Livin life properly just for other's.
I don't realy care about myself. is it right or is it wrong.I don't see any
reason for doing that. Just looking for other, and ofcorse i won't getting any
"thx" . Well i don't care about it too... Does it make me bad person ?
Its not bad at all that you help others. To be honest, those who doesnt thank
you are bad people. Just the word "thanks" can do so much, and even if
you dont care if they thank you or not its better than nothing.
Just looking for others and completely forget about what you are worth is bad.
If you help others more than you help yourself, then they have to at least help
you or say thanks. If they dont, then you have to think about yourself more. You
are worth so much more than this, and thats because you are so kind to others
helping them without even thinking about yourself. Treat yourself good and say
"No, im sure you can manage this by yourself.". Caring about others
and not yourself can be quite serious in the long run. When a person realize
that it doesnt matter if im feeling good or not and as long as the others are
happy, then it have went too far. Caring and helping others is good, but if they
dont show some respect or kindness against you, then theres something wrong with
those you help.
"Treat yourself good!" is my
word to you.
I have felt the same like you. I didnt care if I felt fine or not, as long as
the others are happy im fine. But I started to realize that I just felt bad in
the long run. No one said thanks, and no one talked to me so much. I had
friends, but they were crappy against me sometimes but I still helped them (and
of course, I did it without even caring about if I felt good or not ). In
the long run I couldnt take it. I said "No" to some people who asked
for help, and of course they got mad . They
didnt even think about how they treated me earlier. That is even a bigger reason
to say no.
Tell them that you are helping them, and they are NOT helping you. Saying the
word "thx", is it so hard? They didnt even do that.
So I say once again. "Treat yourself
good!" and "Say no when you
dont want to.".
I hoped that I have helped you at least a little. I wish you the best of luck in
the future and I hope that everything will be fine!
hmhmhm!.. i think, you've got a weak heart, but i'm not saying it's something
bad or uncool... its just that,, your too kind, but in this world, with that
attitude, you'll get abused by those people out there...
you know what? you'll end up hating those people who forget about you...
i'm not saying that you should stop being nice but when your nice to others, you
should also be nice to yourself..
sooner or later people would tend to take advantage of you if you keep on being
nice to others,..
sacrificing you own happiness,,
i don't think its not that you don't mind it, YOU mind it but you have a weak
spot for those people who "NEED" help
you should put in mind that we should live in a "give and take
relationship" state
anyway,,sometimes, you "must" think of your good...
help if it would save a thousand lives..
don't if it would save some greedy butt who doesn't even know the word
"THANK YOU"
Know the feeling exactly, I'm the kinda person who will take a hit, if it means
someone else doesn't have to. The term for that kind of thing is selfless, which
I find so appropriate as when I act like that, its like I don't even matter or
exist.
I learnt that in order to help others, you need to look after yourself though,
help others as much as you want, but don't forget yourself.
hrumph... i don't know , it's kind a hard to me make choise or change something
in "life" .I quess rorenzu was right, im not that strong as i wan't (
have ) to be, and this kindness is very depresing from inside. Like i can't
change anything about those people im helping ... and it sometimes hurt's if
their wrong and i can't change a Damn think.
Love others like you love yourself... <--This is what christians believe
Jesus said... Well, that kinda make sense, if one can't even care for oneself,
how can one care for others? So you can't really just care about others and
completely forget to care about yourself.
You should think this way instead, "I must take care of myself very well so
that i can give my all to help others." I think that's the best for
everybody.
But of course reality is not that nice... You can count with your fingers people
who will really do that in the world...
Something like this isn't right or wrong. I was like that and I was completely
miserable. That is until I just got fed up, told everyone to shove it. Whatever
works for you just works. It's not right or wrong.
man you remind me of me... the same feeling and playing with fire
... i do the same too...tho i get some thnx and stuff...i never really cared
tho...as a matter of fact i dont care that much of anything ... -.-
Livin life properly just for other's.
