we were to choose partners for a project... well usually i go with one of my
girlfriends but then this guy ask me before we decided so i well i guess nvm
first come first basis... so well i dont really know him just that he was my
classmate... from being classmates with i find him pleasant and trustworthy...
but well as it goes hes so difficult to work.. ok to cut long story short...
after long sleepless nights and help from ever so helpful boyfriend i finish the
project almost individually..... ok i think you know what happen he took all the
credit for what i have done &@^$*@&$^@^$@@^$&$ what the hell.. ok im
boiling i stop here..... p
merged: 06-02-2006 ~ 02:42pm
Sorry for double posting...
Well thats what really happen... we spend a day finishing a weeks job... what
got me mad was he never told her anything... she told him do this and say ya ok
ok ok ok then she ask him again he say in the middle of it or something... never
even told her he did nothing till like 3 days before.... Cant forget that time i
went her house she was hysterical.... and this project was a heavy percentage to
her subject and she needs every credit she can get to get to university after
faring badly the other year..... And the project evaluation he just got the
cheek...
Hes lucky my girl is a peacemaker.....
**Sorry Cat just had to say something...hope i didnt say too much..
I'm so sorry for you...
I've never been betrayed by anyone... But then again I select my friends really
carefully and not many people that I know are close to me because I'm not very
trusting person... Or someone who likes to make friends azap... That's why I've
got very loyal friends even though I don't have many of them just a few...
Quote by lacusxxclyneWell my story
goes like this...
we were to choose partners for a project... well usually i go with one of my
girlfriends but then this guy ask me before we decided so i well i guess nvm
first come first basis... so well i dont really know him just that he was my
classmate... from being classmates with i find him pleasant and trustworthy...
but well as it goes hes so difficult to work.. ok to cut long story short...
after long sleepless nights and help from ever so helpful boyfriend i finish the
project almost individually..... ok i think you know what happen he took all the
credit for what i have done &@^$*@&$^@^$@@^$&$ what the hell.. ok im
boiling i stop here..... p
..sorry to hear that you had to go through this. I can understand what you went
through, something similar happened to me during my A-Level Psychology project.
All I can say is that, try not to let this affect you too much in trusting other
people. All you can take away from this is experience in that you know you will
be capable to handle big projects if need be by yourself, whereas your partner
if s/he met this situation again will not be able to do anything as he is used
to relying on people. It just goes to show that how capable you are as an
individual...
Heads up!
Ye, it have happened -.-. In sixth grade, I got a really nice friend. Omg, I
loved being with him. We walked in the forest talking, we stood by each others
sides, we were helping each other!
I dont really know if I can call this a betrayal, but in seventh grade he got
new friends, he was acting strange against me (in a bad way) and he were a total
bad ass against because of his new friends. He thinks that he has to be that way
so he can keep them, but I dont think so -.-. They were joking and complaining
one time cause he have changed so much
Well, yeah, the same thing happened with my other friend, but he is not so
irritating as the other one.
As I said, I cant really call this a betrayal, but I dont like it -.-. Changing
cause of new friends and stamps on the others. Bad style
of course... it happened to me this year... the day after Valentine's day... i
will never forget that.
He stand in front of me with his so "beloved" girlfriend telling me
that i was a lier and he didnt want to know about me since that day... I stayed
=-|...
I stayed calm becuz if i woulda talk i would tell him in front of his
“BELOVED 
GIRLFRIEND, what there am said TO (THERE AM DEAREST to ME AND MOST LOVED FRIEND
AND WOMAN) about to her, about to her feelings towards me, and towards her, but
I didnt do it becuz i would had untied a storm and i woulda felt so great for to
f"#$ck them both very well at the same time.
But i'm a free soul of life, and my job in this life is not to F#$#$%CK
anybody's life in this sh!tty life, sometimes.
but anyways is like a quote that pple says everyday:
"Sh!t happens"
it happened to me a couple of years ago. is started to make new friends and a 2
of my old friends didn't like that. they told lies about me to them and the
other way around . luckily for me my newer friends understood rather quickly what was going on.
in the end i broke up with them in a rather unpleasant way, but i don't regret
that. i just wanted to be with whoever i wished and
anyone that doesn't approve of that is not worth my time
One person went straight to getting me in trouble behind my back while acting
all nice in my face without talking about the problem to me. To this day I still
want to hurt him in more ways than one.
