*sigh*
I need some advice on this situation.....
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Ok there was this guy that i have been talking to for quite a while...mmm lets
say a month or 2-3. Yeah anyways we've been talking; this n that....and i had
some feelings for him *blush*
yeah and so he also had feelings for me
too!
hehe and so i told him one day that i liked him n stuff he was like
"howcome u didn't tell me earlier" and all this stuff but he didn't
exactly tell me that he liked me back too...but i could tell and everything that
he feels the same way as i do....then one day i had an arguement with him
because i was in a really bad mood
i told him all this junk that i regret
telling him...but as people say d0n't regret nothing because thats ALL you ever
wanted! && so i had this friend she's a girl i was telling her
everything between me and him...then she likes him too (well at first she
thought he was CUTE n stuff u kno girls these days lol )
and i told her that i also liked him...so she and him BOTH knew that i liked
him... *sigh*
then they started to talk on yahoo!IM alot...a couple of days later they were
going-out as a couple....and that made me feel really bad,sad,deppresed because
the girl(my supposed FRIEND) was going out with the guy that i liked.....*sigh*
SO...i was crushed all that week...thank god i didn't go to school that week
*hehe i was being lazy *
YEAH what really made me feel sad was that my friend betrayed me and i knew her
for a very long time most likely 4 years or 3....and she knows this guy for like
3-4 weeks....
aye i still don't know what to do...many of my friends tell me that he's not
WORTH it; that theres PLENTY of fish in the SEA like they say...and such some
say i shouldn't talk to my friend(girl)...others say just to forget about both
of them and do my OWN thing! ^-^
but i still don't know what to do.... -.-?
Oy,oy what would you do if you were in my shoes? ne
girl why are you so stupid?! i mean, telling a guy that you like him...that's almost suicide.once the guy
knows he has your heart he'll either lose interest, or make use of you.only once
in a while will you stumble on a nice guy that doesnt do that.my senior
professed once and since then bad rumours has been hogging her and she didn't
even get the guy.
and how do you know that he feels for you too, especially when he switched to
your friend so quickly.personally, i think he's an ass to take one miserable
argument as an end to your blooming relationship. its almost like he was waiting
for it to use it as an excuse to call it quits. >:|
and your friend sounds like a real bitch, doing that to you.i don't know her so
i can't judge her by this one occasion but ~whines.
i haven't heard from you for so long...and then boom!i see this.so i'm sorry if
i sound more biased than usual
butbut!i mean, that's just ridiculous, the whole thing is crazy.
well here's my thoughts on what i'd do if i were you.i won't burn my bridges and
make enemies out of the 2 of'em.i'll probably nurse my broken heart and get
something else to do to distract me and eventually, attempt to get my life
back.like i've said numerous times in this kind of thread, you can't change
them, you can only change yourself. do do what you can, and change yourself for
the better.maybe, your friend has her reasons for doing that, and the guy
too.but if you want revenge on them, you can bet the best way is to treat them
the same nice way you always do.it'll make them feel more guilty since they
can't blame you for being irritatingly possessive kill 2
birds in one stone.no, actually its 3 birds. *hohoho* if you ever wanna talk
more, you can always pm me^^ciao lady~
well considering the fact that he never said you that he liked you, you could
only supose that he likes you what isn't the same and since he went out with
your friend later on, i would say he never liked you that much to begin with, as
for your friend i don't have a comment for that, now i can't say it wasn't nice
of her to do that because one can't choose in who one will fall in love with. so
the best thing you could do is to let them be, i mean they'll probably break up
sooner or later, ne.
Wow,out of the blue with a thread like this,that's
amazing XP lol j/k.Anyway,you shouldn't worry about it because if the guy just
up and changed his mind like that after you told him you like dhim,then it's not
worth your time and effort to try and hold a relationship with him,not to
mention he decided to go with your friend instead.People are weird like that at
times when they change their minds so quickly after hearing a
confession,especially seeing as how he liked your friend as well and vice
versa.
