Which person do you go to when you're down or feeling miserable

Why?

i find that even though family may be your closest and most familiar option many tend to turn to friends these days....
Are family ties nowadays getting loose?

i for one goes into the shelter of my best friend everytime i get into a difficult situation...

I go to my bf, who is also one of my best friends, or one of my friends. I'll never go to my family for help on problems... they can't help me. I hide my problems from my family.

I don't go to anyone, I just live with my problems......... I used to have a friend....... but he's gone... for now that is....... I'll meet him again, but I'll have to wait for the next life......

hmm ic..

parents. in the case of our family they understand everything. they even encourage me to look out for other answers or simply give me free time.

I don't go to anybody. Not my parents and I'm not direct or open conversation. So really I dont got no one to turn to.

i go to no-one.

not because theres nobody there for me, but because i choose to.its my nature and character to keep quiet and solve things myself.probably also because i'm not a very trusting person when it comes to private things

i would say either mom, brother or best friend. depending on situation and topic.

i really dont know..... this is bad... i hate all of the counsellors (misspelled?) i have seen and do not trust my parents. as far as my friends i just dont think they would understand any of my unsolvable problems.

My boyfriend - I can't really go to my family as I don't live with them anymore and I don't have a counsellor. I go to my boyfriend because he reads me well and knows if I'm down, and usually just being around him can make me feel better about being sad. My boyfriend is also my best friend and confidante, so I feel like I can trust him if I'm feeling down and vulnerable.

I also go to no one, i despretely want to go to someone but yet there was no shoulder for me... I will just cry, cry alone, cheer myself up, until i am tired and forget abt everything just for awhile and i will try to heal or solve... If not then depressed down the journey...

I wish I could tell you but I have never been down and miserable before.

I don't talk to anyone.. I don't think they would care about my stupid problems anyway :P

i dont, cant, and wont go to anyone else anymore for my problems, not after whats happend ovr n over again i cant trust ne1 and quite possibly nevr will again, iv just learnd to deal with my problems by my damn self, thers noone around here wo can help me around, so im left in solitude to deal with anything and evrything, most of the time is spent depressed in a dark daaark place with noone to turn to, nevr hav understood my "mom" so yea, good luck trying to understand me, but id rather deal with it alone, its noone else problem but my own, so i dont need there fucking help or pity or anything else from any1 at all!

inside of myself... cause that's where it started from...

I keep my miseries to myself unless it's something which affects everyone. =P

It is like, since i am afflicted with my misery, i take it like a man and settle it thyself. Lol. Yeah, it stinks but that's my life i am curse to deal with. Lol. Unless one day, i find the One. Then, 2 can share each other's miseries ! Lol. But i do share my thoughts though.

probably to the girlfren, coz frens... those who arent true frens, they use ur secret and give out as jokes, or betray u.. hard to trust ppl man.

who do i go to?....
aaliyah ^__~
but seriously, wheres teh music option? lol
(ps. aaliyah is an rnb singer for those who didnt kno ^__^)

isnt it cwrazy how someone u dun even kno can pick u up more than ur family n friends can simply thru their music? 0__o

allow me to clarify my position...

I would go inside of myself not to just hide, but to explore and determine the root cause of my undermined state of of mind... if that does not resolve cause of my own inhibitions or reluctance to see clearly, then I would seek counsel from family, friends or qualifies persons that may have a different perspective, such as that which may have eluded my grasp. In life however, there are certain elements, ideas, and/or actions that are not answerable by any means except coming to terms with reality and accepting our fate as the unbaised judge of the universe. ^__^