Yeah, parents usually do... ive noticed asian decent usually have higher
standards or you have to prove to them that it's worthwhile. Parents cant
control the who you love.
that's just an Asian stereotype of order. although my parents too set some rules
for my courting, still they would checkout my future wife's inner personality
first. looks are just minor order. i'm sure many other parents would agree
(minus racial/religion/skin color standard of choice)
This is a really good question. I'm black & my parents don't care who I
bring home as long as she's not high maintinance, or a slut.
That's a quote from my mom.
*lol* You're chinese? Me too I bet
your mom was joking ~!
Well... when I asked my mum (when I was younger) about who should I marry and
who can I marry in the future, she gave me really high standards... It makes me
question... shouldn't you court anyone who you just simply love? Sure the
standards are good in some way but in the end if they're too high... avn anyone
meet those standards?
My parents don't really care... as long as they're a good person and I really
love them and they'll take care of me... they're fine with it. They don't really
mind what race/religion/etc... Though knowing my parents, I'm pretty sure they
would prefer I marry someone who would have gone to university, someone smart,
etc... med-high standards I guess. But they respect my choice. So yea xD
Man. Having your parents standards is hard. I can understandn them on if they
dont like your bf / gf. But dating someone applying to thier standards is just
too much. Its like they are choosn your partner for you. Like them saying,
"I dont like they way she has her hair". Or, "I dont like her
perfume".
I'm Chinese/Cantonese.
My parents used to become very strict with standards until i became 12. They
just said, "Make sure you're happy and all".
Just make sure she isn't (put bad stuff here).
Chinese stereotype. They still want something good though.
does your parents have high standards on who you are gonna court?..
my mom said she has to be white but i think my mom is joking.. we're chinese
Yeah, parents usually do... ive noticed asian decent usually have higher standards or you have to prove to them that it's worthwhile. Parents cant control the who you love.
that's just an Asian stereotype of order. although my parents too set some rules for my courting, still they would checkout my future wife's inner personality first. looks are just minor order. i'm sure many other parents would agree (minus racial/religion/skin color standard of choice)
This is a really good question. I'm black & my parents don't care who I bring home as long as she's not high maintinance, or a slut.
That's a quote from my mom. 
*lol* You're chinese? Me too
I bet
your mom was joking ~!
Well... when I asked my mum (when I was younger) about who should I marry and who can I marry in the future, she gave me really high standards... It makes me question... shouldn't you court anyone who you just simply love? Sure the standards are good in some way but in the end if they're too high... avn anyone meet those standards?
Nya? I'm cantonese/chinese ^^
My parents don't really care... as long as they're a good person and I really love them and they'll take care of me... they're fine with it. They don't really mind what race/religion/etc... Though knowing my parents, I'm pretty sure they would prefer I marry someone who would have gone to university, someone smart, etc... med-high standards I guess. But they respect my choice. So yea xD
Man. Having your parents standards is hard. I can understandn them on if they dont like your bf / gf. But dating someone applying to thier standards is just too much. Its like they are choosn your partner for you. Like them saying, "I dont like they way she has her hair". Or, "I dont like her perfume".
I'm glad my parents arent like that.
I'm Chinese/Cantonese.
My parents used to become very strict with standards until i became 12. They just said, "Make sure you're happy and all".
Just make sure she isn't (put bad stuff here).
Chinese stereotype. They still want something good though.