Like what PAche was saying,don't let your suppose
betrayal by our friend bother you.Let her and that guy do their thing and you do
your own and just go about treating them like you normally would.She'll come
around once she realizes how the guy really is,and if I have any indicating how
he is,he's probably a shallow jerkoff,though who am I to say when I don't really
know th guy nor have you given too much info on him. Anyway,let' see how this
act will play out before the curtain call.later z^-^V
well, maybe this might sound stupid and impossible, but i think you should
forgive your dear friend, be a loyal friend, and just let him go.. as a friend,
be happy for her, and as a human, be happy for him, and just let them go.. i
believe that will make you better as a person. i know this sounds incredibly
hard to do, maybe even i can't do it as well, but i'm a catholic, and i think
that's what i would do.
Get over it, kay! cha you! ^^
Ask your heart whether you still likes him, do you really want to give him out?
If no then i tink you shud at least clear out your doubt by asking him whether
really go steady with her... i think at least like that you wun regret or really
miss this relationship... And i think it was actually your fault for saying some
hurting words to him, and because of it he purposely go closer to your friends
to make you angry. So apologise and have a good talk with him... tell him what
you really feel... Fight for your happiness do not give up
well generally if you think about it no one is really to blame, but she knew you
liked him,but life is too short to hold grudges and be upset plus summer is just
beginning so you might have other chances
Quote by PAchegirl why are you so stupid?!
i mean, telling a guy that you like
him...that's almost suicide.once the guy knows he has your heart he'll either
lose interest, or make use of you.only once in a while will you stumble on a
nice guy that doesnt do that.my senior professed once and since then bad rumours
has been hogging her and she didn't even get the guy.
and how do you know that he feels for you too, especially when he switched to
your friend so quickly.personally, i think he's an ass to take one miserable
argument as an end to your blooming relationship. its almost like he was waiting
for it to use it as an excuse to call it quits. >:|
Telling a "real" guy or man that you have interest/like him isn't a
bad thing...just most that i've noticed have done what you've mentioned...but
your comment above...i am not one of those guys. If a female tells me she likes
me, i take it with an open mind and care about how they feel and usually i'll
see where it goes in an honest manner.
Well, i also agree with the second paragraph...except for the last part. He was
just probably leading you on as females have done to me before and either didn't
actually care about you or he is selfish and found someone for the wrong
reasons....which can happen alot when having interest in someone-whether it be
you or someone else.
Well, if I were you I would probably sulk for a while, maybe not talk to any of
them, and just try to keep my mind off the whole situation. Then, after
everything's cooled off, I'd try to re-thing everything that happened, and just
talk to them, show them what I feel and hope that: a) the relationship with my
friend will survive this (that is, if she's really important in your life) b) the guy feels bad about himself
^.~ 'Cause, imo, he's just a jerk who doesn't deserve to have a gf. Just
remember that you shouldn't allow thing like this to put you down, you've got a
great life ahead of you and it's kinds pointless to take this as the end of the
world; it may feel like it, but just give it some time and you'll be saying to
yourself: "wtf was I thinking! feeling sad about that! Ahahahaha...."
Firstly, and foremost, you need some time off to chill your heaty and
heartbroken soul. Finding out that a best friend betrayed your friendship over a
BGR ain't an easy pie to swallow. You need to take things easy and accept the
fact that it's already happened. What's done is done. So, the question you are
asking us is, "What now ?". I presume that's what you are trying to
say, am i right to say that?
Logically, you wished this never happened. But it did. And you want to salvage
this as gingerly as possible without hurting anyone. Including yourself.
If you still had feelings for him and know that he still have a spot for you in
his heart and think that you ignite back that relationship, by all means, you
shouldn't really give it all up.Having a fell out over an arguement is common.
(But Personally , i think he's a playboy from your point of the story. Sorry if
i am harsh.)
Else...
This person whom you have heavy infatuation on is not worth been the pain in
your life! He had been leading you on all the while. It's already obvious since
he had already decided on whom he wants to go with. Ok, sure. Looks like he is
happy with it and she is enjoying their companionship.Been a good friend,you
don't want to spoil friendships and lose them both over such BGRs cuz it sounds
silly and navie.I rather you leave them be and still mantain a distant
friendship rather than making bitter ends.It's better to make than to break it.
Let as time runs.
