hey there! long since I made a thread
hahahaa, well this may be a little no of your interes but I need your advice...
well there was I guy I liked, and I told him what I feel... but he didn't feel
the same... well now we are friends ^^ better than before, and I'm gratefull for
that... but now I'm starting to like, one friend I have... He treats me like if
I was his girlfriend, but he HAS a girlfriend... and all my friends, say that he
loves me but I can't think of that, cus If he has got a girlfriend,
then why does he treat me that way? not even my best friends treat me like
that...
Also, we met each other, at an online game, called "Ragnarok" and he
was called osiris, and I melissa... and he says that Melissa ( of the game ) is
the queen of Osiris heart, and he says that Osiris loves melissa, and all that
but I don't know what to think! I need help! please ^^
well gotta go... see you later! hope you can help me ^^
go right up to him and ask how he feels about you. if he doesnt give you a
stright answer punch him in the gut. then ask again. hit him harder until he
tells you what he feels. haha.
ok enough kidding around. but you should go ask how he feels. there is no piont
in treating you like that if hes not willing to be your bf. you could be caught
in a bad situtation if the GF finds out. even if you didnt do anything wrong. if
he doesnt want to be with you then tell him to stop treating you like your more
than freinds. if he acts like an asshole, then you punch him in the gut, kick
him in the nads, and knee him in the face. if that dosent get the message across
then nothing will.
you are so violent? is there any sugestion you can give that doesn't involve
violence?
Okay, melissa. Find out if he loves his girlfriend. And if he has an intention
of leaving her, because if he doesn't then he's just playing you both and
deserves to have neither. You owe it to yourself and her to uncover the truth.
I'm sorry to have to say this, but if he wants to stay with her... then he was
just playing with your heart and sees you as the fool. Just something he can do
for fun to keep himself entertained. Some men can be like that.... though there
may be a few who have more honor and decency. Don't feel bad..... sometimes i
think that's happening to me, and other times i wish it would......
well you have to understand this, hun. there are more then one type of love on
this earth. what you are thinking of is a relationship form of love. maybe that
is the case here and maybe it is not. i have a friend and i love him dearly.
yes, i shall say i love him and he loves me. he has even said it. i banter with
him all day and we are rather...yeah..with each other but we would never go out
with each other because we dont feel that way. i love him in a unconditional way. it's something that
is stronger then an average friendship but not like a romance relationship. do
you kinda get what i am saying? it is a bit confusing. i was confused on my
relationship with my friend but we talked it out and found out what it really
was. that might be what it is, though, i could be wrong. i suggest you do the
same. just talk and figure it out
Well, sweetie, find out how he and his girlfriend are doing. If they're not that
good, then perhaps they're falling apart and he's falling for you. But if
they're fine, and he's acting that way towards you, then... he's a freaking
two-timer! '' but don't start treating him like you are both going out, because
if his gf finds out.. things can get nasty. Just treat him as a friend for now
^^ time will tell =)
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Okay, melissa. Find out if he loves his girlfriend. And if he has an intention
of leaving her, because if he doesn't then he's just playing you both and
deserves to have neither. You owe it to yourself and her to uncover the truth.
I'm sorry to have to say this, but if he wants to stay with her... then he was
just playing with your heart and sees you as the fool. Just something he can do
for fun to keep himself entertained. Some men can be like that.... though there
may be a few who have more honor and decency. ...
Exactly; I heavily agree with Shadowdawn; if he's doing that to you and his
'girlfriend', then you both deserve way better than some egotistical male who's
so indecisive that he has to do this to you. I wish you the best success with
this situation, and to find someone who likes/loves you for who you are.
Yo, i just pop in and out of places easily. Anyways,
I'd say you should clarify the relation between him and his girlfriend. You
might also want to find out what his intentions are because if you don't know,
it could end up worse. You should find out the truth about his status with you
too. How you do that is up to you.
ooooooooooooooooooooooooh! That's SOOOO cutee! I'm so happy for you! You know,
that's really great! I mean, it's like an anime show, right?
*excited* Like...maybe Marmalade Boy! This girl named Miki said she liked her
friend Ginta, but he didn't feel the same for her but they still ended up
friends and then he confessed that he actually liked her all along....but she
chose someone else cause he waited to long ^_____^;;
If I were you, I'd just wait to see if he'd say anything. Like..."I didn't
really get to know you before I turned you down." Cause I wouldn't want to
say AGAIN that I liked him or something...he might get like...I
dunno....indimidated or something and stray away. I dunno, I've never been lucky
in love so don't follow what I say!
Quote by sangel99ooooooooooooooooooooooooh!
