I've been in a relationship for more than a month now... And I've been away a
few weeks on holiday.
Now I hear from a friend (guy1) that he was actually seeing my girlfriend (he
did not know that we where together)
He has pictures so that freaked me out.
I asked my girlfriend if this was true, she got mad that I actually believed
that.
So I appogized and so on... it was ok...
A day later (today)...
I hear from another friend (woman1) that my girlfriend had a date with another
guy (guy2).
And I get a file where an msn conversation goes on between my girlfriend and
another guy (guy3) talking about me and guy1 that we are annoying and that we
thought that she loved us "which is not true"
Id trust my 2 friends, even if it were just one friend, if u feel that friend
can be trusted at least.
Besides, if it's true, n it sounds as though it is considering 2 friends say so,
that she's lying about it is even worse, but it's still up to u.
Basicly, do u really kno the girl well enough to believe that it can't be true:/
She's just playing with you =/ Don't listen, some girls can be good liars ... I
know it's not easy, but break it off. Stop wasting your time and patience.
chill ...... move on.. definitely she is not the last girl left on earth n if
that would be a situation also then too u should have preffered leaving her
i dont know what u deserve but truly she dont deserve any loving person .......
all the best
Some girls can be very like you have mentioned... Just because they have good
looks and so on... Seriously, you just chose the wrong girl... even if you were
not close with your other 3 friends... but to have 3 people saying something
like that is not just plain coincidence...
Break it off and i know you can forgot her anyway ...Just so
you know when you dated a girl and she decides to date you again doesnt mean she
is your gf... it is only so when she starts confessing her love and agree on
going steady... otherwise she might just be dating around still looking for that
Mr Right ..
i dont know what i'll do, but i guess i'll go with the friends. it all comes
down to how much you trust each person invovled. my trust in them all will have
faded until proven.
depends........i mean those friends u have, have u known them for a long
time.........if it was me i believe my friends, i try not to let sumone destroy
my friendships, so ill dump the gurl.......or guy, even if it wasn't true, your
friends have there reasons......
If it comes down to it, long time friends > new girlfriend. Don't lose your
cool because close friends are more important than girlfriend of the month.
You'll be kicking yourself later if you cause tension between you and your
friends later when you break up with her.
Hey,
I've been in a relationship for more than a month now... And I've been away a few weeks on holiday.
Now I hear from a friend (guy1) that he was actually seeing my girlfriend (he did not know that we where together)
He has pictures so that freaked me out.
I asked my girlfriend if this was true, she got mad that I actually believed that.
So I appogized and so on... it was ok...
A day later (today)...
I hear from another friend (woman1) that my girlfriend had a date with another guy (guy2).
And I get a file where an msn conversation goes on between my girlfriend and another guy (guy3) talking about me and guy1 that we are annoying and that we thought that she loved us "which is not true"
my girlfriend denies this too...
I really don't know what to think anymore...
what would you do ?
Id trust my 2 friends, even if it were just one friend, if u feel that friend can be trusted at least.
Besides, if it's true, n it sounds as though it is considering 2 friends say so, that she's lying about it is even worse, but it's still up to u.
Basicly, do u really kno the girl well enough to believe that it can't be true:/
I'm going with the 2 friends... To be honest, I don't know ony of them really-really well...
Man, that girl doesn't deserve you. Don't let love blind you. Continue your search for love
yeah well... it aint that easy isn't it ?
I'm not going to search for love ... I can use a break after this Hell
She's just playing with you =/ Don't listen, some girls can be good liars ... I know it's not easy, but break it off. Stop wasting your time and patience.
chill ...... move on.. definitely she is not the last girl left on earth n if that would be a situation also then too u should have preffered leaving her
i dont know what u deserve but truly she dont deserve any loving person ....... all the best
It's goign to get worse if she lies. You could trust your friends but you should look more into it.
Some girls can be very like you have mentioned... Just because they have good looks and so on... Seriously, you just chose the wrong girl... even if you were not close with your other 3 friends... but to have 3 people saying something like that is not just plain coincidence...
Break it off and i know you can forgot her anyway
...Just so
you know when you dated a girl and she decides to date you again doesnt mean she
is your gf... it is only so when she starts confessing her love and agree on
going steady... otherwise she might just be dating around still looking for that
Mr Right ..
i dont know what i'll do, but i guess i'll go with the friends. it all comes down to how much you trust each person invovled. my trust in them all will have faded until proven.
thank you all...
in these dark times
I guess I allready knew what I had to do... But I needed some support...
Let the healing begin
depends........i mean those friends u have, have u known them for a long time.........if it was me i believe my friends, i try not to let sumone destroy my friendships, so ill dump the gurl.......or guy, even if it wasn't true, your friends have there reasons......
did break up with her?
yeah... She kept denying it... But she could not say straight out that she was telling the truth...
Most likly my 2 friends if they say the same thing then it must be some what true.
oh reallie......yeah i always say "boys are watever friends are forever" but i guess in ur case its "gurls are watever friends are forever"
If it comes down to it, long time friends > new girlfriend. Don't lose your cool because close friends are more important than girlfriend of the month. You'll be kicking yourself later if you cause tension between you and your friends later when you break up with her.