(Evil thought)
*Sooner or later, the true colors will fly out*
Don't let a relationship lead you on instead maintain your friendship.
You will find that life is full of opportunites elsewhere, not just one! You
still have a life ahead of you. Great, cheery, fun and promising.
Forget about all that misery. C`mon ! I am sure your special someone is
somewhere hiding down your lifepath, just waiting pop out and for the right
moment too! =P
This is one part of which i think you will had a difficult time to accept.I do
hope you can get over with it and wish you the best. Yes, i had been in this
sticky situation before, therefore, i am certain of the outcome, hope you can do
it too.
i don't like messing with matters of the heart lol,but 4 ur sake,i'll offer some
advice
you can't fully get mad at her coz she liked him 2,but i still think she
should've have sed something 2 you and stuff
can't get mad at him,he didn't really have nething 2 do wid it,sure he may have
gotten with her,but i don't think he knew that it would crush you like it is
now
you can't really get over it,i'm sorry to be blunt but it's true,coz you'll see
them,and that's a daily reminder,but you can COPE with it.
just tell yourself that there's a reason it all happened,you don't know what God
plans,maybe something wasn't going to work out or wtv,u never know
hope this helped a little,srri if i was straight forward
i kind of have the same situation sept i got to go out with the guy and he ended
up being a total jerk but i still kinda liked him after we broke up (irresitable
should be hollister model) and so you should talk to her, tell her your mad that
she did that, you cant force them to break-up but if you would like her to when
they are around you to not act like a couple or nething ya kno? so mayb it
wouldnt be so hard on ya....and eventually over time you'll find somebody else
totally amazing...or you'll get your chance to go out with him...not much help i
knos but i hope all goes wells for yas
thanks you guys and girlys<3
for the advice
i appreciate that u my fwends have even time to reply to this thread....heee i
thought no-one was going to reply to this.
yupp but thank ya *hugs all of you in plushies*
i wuv you guys; it made me feel better! and yes s0me of the things u ppl say i
actually had been doing
hehehe yah, yeah things do happen for a reason....and i think i kno y *giggles*
love you, ur ladygoofy ^-^
Quote by ladygoofythanks you guys and
girlys<3
for the advice
i appreciate that u my fwends have even time to reply to this thread....heee i
thought no-one was going to reply to this.
yupp but thank ya *hugs all of you in plushies*
i wuv you guys; it made me feel better! and yes s0me of the things u ppl say i
actually had been doing
hehehe yah, yeah things do happen for a reason....and i think i kno y *giggles*
love you, ur ladygoofy ^-^
Teehee, we sure are relief to hear that from you. Hell, we are always here. Drop
down to say hi often.
Stay goofy and joyful. =P
Quote by ladygoofythanks you guys and
girlys<3
for the advice
i appreciate that u my fwends have even time to reply to this thread....heee i
thought no-one was going to reply to this.
yupp but thank ya *hugs all of you in plushies*
i wuv you guys; it made me feel better! and yes s0me of the things u ppl say i
actually had been doing
hehehe yah, yeah things do happen for a reason....and i think i kno y *giggles*
love you, ur ladygoofy ^-^
We all don't stay busy 24/7,wouldn't hurt to take
some time to reply to a thread from one of our friends =P.And that's good you
took some of our advice (hah,I'm still useful ).
Quote by PAchegirl why are you so stupid?!
i mean, telling a guy that you like
him...that's almost suicide.once the guy knows he has your heart he'll either
lose interest, or make use of you.only once in a while will you stumble on a
nice guy that doesnt do that.my senior professed once and since then bad rumours
has been hogging her and she didn't even get the guy.
and how do you know that he feels for you too, especially when he switched to
your friend so quickly.personally, i think he's an ass to take one miserable
argument as an end to your blooming relationship. its almost like he was waiting
for it to use it as an excuse to call it quits. >:|
and your friend sounds like a real bitch, doing that to you.i don't know her so
i can't judge her by this one occasion but ~whines.
i haven't heard from you for so long...and then boom!i see this.so i'm sorry if
i sound more biased than usual
butbut!i mean, that's just ridiculous, the whole thing is crazy.