That's SOOOO cutee! I'm so happy for you! You know, that's really great! I mean,
it's like an anime show, right?
*excited* Like...maybe Marmalade Boy! This girl named Miki said she liked her
friend Ginta, but he didn't feel the same for her but they still ended up
friends and then he confessed that he actually liked her all along....but she
chose someone else cause he waited to long ^_____^;;
If I were you, I'd just wait to see if he'd say anything. Like..."I didn't
really get to know you before I turned you down." Cause I wouldn't want to
say AGAIN that I liked him or something...he might get like...I
dunno....indimidated or something and stray away. I dunno, I've never been lucky
in love so don't follow what I say!
I'm sorry but about the comments, You're nuts.
*To sangel99* You'll find someone good enough for you too.
I'll just wish you (both) good luck with that.
lolz, you're being manipulated... I really think that you should realize that
even if he says all those things, that he is just playing with your head... if
he has a GF and says nice things to you... then you are foolish for leading your
mind astray into that realm... yes, you are a fool... T__T
Sometimes I have to be cruel to make a point, don't hate me for it...
Since he hasn't directly expressed his feelings, perhaps he's feeling shy about
it. But in any case, he shouldn't be making such suggestive comments, especially
since he already has a girlfriend. It is a lil' inappropriate.
I'll say that you can't do much about this right now, except waiting. However,
as long as he doesn't clarify his relationship with his girlfiend or you, it
would be wiser to assume that he treats you as a friend for now. Tread
carefully.
Take care not to read too much from what outsiders, meaning your friends, think
or say. Chances are they don't know what's really going on. It can be damaging
to believe someone else's words and act upon it.
I hope for you that he reveals his heart's true feelings soon.
well sorry but I think I go with jasai's point...
a guy saying or indirectly expressing that he loves you even tho he has a
girlfriend is something I cant trust... for what if "he was your
boyfriend" and he does something like that to other girls? wouldn't that
hurt you too?
well I agree too with laevantine... you can wait for now until he clarifies his
feelings... and be watchful for you are protecting your feelings... this is just
a suggestion so just trust your own heart and we're here to support you... also
I played Ragnarok for 3 years
Ask him. though if he acts that obvious with his feelings, there's no need to.
Bottom line, if you don't like him then tell him, before he gets the wrong idea.
YOU KNOW WHAT!?.....I'm pretty much in the SAME situation you are melissa-clyne!
I'm a girl...of course! and I have a very close guy friend. The only differance
is, he's the one who confessed that he liked me! and when we were going out, he
was going through hard times and he told me that he would preffer us to be
friends! He was to scarred to ruin our friendship. Let's face it, if you date
your close friend and break up chances are you'll never talk to each other
again! At fist I was hurt but happy at the same time. (because our friendship
meant more) Since he's someone I looked up to and he meant the world to me, I
was happy I even got to go out with him. He's quite good looking so I'm amazed
that he dosen't have a girlfriend yet. Even if he did, I'd still be happy for
him ANYWAY'S! Sorry for making it long! We are very close friends right now and the way that we act sometimes make
people think we are still going out! He'll pretend to bite my stomache, or hold
my hand, and reccently he's been giving me this look....like he's going to kiss
me! Now I'm confused? I don't think friends act this way? Maybe we could become
something more again? Maybe not? He's very picky with women and he says hes
still waiting...it's like he's testing me to see if I still like him. He's very
nice and honest but I'm scarred to flirt back without knowing for sure if he
likes me or not? I wonder what I should do? As for you, that's sorta daring!
Since he has a girlfriend! Does he do any of the things I listed? If so he may
still like you, but watch out! Cause he does have a girlfriend and you want to
make sure he's not plating around! I'm NOT saying he's a bad person, but ask him
do you really like me? Do you want to go out? Tell him how much you like him and
that he's giving you the felling like, he likes you. (Sorry if that's
confusing!) It's so easy for me to tell you some of the things you could say,
than for me to do it. I get to scarred. LOL. Like that saying goes...Easier said
than done. I hope the best for you and good luck! Hope to hear from you again!
...and again I'm sorry about the loooong messege!
Mellisa chan are you from indonesia?
Osiris? the one in chaos server? knight job :p?
Well first don't go for a two timer! they can do that to you again even if he
end up breaking up with his gf for you.
Second. going after a girl even thought he has one!? not a good one i think.
But it's up to you if you also like than maybe it's your chance.
But if it not by all means find another one (single).
The way he say the Osiris loves melissa is like trying to tell you he love you
just like the characters in the game.... Erm i not very sure what he thinks, the
most important what to you think of him? Do you like him? If you do then i think
you have to clear out things with him or you will nv knw how he feel abt you...
