Be a human,always have a lots problems everyday......So if you still got
problem,then you can share with us and try to give some advices or help
.......
Wait is this a thread encouraging others to post on the forums more and share
thier ideas/thoughts or is the topic talking about posting our problems on this
very thread and you helping us out?
I have a problem and its currently bugging me abit too much.
You see there's this girl (and I know what's going through your mind right now.
Here's some loser guy who can't get a girl and is currently complaining. Well
its nothing like that). Anyway there's this girl and all I have is her email
adress and so its not like I present myself as a stalker or anything as I don't
send her emails and I only talk to her when she's online. So anyway everytime we
get into a conversation she always has some kind of convenient excuse to come
out of it, oh like this one, "I have to go now cause I need to watch Law
and Order right now. Who actually watches that show. Okay maybe I'm exaggerating
abit and maybe I'm over reacting but this has been happening for the last five
conversations and its really pissing me off. Like i said its not like I'm
hitting on the girl or anything. All I want to do is to know her more as a
friend that's all. This has never happened to me before with any of my
girlfriend friends if you know what I mean. So can you help me out here and
don't say just ignore her cause I've herd that before.
Ohh, I got a problem, I always wanna see people die.. And i also have a constant
fear that someone always there.. I also get very happy when I see red liquid
What shall I do?
Quote by Blaze016I have a problem and
its currently bugging me abit too much.
You see there's this girl (and I know what's going through your mind right now.
Here's some loser guy who can't get a girl and is currently complaining. Well
its nothing like that). Anyway there's this girl and all I have is her email
adress and so its not like I present myself as a stalker or anything as I don't
send her emails and I only talk to her when she's online. So anyway everytime we
get into a conversation she always has some kind of convenient excuse to come
out of it, oh like this one, "I have to go now cause I need to watch Law
and Order right now. Who actually watches that show. Okay maybe I'm exaggerating
abit and maybe I'm over reacting but this has been happening for the last five
conversations and its really pissing me off. Like i said its not like I'm
hitting on the girl or anything. All I want to do is to know her more as a
friend that's all. This has never happened to me before with any of my
girlfriend friends if you know what I mean. So can you help me out here and
don't say just ignore her cause I've herd that before.
ok in my opinion just try to say to her that i need to knwo more about u
but i want to tell u somthing that about ur situation u know the gurl from the
net u didnt see her and u dunt know anything about her
so just MAKE SURE about this
nothing personal but i kinda hate internet relationship
sorry! anyway just try to tell her what u want and do remember that gurls dunt
think like u guys we do weird stuff and
act as we want without thinking ov other feeling its
bad thou good luck
Quote by Sn34k3rOhh, I got a problem, I
always wanna see people die.. And i also have a constant fear that someone
always there.. I also get very happy when I see red liquid What
shall I do?
about this thing well i dunno what to say but n my opinion it maybe just a weird
thing not that bad as for me i love to see people killing each other n a movie
but not n a real life about th red liquid thing well try to think ov other
things and quick this ideas by doing and planning other things... if u think u
really cant quick ov this and u want more and more then u really must see a doc
its not a bad thing theres lotsa people who just go and talk to doctors and ask
them what to do
really its not that bad its better than doing something wrong
ps: this is just my opinion ov view nothing personal and i'm a
normal gurl like u guys
Actually I was just joking.. Or well, at least a little But
actually I like see people die in movies and such, dunno RL since I've never
seen one but I guess that is diffrence and hope I wont see it.. and about
blood.. argh.. That I actually like alot to see Blood
is pretty
I have a problem (once again) and i need some advice on how to handle the
situation (although i'm pretty sure what to do however). I recently went to this
new school and i fell for this girl (let's call her Kate). Well after two weeks
i told her my feelings and then she said that she didn't really know me
so.....you get the idea. Technically i wasn't really rejected but this had me in
depression for a three days or so (this was seven weeks ago by the way). Well i
never got over her and i still liked her more than a friend but she fell for
this other guys (well interms of looks) and asked me for advice about how to
approach him. Well i gave her advice but then i realised (or i thought) that it
was over between the two of us and that there was no chance for me to be with
her. Well weeks passed by and i finally was able to sleep in peace (before then
i used to think about her everynight). It was as these weeks passed by that i
realised that she was somewhat still interested in me (yeah the feeling was abit
mutual at first but because i rushed things why i got rejected) but still wanted
the other guy. I decided to wait and see how things play out and to my benifit
she never really liked the guy's personality so i was back in the picture
somewhat because my personality was better. The catch was that communication
between us wasn't exaclty smooth so there never was really a strong connection.
