Well uh... basically, we all (generally) think breakups are horrible. But just how nasty can they get? Share your opinions and stories please ^^''

(the person I broke up with in this story is not my current bf, which the 'how did you confess your love' thread is about)

Here's my messed up story...

I thought I fell in love, but I didn't. It was just a mistake... and when I realized that I had liked that person as nothing more than a friend, I knew I couldn't keep taking it on. I had to let go, I knew something didn't seem right from the start. Maybe it was the fact that the night right after the confessions, I felt so... chained against my will. Or the fact that I hated how he treated me as below him, or the fact that he never took me seriously, just because I was 'harmless' as that I didn't want to hurt anyone. Even when I asked him to respect me and my own choices more, he wouldn't listen. I thought he was nice. But he turned out to be everything but that.

Then, I decided to break up with him, that idiot. I offered him friendship, but he wouldn't even thank me or accept it... he wanted me as a lover. and only that. Now that was when things started getting really bad...

Back then, my current bf and I were quite good friends. We talked about everything, and whenever I would tell him how I wasn't really happy with the relationship I had with that loser, he would always reassure me and tell me that one day, I would wake up and understand. And things would always fall into place in the end. However, that loser hated him, my friend, because of things that happened in the past. Oh the stupidity of that. The past is past, isn't it? Let it go...

I won't even call him my ex, he hurt me so much, I never did anything but break up with him for the sake of the fact that I never really loved him in the romantic way... he threatened to hurt me, to kill all those I love.. and made everything seem like my fault, so let's just call him a major loser.

I drew my strength from my friend, who is now my bf. He was always there for me. Had he not been there, I wouldn't have been able to act as I should have, or be as strong as I am today.

After a while, that idiot stopped bothering me. He left. Phew... that was a relief to be free of this burden.

So yea... I'm glad that is over with, and I'm happy now.

How about you all? >.>

Heh...Your best friend will be your lover in the end.
Touching...

It's been 3 years after i broke up with my gf.And yet I still haven't gotten over it.She was my first lover and the first one to ever accept me.She was a very nice person and caring.She always there when I need her.But,that was before after an incident.

I didn't know what happened actually nor whose fault it is.Her Best Friend whose actually a girl did something to her.She said something bad about me for what I think.I don't really know what she said but my gf was not the person i remembered anymore...

She turned more agressive and uncaring.When I called her she won't even answer.Then,one day...she told me one thing.

"I was never your friend ! I rather die than friends with you !"

It feels like a knife just penetrated your heart.She left me like that with such horrible words...

I never smiled ever since then..nor could ever believe in love again..

hmmmmm, my break up went perfectly fine because we both started liking eachother less because it was summer break. he was busy and so was i. but getting over him was horrible. back then i was an air head and i was lying to myself that didn't like him anymore. i was super emo for a while and in the end i just needed to move on, he wasn't worth it.

Hmm, your ex seems like a real clueless jerk. Although sometimes it's better to just let it go, and not be in contact. I'm happy you find someone good. For me though, mine went horribly. He was one of those really posessive guys, and verbally abusive. So I couldn't take it anymore, I had to end it, it was literally making me sick physically, I collasped from the stress one night. Anyway, so I told him gently, and he said he knew it was coming. He almost tried to kill himself too, I felt so bad, but no matter what, I told myself I can't give in and take him back ... He'll get over it. So after a few weeks he started talking with this other girl, I didn't think much of it. Then I found out a month later they were going out. I decided to stop the contact with him, we still got into arguments, friendship was no go ... We just could not get along. I can't believe after all this time and what he's told me, and went off with another girl in a couple of weeks. But anyway, I'm glad now, I've never been more free and happy.

Devilet, yours reminds me of mine. He almost killed himself too. And he was really possessive like yours... >.> glad I'm not alone here. ^^'' we don't talk anymore either...

from me, just patient ok

so far I hadn't expierenced any break-ups but been close to one many times....until I realize this kind of sadness...was one of the ways we would be able to become stronger to each other and to be able to comprehend the other one's feelings...

It felt horrible but ...we both learned a lot about each other after those expierences....

xD we're still a good strong couple as of right now..

no break-ups yet xP