I knw the most important thing is that he have a gf but why not think from
another point of view, if he also like you but still remain the relationship
with another gurl isn`t it unfair to that gurl? To release three person from a
love triangle is to clear out everything and let the two person in love to be
together although it`s a bit cruel but isn`t it better to let her be sad for the
time being and go on to look for the true love to appear? But if you do not like
him or if you misunderstood his idea then just remain as good frens! Watching
your love one happy is also another way to show your love for that person!
Ganbate!
hey there! long since I made a thread
hahahaa, well this may be a little no of your interes but I need your advice...
well there was I guy I liked, and I told him what I feel... but he didn't feel
the same... well now we are friends ^^ better than before, and I'm gratefull for
that... but now I'm starting to like, one friend I have... He treats me like if
I was his girlfriend, but he HAS a girlfriend... and all my friends, say that he
loves me 
but I can't think of that, cus If he has got a girlfriend,
then why does he treat me that way? not even my best friends treat me like
that...
but I don't know what to think! I need help! please ^^
Also, we met each other, at an online game, called "Ragnarok" and he was called osiris, and I melissa... and he says that Melissa ( of the game ) is the queen of Osiris heart, and he says that Osiris loves melissa, and all that
well gotta go... see you later! hope you can help me ^^
PD: sorry for the bad english
hahaha
*hugs* melissa
go right up to him and ask how he feels about you. if he doesnt give you a stright answer punch him in the gut. then ask again. hit him harder until he tells you what he feels. haha.
ok enough kidding around. but you should go ask how he feels. there is no piont in treating you like that if hes not willing to be your bf. you could be caught in a bad situtation if the GF finds out. even if you didnt do anything wrong. if he doesnt want to be with you then tell him to stop treating you like your more than freinds. if he acts like an asshole, then you punch him in the gut, kick him in the nads, and knee him in the face. if that dosent get the message across then nothing will.
you are so violent? is there any sugestion you can give that doesn't involve violence?
Okay, melissa. Find out if he loves his girlfriend. And if he has an intention of leaving her, because if he doesn't then he's just playing you both and deserves to have neither. You owe it to yourself and her to uncover the truth. I'm sorry to have to say this, but if he wants to stay with her... then he was just playing with your heart and sees you as the fool. Just something he can do for fun to keep himself entertained. Some men can be like that.... though there may be a few who have more honor and decency. Don't feel bad..... sometimes i think that's happening to me, and other times i wish it would......
well you have to understand this, hun. there are more then one type of love on this earth. what you are thinking of is a relationship form of love. maybe that is the case here and maybe it is not. i have a friend and i love him dearly. yes, i shall say i love him and he loves me. he has even said it. i banter with him all day and we are rather...yeah..with each other but we would never go out with each other because we dont feel that way. i love him in a unconditional way. it's something that is stronger then an average friendship but not like a romance relationship. do you kinda get what i am saying? it is a bit confusing. i was confused on my relationship with my friend but we talked it out and found out what it really was. that might be what it is, though, i could be wrong. i suggest you do the same. just talk and figure it out
Well, sweetie, find out how he and his girlfriend are doing. If they're not that good, then perhaps they're falling apart and he's falling for you. But if they're fine, and he's acting that way towards you, then... he's a freaking two-timer!
'' but don't start treating him like you are both going out, because
if his gf finds out.. things can get nasty. Just treat him as a friend for now
^^ time will tell =)
Exactly; I heavily agree with Shadowdawn; if he's doing that to you and his 'girlfriend', then you both deserve way better than some egotistical male who's so indecisive that he has to do this to you. I wish you the best success with this situation, and to find someone who likes/loves you for who you are.
Yo, i just pop in and out of places easily. Anyways,
I'd say you should clarify the relation between him and his girlfriend. You might also want to find out what his intentions are because if you don't know, it could end up worse. You should find out the truth about his status with you too. How you do that is up to you.
ooooooooooooooooooooooooh! That's SOOOO cutee! I'm so happy for you! You know, that's really great! I mean, it's like an anime show, right?
*excited* Like...maybe Marmalade Boy! This girl named Miki said she liked her
friend Ginta, but he didn't feel the same for her but they still ended up
friends and then he confessed that he actually liked her all along....but she
chose someone else cause he waited to long ^_____^;;
If I were you, I'd just wait to see if he'd say anything. Like..."I didn't really get to know you before I turned you down." Cause I wouldn't want to say AGAIN that I liked him or something...he might get like...I dunno....indimidated or something and stray away. I dunno, I've never been lucky in love so don't follow what I say!