Well as the weeks went by (about five weeks after the events of confession)
there was this other girl (let's call her Jess) and our eyes always seemed to
meet (and this was some three weeks before). In terms of looks Jess would
deifinitly win but there's something about Kate that has me attracted to her
more than Jess. Anyway Jess seemed to be one hell of a problem. First of all she
had a boyfriend (that didn't go the same school however), secondly she had
mutual feelings for my BEST FRIEND! who isn't her boyfriend. Thirdly she ended
up KISSING my best friend during a group date to the movies. Now the funny thing
is this was during the same week i got know her and started hanging around her
and she even invited me to go to the same movies they went to the night she and
my best friend were kissing. I rejected however cause i was dead broke. The
kissing thing didn't get me jealous however cause the way i see it i was third
option in her mind and she was second option in my mind. Anyway, the kissing
thing was a friday and she told me this over the phone on sunday and told me
that she had something to tell me on monday. On monday she told me that she was
going to tell my best friend that she doesn't think that she deserves him cause
she believes she gives him stress (honestly when i herd that i thought it was
the typical girl excuse for pushing a guy away) and then afterwards she and her
boyfriend broke up and i was the first to hear of this (to this day some people
don't even know what i know and that's a week after). Anyway after that she
seemed somewhat interested in me and to some extent I was interested in her and
her friends seemed to think that the feeling was mutual between us and i believe
it is. Now the thing is Kate still loams in the picture here cause i still like
Kate as more than i friend and she seemed to pick up on the fact that i spend
time with Jess now. Now recently i think jealousy kicked in with Kate because i
was spending time talking to Jess under a tree and Kate was some twenty meter
from where we were talking and her eyes seemed to somewhat gloom towards us
(particulary me) and after Jess left she camed from where she was and started to
dance with me and stuff like that. Anyway the point is that i like the two of
them but i like Kate more but Kate seems some what hard to talk to and Jess was
abit more easier to connect with and now i can't decide between who to try
something with cause. Can you help me out her trying to decide between the two
of them.
Holly crap! your whole scenerio sounds like an anime show I watched over the
summer called "ichigo 100%" lol.
Well anyways that sounds tough!
A bit of advice....
get ur facts straight about "kate", find out if she likes you the way
u like her and if she does ask her out to the movies or i donno ( a place of ur
choice) but either way ask her out wit the intention of getting to know her
better.
As for "Jess" You sound uncertain about her, so first try to get to
kno kate better see if it's true what you feel for kate cuz... feelings can be
misleading during times
XD hope eveything goes well
Hey Blaze, i read your whole thing dude, and honestly, since i "know"
(guess) u'r still in high school. Let's get the Real Feeling (Fact) Straight.
Kate = your idol.
Jess = could be your best friend/ girl friend.
The thing you need to find out yourself is, the true relationship of you guys.
You and Jess, you and Kate. Back in my days of HS, i had my Kate, just like
yours. And we didn't really connect. So it didn't work out. But Kate talked to
you, so it's a "start" after all this weeks, also a good sign.
Relationship take times to develop, unless you just wanna hang out with her and
call her your girlfriend. It's about your everyday activities, your interests,
musics, subjects, personalities, looks, blah blah blah...
It's up to you to find out. Take it slow. Mannn, u'r like my lil bro, haha, cuz
i totally had wateva u had man. Remember, Take it SLOWWwwww.... and be yourself
.
If things work out, tell me in my mail ^^.
You know, here's a thought, right? Kate rejected you, Jess didn't. Sure, you
might think that Jess is your second option, but the fact is, it seems like she
IS your option right now. I mean, the way I see it, Kate rejected you first
before she goes and decided that she liked you after someone else likes you.
While Jess decided to like you just as you are. And on top of that, you said
it's easier to connect to Jess than Kate. You know how difficult girls are?