well here's my thoughts on what i'd do if i were you.i won't burn my bridges and
make enemies out of the 2 of'em.i'll probably nurse my broken heart and get
something else to do to distract me and eventually, attempt to get my life
back.like i've said numerous times in this kind of thread, you can't change
them, you can only change yourself. do do what you can, and change yourself for
the better.maybe, your friend has her reasons for doing that, and the guy
too.but if you want revenge on them, you can bet the best way is to treat them
the same nice way you always do.it'll make them feel more guilty since they
can't blame you for being irritatingly possessive kill 2
birds in one stone.no, actually its 3 birds. *hohoho* if you ever wanna talk
more, you can always pm me^^ciao lady~
p.s: did you taste in art change or something?
I really feel like PAche sometimes. Telling a guy you like him is WORSE then
suicide because the conciquences are soo harsh. And that would probably be why i
almost never tell a guy i like him even if i feel like my hearts going to
explode everytime i talk to him. (i tried a few times.... those were horrible
experiances) And now i miss out on alot because i have become shy about
expressing my feelings. ( which i totally blame guys on because they can be
inhuman assholes )
I bet the guy's a f***ing b**th! I mean you told him how you felt and he didn't
say anything back did he? I should try.. at least try to tell him that you were
sorry for screaming at him.
And that girl friend of yours she seems like a H.O.E. She could of asked you
first! You guys are friends am I right?
I don't know. I never been in that situation and don't think I will be. I never
asked anybody that I liked them, but maybe you shouldn't have said you liked
him. Maybe your relationship would have lasted longer. Good luck on getting that
problem fixed!
*sigh*
i told him all this junk that i regret
telling him...but as people say d0n't regret nothing because thats ALL you ever
wanted! && so i had this friend she's a girl i was telling her
everything between me and him...then she likes him too (well at first she
thought he was CUTE n stuff u kno girls these days lol 
)
and i told her that i also liked him...so she and him BOTH knew that i liked
him... 
*sigh*
I need some advice on this situation.....
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Ok there was this guy that i have been talking to for quite a while...mmm lets say a month or 2-3. Yeah anyways we've been talking; this n that....and i had some
feelings for him *blush*
yeah and so he also had feelings for me too!
hehe and so i told him one day that i liked him n stuff he was like "howcome u didn't tell me earlier" and all this stuff but he didn't exactly tell me that he liked me back too...but i could tell and everything that he feels the same way as i do....then one day i had an arguement with him because i was in a really bad mood
then they started to talk on yahoo!IM alot...a couple of days later they were going-out as a couple....and that made me feel really bad,sad,deppresed because the girl(my supposed FRIEND) was going out with the guy that i liked.....*sigh*
SO...i was crushed all that week...thank god i didn't go to school that week *hehe i was being lazy
*
YEAH what really made me feel sad was that my friend betrayed me and i knew her for a very long time most likely 4 years or 3....and she knows this guy for like 3-4 weeks....
aye i still don't know what to do...many of my friends tell me that he's not WORTH it; that theres PLENTY of fish in the SEA like they say...and such some say i shouldn't talk to my friend(girl)...others say just to forget about both of them and do my OWN thing! ^-^
but i still don't know what to do.... -.-?
Oy,oy what would you do if you were in my shoes? ne
~well cyu later~
girl why are you so stupid?! i mean, telling a guy that you like him...that's almost suicide.once the guy knows he has your heart he'll either lose interest, or make use of you.only once in a while will you stumble on a nice guy that doesnt do that.my senior professed once and since then bad rumours has been hogging her and she didn't even get the guy.
and how do you know that he feels for you too, especially when he switched to your friend so quickly.personally, i think he's an ass to take one miserable argument as an end to your blooming relationship. its almost like he was waiting for it to use it as an excuse to call it quits. >:|
and your friend sounds like a real bitch, doing that to you.i don't know her so i can't judge her by this one occasion but ~whines.
i haven't heard from you for so long...and then boom!i see this.so i'm sorry if i sound more biased than usual
butbut!i mean, that's just ridiculous, the whole thing is crazy.