I'm sorry but about the comments, You're nuts.
*To sangel99* You'll find someone good enough for you too.
I'll just wish you (both) good luck with that.
lolz, you're being manipulated... I really think that you should realize that even if he says all those things, that he is just playing with your head... if he has a GF and says nice things to you... then you are foolish for leading your mind astray into that realm... yes, you are a fool... T__T
Sometimes I have to be cruel to make a point, don't hate me for it...
Since he hasn't directly expressed his feelings, perhaps he's feeling shy about it. But in any case, he shouldn't be making such suggestive comments, especially since he already has a girlfriend. It is a lil' inappropriate.
I'll say that you can't do much about this right now, except waiting. However, as long as he doesn't clarify his relationship with his girlfiend or you, it would be wiser to assume that he treats you as a friend for now. Tread carefully.
Take care not to read too much from what outsiders, meaning your friends, think or say. Chances are they don't know what's really going on. It can be damaging to believe someone else's words and act upon it.
I hope for you that he reveals his heart's true feelings soon.
well sorry but I think I go with jasai's point...
a guy saying or indirectly expressing that he loves you even tho he has a girlfriend is something I cant trust... for what if "he was your boyfriend" and he does something like that to other girls? wouldn't that hurt you too?
well I agree too with laevantine... you can wait for now until he clarifies his feelings... and be watchful for you are protecting your feelings... this is just a suggestion so just trust your own heart and we're here to support you... also I played Ragnarok for 3 years
well then good luck melissa
Ask him. though if he acts that obvious with his feelings, there's no need to. Bottom line, if you don't like him then tell him, before he gets the wrong idea.
sorry, i don't think i can help ya cuz i have never experienced something like that.
YOU KNOW WHAT!?.....I'm pretty much in the SAME situation you are melissa-clyne!
I'm a girl...of course! and I have a very close guy friend. The only differance
is, he's the one who confessed that he liked me! and when we were going out, he
was going through hard times and he told me that he would preffer us to be
friends! He was to scarred to ruin our friendship. Let's face it, if you date
your close friend and break up chances are you'll never talk to each other
again! At fist I was hurt but happy at the same time. (because our friendship
meant more) Since he's someone I looked up to and he meant the world to me, I
was happy I even got to go out with him. He's quite good looking so I'm amazed
that he dosen't have a girlfriend yet. Even if he did, I'd still be happy for
him 
ANYWAY'S! Sorry for making it long! 
We are very close friends right now and the way that we act sometimes make
people think we are still going out! He'll pretend to bite my stomache, or hold
my hand, and reccently he's been giving me this look....like he's going to kiss
me! Now I'm confused? I don't think friends act this way? Maybe we could become
something more again? Maybe not? He's very picky with women and he says hes
still waiting...it's like he's testing me to see if I still like him. He's very
nice and honest but I'm scarred to flirt back without knowing for sure if he
likes me or not? I wonder what I should do? As for you, that's sorta daring!
Since he has a girlfriend! Does he do any of the things I listed? If so he may
still like you, but watch out! Cause he does have a girlfriend and you want to
make sure he's not plating around! I'm NOT saying he's a bad person, but ask him
do you really like me? Do you want to go out? Tell him how much you like him and
that he's giving you the felling like, he likes you. (Sorry if that's
confusing!) It's so easy for me to tell you some of the things you could say,
than for me to do it. I get to scarred. LOL. Like that saying goes...Easier said
than done. 
I hope the best for you and good luck! Hope to hear from you again!
...and again I'm sorry about the loooong messege! 
Mellisa chan are you from indonesia?
Osiris? the one in chaos server? knight job :p?
Well first don't go for a two timer! they can do that to you again even if he end up breaking up with his gf for you.
Second. going after a girl even thought he has one!? not a good one i think.
But it's up to you if you also like than maybe it's your chance.
But if it not by all means find another one (single).
The way he say the Osiris loves melissa is like trying to tell you he love you just like the characters in the game.... Erm i not very sure what he thinks, the most important what to you think of him? Do you like him? If you do then i think you have to clear out things with him or you will nv knw how he feel abt you... I knw the most important thing is that he have a gf but why not think from another point of view, if he also like you but still remain the relationship with another gurl isn`t it unfair to that gurl? To release three person from a love triangle is to clear out everything and let the two person in love to be together although it`s a bit cruel but isn`t it better to let her be sad for the time being and go on to look for the true love to appear? But if you do not like him or if you misunderstood his idea then just remain as good frens! Watching your love one happy is also another way to show your love for that person! Ganbate!