Trust me, I know, I am one. It is hard enough to know what we want, even when we
put it glaringly in front of your face. When you get into this thing, every
single bit of help you can get, you will need, so, pick one with easier
connection. The way I see it, your choice is clear. It just depends on you if
you want to take it or not.
I understand how you feel about Kate, but hey, you said you liked Jess, so,
what's the problem? And another thing is, keep in mind that you can't keep
sacrificing other girls for Kate.
Problems?
Hmmm....
not sure if you can help me restore my life but I think it worth the price to
try.
I got this problem with my whole family,
let say I was the strange one in the family, so they treat me diferent, that
make me feel like i was being abandoned, after that another problem start with
my brother, thanks to that I couln't study so now I'm working everyday just to
get money enough to keep myself alive, there was another problem with my father,
but thats a long story, when I turn 16 I leave the family to start living on my
own, but that was the begining of something even more worst, after 4 years I
finaly feel a little better, thanks to some friends,
but now I wonder if there is a way to restore my life and erase the memorys of
the past so i can live a peaceful life....
Well, i hope this don't become a joke again,
let see what you think...
A problem eh? It's more like i'm stubborn and too afraid, but i'll say it anyway
since I want to see what people are going to say.
It's a typical girl falls for guy but the guy doesn't know thing. I dated once
when I was in JHS and I was like wayyy young. After 5 months I broke it off cuz
we were far apart and it hurt too much. Ever since then, I haven't dated in
say... 3 years. Freshman yr of HS, this guy annoyed me so much and I didn't like
him. And we had more and more classes together and I eventually got used to him.
We became pretty good buddies, fooling around, laughing, making fun of
eachother. Then when we had less classes together, I kind of missed him. We had frees together so that was good enough
for me. Then we totally couldn't see eachother anymore cuz he was nowhere within
reach and I could only chat to him online. Yeah, we would sort of flirt, I
think. Earlier in the year I applied to change schools. Some monthes later I got
my results back and I decided to change schools. He didn't get any results so he
was really upset. I told him I was transferring and he got mad and ignored me
for like 2 weeks. I was really upset and I was thinking about him more and more
often and it made me sad. He stopped ignoring me and accepted the fact that i'm
not going to be there anymore. We had an art trip together for school and he
stuck with me the ENTIRE time. On the subway he was telling me all sorts of
stuff dealing with his past. That was the final straw... I LIKED him a whole
lot. I told myself I would confess to him with a gift (hand made). Okay, that
failed. Now I can't see him because i'm not in the same school anymore and i'm
too stubborn to admit to him that i'm like head over heals for him.
Stress keeps building and I try to brush it off cuz I say to myself education
comes first. Should I just give up?
Be a human,always have a lots problems everyday......So if you still got problem,then you can share with us and try to give some advices or help .......
yes!
I'm currently problem-free thanks, but I have got a bad cold
Then tou should take a rest and drink some hot water...
Wait is this a thread encouraging others to post on the forums more and share thier ideas/thoughts or is the topic talking about posting our problems on this very thread and you helping us out?
I have a problem and its currently bugging me abit too much.
You see there's this girl (and I know what's going through your mind right now. Here's some loser guy who can't get a girl and is currently complaining. Well its nothing like that). Anyway there's this girl and all I have is her email adress and so its not like I present myself as a stalker or anything as I don't send her emails and I only talk to her when she's online. So anyway everytime we get into a conversation she always has some kind of convenient excuse to come out of it, oh like this one, "I have to go now cause I need to watch Law and Order right now. Who actually watches that show. Okay maybe I'm exaggerating abit and maybe I'm over reacting but this has been happening for the last five conversations and its really pissing me off. Like i said its not like I'm hitting on the girl or anything. All I want to do is to know her more as a friend that's all. This has never happened to me before with any of my girlfriend friends if you know what I mean. So can you help me out here and don't say just ignore her cause I've herd that before.
Um...I watch that show.
Have you even met this girl in person?
You can try to ask her when you 2 online.Maybe she wants to give an excuse to offline,but she afraid to hunt your feeling....