Quote by Odeena Because I'm such a
workaholic and people who work with me in a 'team' tend to let me do all the
hard work. But you know what? Having something like that coming from one of your
friends can be really @#$&^ sometimes... So here's my advice: make him pay
you back in some way. It doesn't matter in which way, just make him do it. I'm
sure that'll make you feel better
Quote by DanTheGreat well during the
last day of my senior year in HS.. my whole group of friends save for three
loyal ones... i don't really want to talk about it anymore....
Well i accidentally double-posted so well yup this is some others from the other
thread i thought maybe i should put it here....
thank you all for posting... sorry i dont have the time to read it now but ill
still read it later.... promise...**cross fingers
merged: 06-05-2006 ~ 12:04pm
how you wish they got rid of such mean people...
i well my so called friends were nce to me for the longest timebut in the end in
i can down to it they had been pretending to be my friend and well they had
wanted me to steal something for them in the first placebut i refused so they
came out and told me that ower friendship was a lie
and thats it......
we were very close. But one day she started to treat me coldly. I wonder why she
treated me like that, i never care to ask since i thought maybe she got some
kind of family problem.
After a few days
i went eating with my other friends at the canteen. One of my friend said that
she was telling bad things about me. Then i realised that was why she treated me
that way. Destroy our friendship. I dont know what i did to her, to deserved
that.
This happen a very looong time ago, she already apolagised.
i have suffered many indirect and direct betrayals by "friends" other
people and even my family. it leaves me with a strangely helpless feeling and i
feel sorry for you. ( something like that happend to me once too).
Urg I hate partner projects! Lacusxxclyne, I'm sure you know by now but never
pair up with someone you don't really know! You'll end up cheating them out of
work or it'll happen the other way around. This is just like a lesson that's
been imprinted in my mind (exactly like the lesson of: never eat salads from a
fast food restaurant!) because I made a mistake, thought it wouldn't happen with
another person, then made the mistake again.
And for being betrayed by friends - - in grade five, I had a HUGE crush on this
guy, but my so called "best friend" had a crush on him too so she told
everyone about my feelings during library time. It was the worst day of my life
;_;
I haven't been betrayed in the manner you're talking about in this thread.
When I was younger, I thought an ex had betrayed my affection and trust by
dumping me, but when I grew up I realized I was treating her like crap and I
deserved it.
In general, I keep people at arm's length for a long time before I "let
them in"...I'm not antisocial, quite the opposite, but some masks stay on
for a long, long time before I take them off.
I can't afford to trust anyone. I've been back-stabbed and lied to way too much,
and on top of all that I was bullied. I hate group projects because I always end
up doing all the work.
my advice, don't trust anyone until you really get to know them, then decide if
you wanna trust them or not.
Well, I don't 'think' i was betrayed, but my friend did something that pissed me
off completely.
Well, last year, from that time, my friend suggested that we make a band. And so
I starterd forming up one, promoting members and making a myspace and such,
making piece and stuff. I also managed to find a studio in my school. So like, 6
weeks before this happned, we had our first rehearsal, and to be honest, it
didn't go that great. the next 2 week were holidays and the first week he
couldn't come because of something, and 2 weeks we managed to get something
done. However, a week before this happened, I repeated told him to come to the
studio, and after the fifth time, I had to walk over where he was. He was
talking to some girls and playing cards. That, obviously, made me quite mad. We
barely got 10 minutes of rehearsals done. However, this time, when I was
preparing things, he said he couldn't play because he had to go home early. So I
told him to play with me for 10 minutes, since I prepared everything. He didn't
come at all during the practice, and then my other friend told me he was in the
recreation room playing cards with the girls AGAIN. And he also told to tell me
that he's already gone home. And I silently checked over there, and voila, he
was laughing and playing with cards with the same girls last week. I was so
pissed and I had to pack everything up and wait for the next hour and 30 minutes
for my mum to pick me up and get me home.
