for people becuase i'm kinda
planning to court a guy but i feel that it will be weird and he will just laugh
at me and stare at me like i'm a crazy girl... so wat do you think about this
girl courting a guy?
why not?
equal rights for everyone!
perhaps you want to try not to exaggerate it too much,
it might turn out silly
however, gernerally i think gender seperating thinking should be cut back.
Who cares who courts who? As long as you end up together, why does it matter how
you get there (as long as no one else is hurt or anything, of course)? Happiness
is your goal, so just go for it!
I wouldn't call it courting, but now a days lots of girls ask out guys. It is
getting to be more and more of a common thing. Guys are shy and girls are
getting tired of waiting around for them to get up the courage to ask them out.
So they do it for them. I've asked guys out and they don't think anything of it.
Although I personally like to be asked out by guys than asking them out. Guess I
am just tradional. But when I know that they are too shy to do it then I ask
them. Well I say you should go for it! You aren't being weird by doing it! Good
Luck!
I wouldn't suggest wooing the guy, just give them one of those big hints like
your phone number, ask him to visit for no apperant reason, etc. Something so
obvious, that a 5 year old can figure it out. Then you give the guy about 2-3
days (or more depending on how busy the guy is), if he doesn't do anything. The
problem isn't you, it's him. And you should probably move on to another person.
I may be of the egalitarian kind of whatever name you want to say, but I can't
see why girls couldn't court guys. Of course, traditionally... But traditionally
women ended up spending their time between the kitchen and the craddle to watch
over the last kid to date.
Quote by j0n0I wouldn't suggest wooing the
guy, just give them one of those big hints like your phone number, ask him to
visit for no apperant reason, etc. Something so obvious, that a 5 year old can
figure it out. Then you give the guy about 2-3 days (or more depending on how
busy the guy is), if he doesn't do anything. The problem isn't you, it's him.
And you should probably move on to another person.
Bring it on! It
shows character, and definety puts the cards in her favor....for she is leading,
or taking control of the romance. She is going to call the shots; what she would
like, what she won't stand for, and what she will compromise with.....all before
the poor helpless guy can be able to grasp the situation! Now, if the guy is
being chased by a crap load of girls (or he is doing the chasing), then the best
bet is to let that dude go......for he has issues, if you know what I
mean.
If I had a daughter, she would be like that! It's all about knowing what you
want and going for it! With common sense and good taste, mind you......
it's not so uncommon anymore to have a girl be more foreward. i think that if a
guy is too shy to ask a girl out (or too dumb lol)then she should take the
initiative if she really likes him. guys who would say it "damages their
masculinity"or somthing are just insecure.
It's kind of wrong that a girl is courting the guy. I mean...if he sees you like
him, he might end up taking advantage of you an all. There's a large chance that
you can end up getting heart broken.
Well... technically, the opposite is also true... I mean that some girls don't
really have problems using guys who have a crush for them.
On this aspect, some girls can be as cold and egocentric as some guys. And don't
start mumbling about this, it's a fact. The proportions may be different, but
there are such people everywhere, no matter the gender or age. And don't go
saying that girls always have crystal pure hearts hiding their white angels
wings in their hearts. I've had enough female friends to know otherwise (fellow
guys, beware, girls chatting together are sometimes hardly any better than
guys). And please note that even guys can be 'fleur bleue', soft
hearted.
Moreover, the fact that a guy courts a girl does not mean he can't have weird
ideas running wild in the head. History is filled with sweet talkers who use
words to gain women's hearts only to break them later on, after they reached
their goals. Be honest, don't tell me this doesn't ring a bell...
In the end, I'd advice to take into consideration this:
"Impose ta chance, serre ton bonheur et va vers ton risque."
"Impose your chance, hold tight your happiness and go toward your
risk."