Ohh, I got a problem, I always wanna see people die.. And i also have a constant fear that someone always there.. I also get very happy when I see red liquid
What shall I do? 
ok in my opinion just try to say to her that i need to knwo more about u
but i want to tell u somthing that about ur situation u know the gurl from the net u didnt see her and u dunt know anything about her
about this thing well i dunno what to say but n my opinion it maybe just a weird thing not that bad as for me i love to see people killing each other n a movie but not n a real life about th red liquid thing well try to think ov other things and quick this ideas by doing and planning other things... if u think u really cant quick ov this and u want more and more then u really must see a doc its not a bad thing theres lotsa people who just go and talk to doctors and ask them what to do
really its not that bad its better than doing something wrong 
Actually I was just joking.. Or well, at least a little
But
actually I like see people die in movies and such, dunno RL since I've never
seen one but I guess that is diffrence and hope I wont see it.. and about
blood.. argh.. That I actually like alot to see 
Blood
is pretty 
I have a problem (once again) and i need some advice on how to handle the situation (although i'm pretty sure what to do however). I recently went to this new school and i fell for this girl (let's call her Kate). Well after two weeks i told her my feelings and then she said that she didn't really know me so.....you get the idea. Technically i wasn't really rejected but this had me in depression for a three days or so (this was seven weeks ago by the way). Well i never got over her and i still liked her more than a friend but she fell for this other guys (well interms of looks) and asked me for advice about how to approach him. Well i gave her advice but then i realised (or i thought) that it was over between the two of us and that there was no chance for me to be with her. Well weeks passed by and i finally was able to sleep in peace (before then i used to think about her everynight). It was as these weeks passed by that i realised that she was somewhat still interested in me (yeah the feeling was abit mutual at first but because i rushed things why i got rejected) but still wanted the other guy. I decided to wait and see how things play out and to my benifit she never really liked the guy's personality so i was back in the picture somewhat because my personality was better. The catch was that communication between us wasn't exaclty smooth so there never was really a strong connection. Well as the weeks went by (about five weeks after the events of confession) there was this other girl (let's call her Jess) and our eyes always seemed to meet (and this was some three weeks before). In terms of looks Jess would deifinitly win but there's something about Kate that has me attracted to her more than Jess. Anyway Jess seemed to be one hell of a problem. First of all she had a boyfriend (that didn't go the same school however), secondly she had mutual feelings for my BEST FRIEND! who isn't her boyfriend. Thirdly she ended up KISSING my best friend during a group date to the movies. Now the funny thing is this was during the same week i got know her and started hanging around her and she even invited me to go to the same movies they went to the night she and my best friend were kissing. I rejected however cause i was dead broke. The kissing thing didn't get me jealous however cause the way i see it i was third option in her mind and she was second option in my mind. Anyway, the kissing thing was a friday and she told me this over the phone on sunday and told me that she had something to tell me on monday. On monday she told me that she was going to tell my best friend that she doesn't think that she deserves him cause she believes she gives him stress (honestly when i herd that i thought it was the typical girl excuse for pushing a guy away) and then afterwards she and her boyfriend broke up and i was the first to hear of this (to this day some people don't even know what i know and that's a week after). Anyway after that she seemed somewhat interested in me and to some extent I was interested in her and her friends seemed to think that the feeling was mutual between us and i believe it is. Now the thing is Kate still loams in the picture here cause i still like Kate as more than i friend and she seemed to pick up on the fact that i spend time with Jess now. Now recently i think jealousy kicked in with Kate because i was spending time talking to Jess under a tree and Kate was some twenty meter from where we were talking and her eyes seemed to somewhat gloom towards us (particulary me) and after Jess left she camed from where she was and started to dance with me and stuff like that. Anyway the point is that i like the two of them but i like Kate more but Kate seems some what hard to talk to and Jess was abit more easier to connect with and now i can't decide between who to try something with cause. Can you help me out her trying to decide between the two of them.
Holly crap! your whole scenerio sounds like an anime show I watched over the summer called "ichigo 100%" lol.
Well anyways that sounds tough!
A bit of advice....
get ur facts straight about "kate", find out if she likes you the way u like her and if she does ask her out to the movies or i donno ( a place of ur choice) but either way ask her out wit the intention of getting to know her better.