well here's my thoughts on what i'd do if i were you.i won't burn my bridges and make enemies out of the 2 of'em.i'll probably nurse my broken heart and get something else to do to distract me and eventually, attempt to get my life back.like i've said numerous times in this kind of thread, you can't change them, you can only change yourself. do do what you can, and change yourself for the better.maybe, your friend has her reasons for doing that, and the guy too.but if you want revenge on them, you can bet the best way is to treat them the same nice way you always do.it'll make them feel more guilty since they can't blame you for being irritatingly possessive
kill 2
birds in one stone.no, actually its 3 birds. *hohoho* if you ever wanna talk
more, you can always pm me^^ciao lady~
p.s: did you taste in art change or something?
well considering the fact that he never said you that he liked you, you could only supose that he likes you what isn't the same and since he went out with your friend later on, i would say he never liked you that much to begin with, as for your friend i don't have a comment for that, now i can't say it wasn't nice of her to do that because one can't choose in who one will fall in love with. so the best thing you could do is to let them be, i mean they'll probably break up sooner or later, ne.
Wow,out of the blue with a thread like this,that's amazing XP lol j/k.Anyway,you shouldn't worry about it because if the guy just up and changed his mind like that after you told him you like dhim,then it's not worth your time and effort to try and hold a relationship with him,not to mention he decided to go with your friend instead.People are weird like that at times when they change their minds so quickly after hearing a confession,especially seeing as how he liked your friend as well and vice versa.
Like what PAche was saying,don't let your suppose betrayal by our friend bother you.Let her and that guy do their thing and you do your own and just go about treating them like you normally would.She'll come around once she realizes how the guy really is,and if I have any indicating how he is,he's probably a shallow jerkoff,though who am I to say when I don't really know th guy nor have you given too much info on him. Anyway,let' see how this act will play out before the curtain call.later z^-^V
well, maybe this might sound stupid and impossible, but i think you should forgive your dear friend, be a loyal friend, and just let him go.. as a friend, be happy for her, and as a human, be happy for him, and just let them go.. i believe that will make you better as a person. i know this sounds incredibly hard to do, maybe even i can't do it as well, but i'm a catholic, and i think that's what i would do.
Get over it, kay! cha you! ^^
Ask your heart whether you still likes him, do you really want to give him out? If no then i tink you shud at least clear out your doubt by asking him whether really go steady with her... i think at least like that you wun regret or really miss this relationship... And i think it was actually your fault for saying some hurting words to him, and because of it he purposely go closer to your friends to make you angry. So apologise and have a good talk with him... tell him what you really feel... Fight for your happiness do not give up
well generally if you think about it no one is really to blame, but she knew you liked him,but life is too short to hold grudges and be upset plus summer is just beginning so you might have other chances
(Its about time you came around here ladygoofy)
Telling a "real" guy or man that you have interest/like him isn't a bad thing...just most that i've noticed have done what you've mentioned...but your comment above...i am not one of those guys. If a female tells me she likes me, i take it with an open mind and care about how they feel and usually i'll see where it goes in an honest manner.
Well, i also agree with the second paragraph...except for the last part. He was just probably leading you on as females have done to me before and either didn't actually care about you or he is selfish and found someone for the wrong reasons....which can happen alot when having interest in someone-whether it be you or someone else.
Well, if I were you I would probably sulk for a while, maybe not talk to any of them, and just try to keep my mind off the whole situation. Then, after everything's cooled off, I'd try to re-thing everything that happened, and just talk to them, show them what I feel and hope that: a) the relationship with my friend will survive this (that is, if she's really important in your life) b) the guy feels bad about himself ^.~ 'Cause, imo, he's just a jerk who doesn't deserve to have a gf. Just remember that you shouldn't allow thing like this to put you down, you've got a great life ahead of you and it's kinds pointless to take this as the end of the world; it may feel like it, but just give it some time and you'll be saying to yourself: "wtf was I thinking! feeling sad about that! Ahahahaha...."
Firstly, and foremost, you need some time off to chill your heaty and heartbroken soul. Finding out that a best friend betrayed your friendship over a BGR ain't an easy pie to swallow. You need to take things easy and accept the fact that it's already happened. What's done is done. So, the question you are asking us is, "What now ?". I presume that's what you are trying to say, am i right to say that?