Later, I found out that he had a crush on one of the girls, so he put that first
instead of the band. I can understand that, but I worry that he doesn't have any
commitments for it at all.
Well my story goes like this...
we were to choose partners for a project... well usually i go with one of my girlfriends but then this guy ask me before we decided so i well i guess nvm first come first basis... so well i dont really know him just that he was my classmate... from being classmates with i find him pleasant and trustworthy... but well as it goes hes so difficult to work.. ok to cut long story short... after long sleepless nights and help from ever so helpful boyfriend i finish the project almost individually..... ok i think you know what happen he took all the credit for what i have done &@^$*@&$^@^$@@^$&$ what the hell.. ok im boiling i stop here..... p
merged: 06-02-2006 ~ 02:42pm
Sorry for double posting...
YES!
like she is a good friend
but she hates everyone!
like -.-"
and to think i wanted to trust her
//after long sleepless nights and help from ever so helpful boyfriend i finish the project almost individually//
Let me get this straight lacusxxclyne-san....
You did almost all the work in making the project
and that so-called friend of yours that didn't do
that much to help you took all the credit?!
That's just so wrong!
Well thats what really happen... we spend a day finishing a weeks job... what got me mad was he never told her anything... she told him do this and say ya ok ok ok ok then she ask him again he say in the middle of it or something... never even told her he did nothing till like 3 days before.... Cant forget that time i went her house she was hysterical.... and this project was a heavy percentage to her subject and she needs every credit she can get to get to university after faring badly the other year..... And the project evaluation he just got the cheek...
Hes lucky my girl is a peacemaker.....
**Sorry Cat just had to say something...hope i didnt say too much..
honestly, no.
maybe because i've never let anyone close enough to hurt me that bad.
I'm so sorry for you...
I've never been betrayed by anyone... But then again I select my friends really carefully and not many people that I know are close to me because I'm not very trusting person... Or someone who likes to make friends azap... That's why I've got very loyal friends even though I don't have many of them just a few...
..sorry to hear that you had to go through this. I can understand what you went through, something similar happened to me during my A-Level Psychology project. All I can say is that, try not to let this affect you too much in trusting other people. All you can take away from this is experience in that you know you will be capable to handle big projects if need be by yourself, whereas your partner if s/he met this situation again will not be able to do anything as he is used to relying on people. It just goes to show that how capable you are as an individual...
Heads up!
Ye, it have happened -.-. In sixth grade, I got a really nice friend. Omg, I loved being with him. We walked in the forest talking, we stood by each others sides, we were helping each other!
I dont really know if I can call this a betrayal, but in seventh grade he got new friends, he was acting strange against me (in a bad way) and he were a total bad ass against because of his new friends. He thinks that he has to be that way so he can keep them, but I dont think so -.-. They were joking and complaining one time cause he have changed so much
Well, yeah, the same thing happened with my other friend, but he is not so irritating as the other one.
As I said, I cant really call this a betrayal, but I dont like it -.-. Changing cause of new friends and stamps on the others. Bad style
of course... it happened to me this year... the day after Valentine's day... i will never forget that.
He stand in front of me with his so "beloved" girlfriend telling me that i was a lier and he didnt want to know about me since that day... I stayed =-|...
I stayed calm becuz if i woulda talk i would tell him in front of his “BELOVED  GIRLFRIEND, what there am said TO (THERE AM DEAREST to ME AND MOST LOVED FRIEND AND WOMAN) about to her, about to her feelings towards me, and towards her, but I didnt do it becuz i would had untied a storm and i woulda felt so great for to f"#$ck them both very well at the same time.
But i'm a free soul of life, and my job in this life is not to F#$#$%CK anybody's life in this sh!tty life, sometimes.
but anyways is like a quote that pple says everyday:
"Sh!t happens"
what we do without it:p
take care
it happened to me a couple of years ago. is started to make new friends and a 2 of my old friends didn't like that. they told lies about me to them and the other way around
. luckily for me my newer friends understood rather quickly what was going on.
in the end i broke up with them in a rather unpleasant way, but i don't regret
that. i just wanted to be with whoever i wished 
and
anyone that doesn't approve of that is not worth my time 
One person went straight to getting me in trouble behind my back while acting all nice in my face without talking about the problem to me. To this day I still want to hurt him in more ways than one.