I don't realy care about myself. is it right or is it wrong.I don't see any reason for doing that. Just looking for other, and ofcorse i won't getting any "thx" . Well i don't care about it too... Does it make me bad person ?
Its not bad at all that you help others. To be honest, those who doesnt thank you are bad people. Just the word "thanks" can do so much, and even if you dont care if they thank you or not its better than nothing.
Just looking for others and completely forget about what you are worth is bad. If you help others more than you help yourself, then they have to at least help you or say thanks. If they dont, then you have to think about yourself more. You are worth so much more than this, and thats because you are so kind to others helping them without even thinking about yourself. Treat yourself good and say "No, im sure you can manage this by yourself.". Caring about others and not yourself can be quite serious in the long run. When a person realize that it doesnt matter if im feeling good or not and as long as the others are happy, then it have went too far. Caring and helping others is good, but if they dont show some respect or kindness against you, then theres something wrong with those you help.
"Treat yourself good!" is my word to you.
I have felt the same like you. I didnt care if I felt fine or not, as long as the others are happy im fine. But I started to realize that I just felt bad in the long run. No one said thanks, and no one talked to me so much. I had friends, but they were crappy against me sometimes but I still helped them (and of course, I did it without even caring about if I felt good or not
). In
the long run I couldnt take it. I said "No" to some people who asked
for help, and of course they got mad 
. They
didnt even think about how they treated me earlier. That is even a bigger reason
to say no.
Tell them that you are helping them, and they are NOT helping you. Saying the word "thx", is it so hard? They didnt even do that.
So I say once again. "Treat yourself good!" and "Say no when you dont want to.".
I hoped that I have helped you at least a little. I wish you the best of luck in the future and I hope that everything will be fine!
~~~~~~~~
afaT
hmhmhm!.. i think, you've got a weak heart, but i'm not saying it's something bad or uncool... its just that,, your too kind, but in this world, with that attitude, you'll get abused by those people out there...
you know what? you'll end up hating those people who forget about you...
i'm not saying that you should stop being nice but when your nice to others, you should also be nice to yourself..
sooner or later people would tend to take advantage of you if you keep on being nice to others,..
sacrificing you own happiness,,
i don't think its not that you don't mind it, YOU mind it but you have a weak spot for those people who "NEED" help
you should put in mind that we should live in a "give and take relationship" state
anyway,,sometimes, you "must" think of your good...
help if it would save a thousand lives..
don't if it would save some greedy butt who doesn't even know the word "THANK YOU"
Know the feeling exactly, I'm the kinda person who will take a hit, if it means someone else doesn't have to. The term for that kind of thing is selfless, which I find so appropriate as when I act like that, its like I don't even matter or exist.
I learnt that in order to help others, you need to look after yourself though, help others as much as you want, but don't forget yourself.
hrumph... i don't know , it's kind a hard to me make choise or change something in "life" .I quess rorenzu was right, im not that strong as i wan't ( have ) to be, and this kindness is very depresing from inside. Like i can't change anything about those people im helping ... and it sometimes hurt's if their wrong and i can't change a Damn think.
Love others like you love yourself... <--This is what christians believe Jesus said... Well, that kinda make sense, if one can't even care for oneself, how can one care for others? So you can't really just care about others and completely forget to care about yourself.
You should think this way instead, "I must take care of myself very well so that i can give my all to help others." I think that's the best for everybody.
But of course reality is not that nice... You can count with your fingers people who will really do that in the world...
Something like this isn't right or wrong. I was like that and I was completely miserable. That is until I just got fed up, told everyone to shove it. Whatever works for you just works. It's not right or wrong.
saikyou , i think you got a point, I'll trie to get it .Anyway im playing with fire ,and thenever it stops spreading , smoke starts rising ...
man you remind me of me... the same feeling and playing with fire
... i do the same too...tho i get some thnx and stuff...i never really cared
tho...as a matter of fact i dont care that much of anything ... -.-