Logically, you wished this never happened. But it did. And you want to salvage this as gingerly as possible without hurting anyone. Including yourself.
If you still had feelings for him and know that he still have a spot for you in his heart and think that you ignite back that relationship, by all means, you shouldn't really give it all up.Having a fell out over an arguement is common. (But Personally , i think he's a playboy from your point of the story. Sorry if i am harsh.)
Else...
This person whom you have heavy infatuation on is not worth been the pain in your life! He had been leading you on all the while. It's already obvious since he had already decided on whom he wants to go with. Ok, sure. Looks like he is happy with it and she is enjoying their companionship.Been a good friend,you don't want to spoil friendships and lose them both over such BGRs cuz it sounds silly and navie.I rather you leave them be and still mantain a distant friendship rather than making bitter ends.It's better to make than to break it.
Let as time runs.
(Evil thought)
*Sooner or later, the true colors will fly out*
Don't let a relationship lead you on instead maintain your friendship.
You will find that life is full of opportunites elsewhere, not just one! You still have a life ahead of you. Great, cheery, fun and promising.
Forget about all that misery. C`mon ! I am sure your special someone is somewhere hiding down your lifepath, just waiting pop out and for the right moment too! =P
This is one part of which i think you will had a difficult time to accept.I do hope you can get over with it and wish you the best. Yes, i had been in this sticky situation before, therefore, i am certain of the outcome, hope you can do it too.
i don't like messing with matters of the heart lol,but 4 ur sake,i'll offer some advice
you can't fully get mad at her coz she liked him 2,but i still think she should've have sed something 2 you and stuff
can't get mad at him,he didn't really have nething 2 do wid it,sure he may have gotten with her,but i don't think he knew that it would crush you like it is now
you can't really get over it,i'm sorry to be blunt but it's true,coz you'll see them,and that's a daily reminder,but you can COPE with it.
just tell yourself that there's a reason it all happened,you don't know what God plans,maybe something wasn't going to work out or wtv,u never know
hope this helped a little,srri if i was straight forward
i kind of have the same situation sept i got to go out with the guy and he ended up being a total jerk but i still kinda liked him after we broke up (irresitable should be hollister model) and so you should talk to her, tell her your mad that she did that, you cant force them to break-up but if you would like her to when they are around you to not act like a couple or nething ya kno? so mayb it wouldnt be so hard on ya....and eventually over time you'll find somebody else totally amazing...or you'll get your chance to go out with him...not much help i knos but i hope all goes wells for yas
thanks you guys and girlys<3
for the advice
i appreciate that u my fwends have even time to reply to this thread....heee i thought no-one was going to reply to this.
yupp but thank ya *hugs all of you in plushies*
i wuv you guys; it made me feel better! and yes s0me of the things u ppl say i actually had been doing
hehehe yah, yeah things do happen for a reason....and i think i kno y *giggles*
love you, ur ladygoofy ^-^
Teehee, we sure are relief to hear that from you. Hell, we are always here. Drop down to say hi often.
We all don't stay busy 24/7,wouldn't hurt to take some time to reply to a thread from one of our friends =P.And that's good you took some of our advice (hah,I'm still useful
I really feel like PAche sometimes. Telling a guy you like him is WORSE then suicide because the conciquences are soo harsh. And that would probably be why i almost never tell a guy i like him even if i feel like my hearts going to explode everytime i talk to him. (i tried a few times.... those were horrible experiances) And now i miss out on alot because i have become shy about expressing my feelings. ( which i totally blame guys on because they can be inhuman assholes
4get them both....they both sux..
I bet the guy's a f***ing b**th! I mean you told him how you felt and he didn't say anything back did he? I should try.. at least try to tell him that you were sorry for screaming at him.
And that girl friend of yours she seems like a H.O.E. She could of asked you first! You guys are friends am I right?
I don't know. I never been in that situation and don't think I will be. I never asked anybody that I liked them, but maybe you shouldn't have said you liked him. Maybe your relationship would have lasted longer. Good luck on getting that problem fixed!