Rene Char
what's your problem in courting a guy? if a girl likes a boy why doesn't she
can't let him help to understand it? the point is that you don't have to
exagerate! then go for it and
let us know (if you want, of course ) how
this is going to go!
ok basically i will just repeat myself as i wat said in animepaper... here it is...
normally, a guy makes the first move for girls and so they are the one who should court or woo the girl but what will you think or said or what will be your opinion if a girl court or woo a guy not the first thing around... ( let's make an exceptions for a girl-to-girl relationship about this topic...)
i made this topic because i want the opinions for people becuase i'm kinda planning to court a guy but i feel that it will be weird and he will just laugh at me and stare at me like i'm a crazy girl... so wat do you think about this girl courting a guy?
why not?
equal rights for everyone!
perhaps you want to try not to exaggerate it too much,
it might turn out silly
however, gernerally i think gender seperating thinking should be cut back.
Who cares who courts who? As long as you end up together, why does it matter how you get there (as long as no one else is hurt or anything, of course)? Happiness is your goal, so just go for it!
I wouldn't call it courting, but now a days lots of girls ask out guys. It is getting to be more and more of a common thing. Guys are shy and girls are getting tired of waiting around for them to get up the courage to ask them out. So they do it for them. I've asked guys out and they don't think anything of it. Although I personally like to be asked out by guys than asking them out. Guess I am just tradional. But when I know that they are too shy to do it then I ask them. Well I say you should go for it! You aren't being weird by doing it! Good Luck!
I wouldn't suggest wooing the guy, just give them one of those big hints like your phone number, ask him to visit for no apperant reason, etc. Something so obvious, that a 5 year old can figure it out. Then you give the guy about 2-3 days (or more depending on how busy the guy is), if he doesn't do anything. The problem isn't you, it's him. And you should probably move on to another person.
I may be of the egalitarian kind of whatever name you want to say, but I can't see why girls couldn't court guys. Of course, traditionally... But traditionally women ended up spending their time between the kitchen and the craddle to watch over the last kid to date.
Ditto.
WOO HOO!
Bring it on!
It
shows character, and definety puts the cards in her favor....for she is leading,
or taking control of the romance. She is going to call the shots; what she would
like, what she won't stand for, and what she will compromise with.....all before
the poor helpless guy can be able to grasp the situation! Now, if the guy is
being chased by a crap load of girls (or he is doing the chasing), then the best
bet is to let that dude go......for he has issues, if you know what I
mean.
If I had a daughter, she would be like that! It's all about knowing what you want and going for it! With common sense and good taste, mind you......
go for it!:nya:
it's not so uncommon anymore to have a girl be more foreward. i think that if a guy is too shy to ask a girl out (or too dumb lol)then she should take the initiative if she really likes him. guys who would say it "damages their masculinity"or somthing are just insecure.
well......i dont like the idea of girls courting boys....it's being cheap....and it boosts the guy's ego.....
It's kind of wrong that a girl is courting the guy. I mean...if he sees you like him, he might end up taking advantage of you an all. There's a large chance that you can end up getting heart broken.
Well... technically, the opposite is also true... I mean that some girls don't really have problems using guys who have a crush for them.
On this aspect, some girls can be as cold and egocentric as some guys. And don't start mumbling about this, it's a fact. The proportions may be different, but there are such people everywhere, no matter the gender or age. And don't go saying that girls always have crystal pure hearts hiding their white angels wings in their hearts. I've had enough female friends to know otherwise (fellow guys, beware, girls chatting together are sometimes hardly any better than guys). And please note that even guys can be 'fleur bleue', soft hearted.
Moreover, the fact that a guy courts a girl does not mean he can't have weird ideas running wild in the head. History is filled with sweet talkers who use words to gain women's hearts only to break them later on, after they reached their goals. Be honest, don't tell me this doesn't ring a bell...
In the end, I'd advice to take into consideration this:
"Impose ta chance, serre ton bonheur et va vers ton risque."
"Impose your chance, hold tight your happiness and go toward your risk."
Rene Char
what's your problem in courting a guy? if a girl likes a boy why doesn't she can't let him help to understand it? the point is that you don't have to exagerate! then go for it
and
let us know (if you want, of course 
) how
this is going to go!
I myself wouldn't do it, but
I don't look down on those who do.
Personally I'd want a guy who would have the guts to ask me first.