Well i accidentally double-posted so well yup this is some others from the other thread i thought maybe i should put it here....
thank you all for posting... sorry i dont have the time to read it now but ill still read it later.... promise...**cross fingers
merged: 06-05-2006 ~ 12:04pm
how you wish they got rid of such mean people...
i well my so called friends were nce to me for the longest timebut in the end in i can down to it they had been pretending to be my friend and well they had wanted me to steal something for them in the first placebut i refused so they came out and told me that ower friendship was a lie
and thats it......
i faced this before
we were very close. But one day she started to treat me coldly. I wonder why she treated me like that, i never care to ask since i thought maybe she got some kind of family problem.
After a few days
i went eating with my other friends at the canteen. One of my friend said that she was telling bad things about me. Then i realised that was why she treated me that way. Destroy our friendship. I dont know what i did to her, to deserved that.
This happen a very looong time ago, she already apolagised.
No. I chose my friends very selectively.
They must be absolutely loyal and trust worthy before I can truly can them friends.
This has never happened to me. Why for the same reason Yu-huang places. I choose my friends carefully, and i have only a few.
Though i do feel sorry for what happened to you.
Shinsengumi89
don't even get me started. don't even......
I have had the WORST luck with friends
i have suffered many indirect and direct betrayals by "friends" other people and even my family. it leaves me with a strangely helpless feeling and i feel sorry for you. ( something like that happend to me once too).
Urg I hate partner projects! Lacusxxclyne, I'm sure you know by now but never pair up with someone you don't really know! You'll end up cheating them out of work or it'll happen the other way around. This is just like a lesson that's been imprinted in my mind (exactly like the lesson of: never eat salads from a fast food restaurant!) because I made a mistake, thought it wouldn't happen with another person, then made the mistake again.
And for being betrayed by friends - - in grade five, I had a HUGE crush on this guy, but my so called "best friend" had a crush on him too so she told everyone about my feelings during library time. It was the worst day of my life ;_;
YES I have been betrayed, by my own MOTHER!
I dont think I can trust her anymore...
I don't trust many people, and those who I do have yet to betray it.
As for the partner project, its pretty easy to start some high class drama by rightfully claiming that he did jack squat.
I haven't been betrayed in the manner you're talking about in this thread.
When I was younger, I thought an ex had betrayed my affection and trust by dumping me, but when I grew up I realized I was treating her like crap and I deserved it.
In general, I keep people at arm's length for a long time before I "let them in"...I'm not antisocial, quite the opposite, but some masks stay on for a long, long time before I take them off.
I can't afford to trust anyone. I've been back-stabbed and lied to way too much, and on top of all that I was bullied. I hate group projects because I always end up doing all the work.
my advice, don't trust anyone until you really get to know them, then decide if you wanna trust them or not.
Well, I don't 'think' i was betrayed, but my friend did something that pissed me off completely.
Well, last year, from that time, my friend suggested that we make a band. And so I starterd forming up one, promoting members and making a myspace and such, making piece and stuff. I also managed to find a studio in my school. So like, 6 weeks before this happned, we had our first rehearsal, and to be honest, it didn't go that great. the next 2 week were holidays and the first week he couldn't come because of something, and 2 weeks we managed to get something done. However, a week before this happened, I repeated told him to come to the studio, and after the fifth time, I had to walk over where he was. He was talking to some girls and playing cards. That, obviously, made me quite mad. We barely got 10 minutes of rehearsals done. However, this time, when I was preparing things, he said he couldn't play because he had to go home early. So I told him to play with me for 10 minutes, since I prepared everything. He didn't come at all during the practice, and then my other friend told me he was in the recreation room playing cards with the girls AGAIN. And he also told to tell me that he's already gone home. And I silently checked over there, and voila, he was laughing and playing with cards with the same girls last week. I was so pissed and I had to pack everything up and wait for the next hour and 30 minutes for my mum to pick me up and get me home.
Later, I found out that he had a crush on one of the girls, so he put that first instead of the band. I can understand that, but I worry that he doesn't have any commitments for it at all.