As for "Jess" You sound uncertain about her, so first try to get to kno kate better see if it's true what you feel for kate cuz... feelings can be misleading during times
XD hope eveything goes well
Hey Blaze, i read your whole thing dude, and honestly, since i "know" (guess) u'r still in high school. Let's get the Real Feeling (Fact) Straight.
Kate = your idol.
Jess = could be your best friend/ girl friend.
The thing you need to find out yourself is, the true relationship of you guys. You and Jess, you and Kate. Back in my days of HS, i had my Kate, just like yours. And we didn't really connect. So it didn't work out. But Kate talked to you, so it's a "start" after all this weeks, also a good sign.
.
Relationship take times to develop, unless you just wanna hang out with her and call her your girlfriend. It's about your everyday activities, your interests, musics, subjects, personalities, looks, blah blah blah...
It's up to you to find out. Take it slow. Mannn, u'r like my lil bro, haha, cuz i totally had wateva u had man. Remember, Take it SLOWWwwww.... and be yourself
If things work out, tell me in my mail ^^.
You know, here's a thought, right? Kate rejected you, Jess didn't. Sure, you might think that Jess is your second option, but the fact is, it seems like she IS your option right now. I mean, the way I see it, Kate rejected you first before she goes and decided that she liked you after someone else likes you. While Jess decided to like you just as you are. And on top of that, you said it's easier to connect to Jess than Kate. You know how difficult girls are? Trust me, I know, I am one. It is hard enough to know what we want, even when we put it glaringly in front of your face. When you get into this thing, every single bit of help you can get, you will need, so, pick one with easier connection. The way I see it, your choice is clear. It just depends on you if you want to take it or not.
I understand how you feel about Kate, but hey, you said you liked Jess, so, what's the problem? And another thing is, keep in mind that you can't keep sacrificing other girls for Kate.
Problems?
Hmmm....
not sure if you can help me restore my life but I think it worth the price to try.
I got this problem with my whole family,
let say I was the strange one in the family, so they treat me diferent, that make me feel like i was being abandoned, after that another problem start with my brother, thanks to that I couln't study so now I'm working everyday just to get money enough to keep myself alive, there was another problem with my father, but thats a long story, when I turn 16 I leave the family to start living on my own, but that was the begining of something even more worst, after 4 years I finaly feel a little better, thanks to some friends,
but now I wonder if there is a way to restore my life and erase the memorys of the past so i can live a peaceful life....
Well, i hope this don't become a joke again,
let see what you think...
so I like this girl...but she has a boyfriend...should I kill him?
KILL HIM?
HAVE YOU ever thought maybe she love the guy?
If I are you,I will let her makes her choice to chosse......
We cant too care about us only......Need to know her feeling.
Benjikun7? Are you that desperate?
Don't go there.
A problem eh? It's more like i'm stubborn and too afraid, but i'll say it anyway since I want to see what people are going to say.
It's a typical girl falls for guy but the guy doesn't know thing. I dated once when I was in JHS and I was like wayyy young. After 5 months I broke it off cuz we were far apart and it hurt too much. Ever since then, I haven't dated in say... 3 years. Freshman yr of HS, this guy annoyed me so much and I didn't like him. And we had more and more classes together and I eventually got used to him. We became pretty good buddies, fooling around, laughing, making fun of eachother. Then when we had less classes together, I kind of missed him. We had frees together so that was good enough for me. Then we totally couldn't see eachother anymore cuz he was nowhere within reach and I could only chat to him online. Yeah, we would sort of flirt, I think. Earlier in the year I applied to change schools. Some monthes later I got my results back and I decided to change schools. He didn't get any results so he was really upset. I told him I was transferring and he got mad and ignored me for like 2 weeks. I was really upset and I was thinking about him more and more often and it made me sad. He stopped ignoring me and accepted the fact that i'm not going to be there anymore. We had an art trip together for school and he stuck with me the ENTIRE time. On the subway he was telling me all sorts of stuff dealing with his past. That was the final straw... I LIKED him a whole lot. I told myself I would confess to him with a gift (hand made). Okay, that failed. Now I can't see him because i'm not in the same school anymore and i'm too stubborn to admit to him that i'm like head over heals for him.
Stress keeps building and I try to brush it off cuz I say to myself education comes first. Should I just give up?