Righty people, I think this is really wrong but the other day I seen two 9 year olds going out and I think that was really distrurbing what do you guys think? I don't get why people try and find love when they're so young, I mean they have such a long life and sometimes I think they're throwing it away just for love. I mean is it worth it? Is love worth losing your education?

So the questions I'm asking here are:

Is it wrong to find love at such a young age?

Why is it wrong?

What age do you think people like us should start looking for love at?

Would you chose love or education?

Difficult question... I thing love is always a matter of time. You can not go out the street and search for love. The age is not important ( if it goes to sex it is important)
the love or education question is kinda weird.... I mean Love and education are two copletely different things and should not get involved with each other!^^

Love is something that occurs naturally.
Wrong at a young age? Somewhat but leans toward no.
What is wrong? Love?
What age? That is undefined and will come along with time. It doesn't have to be a young or old age but love just comes. Not really looking but comes.
Love or education? The thing is, love will give you the patience to wait for your partner to finish his/her education.

Hopefully, you'll understand "Love" when you grow older. Love should bring patience.
In the end, it is how you decide......sometimes, you'll make the wrong choice, so think about it twice or even three times.

there's no 'qualified' age to pursue love. true, as time advances, i did notice some kids start falling in love at age 9.

so, i would say, maturity is the 'requiment' to get into love. it's safer than age. even then, it's not wrong to fall in such age. but usually at this age of beginning, it's kinda ankward so it may be addicting. emm...on studies, it will bring distraction. so, better limit it into just friends, or 'close/best friends'

for me, it's education first...unless i can handle love properly...

I think is too soon 4 them! what the hell.....it's wrong they must play with dolls at that age......maybe after 13 but not before....NO WAY

That's what I think Gloria, I think it just freaks me out how kids at that young age can be dating but I guess it's a personal opinion kinda thing. But for me education always first

I think nowadays people don`t treat love serious and go in love easily, alot of children at a very young age gt influence and follow... I think dun still dunno what is crush adn really fall in love la... I think at around 16 is suitable la, for now 16 is counted as late already but at least a teenager!

18! 14 is only suitable for puppy love, though I am digusted to see my friends chasing around their loves in school. And they look like kids.

I think people think puppy love is for when you're in primary but I think 16 that people will look at you and think what is wrong with you it's a bit late do you not think. But I still think 15 is okay not serious but people under that age is really weird.

I think it's a family issue. Love has no starting age, but the way people love changes with age. Nothing wrong as long as it remains sane.

People should probably look for love during their second year of college. I think this is the best time because any time earlier than that is probably when people aren't mature enough yet to understand the concept of love. The first year of college is usually too crazy and people just end up hooking up but never really in love. The second year of college is good because people have settled down a bit and are more mature.

hmmm id say the younger you are the more temptations in the future... so live life to the fullest till u find true love

pook

Whenever i guess. Love can be found at different areas. Love isn't like a equation. It's the unknown so you never know when to find love.

I think that there is no age to start to look for love, if comes at a really young age you can't do anything about it. It seems to be wrong because young people only play with that kind of stuff and they don't understand what love is, I think for some of them is just sex and that's it. But if you want to look for love instead, then I think it should be at more mature age, or when you think you are ready for it and you kind of understand what it means.
Between love and education...which one should i choose? I think there's a different time for both of them. There's time for education and time for love.

Just have to know the right time and right place. Love just happens.

Love isn't something you can control, so if it happens then it happens. However at the age of 9 it may just be a crush and not true love at all.

Yeah, I also want to know, what's the difference between puppy love and actualy love, because I know what love means but when someone says puppy love I haven't got a clue what they mean. so can someone tell what puppy love actually is?

Kindergarden HOOO! Like...If I recall, umm there was something going on between my friend and a girl LOL!.. Theres nothing wrong in it, so yea..Wheet! Doggy love, well that...hmm that might be wrong to some people in that you \"think\" you like someone but when another person pops out, you suddenly forget about THAT person before and go gah gah over the new one. Yep uhhh so if you are under that situation then, well you\'ll know won\'t you? Haha...

Thank you Prydey.

You guys keep saying that you can't control love, this is a true fact but you can control what you say can you not? You can control the fact of not asking the person out. I just think sometimes kids push it way to far. Like sometimes I think they're only doing this to get popularity? That's what I think

9 ? :s

thats way to early...
why you ask ?
We all know how much people change during puberty and so on...
that love has very little chance of enduring that period... throwing away your life because you truly love someone is stupid... even if you are older and wiser. You can sacrifice a lot for love... I would too... But throwing away one of the most important things in your life ? No
Love can go on even with education and so on...

I asked this question because I always see people around everyday at the age of 9 or the majority over but the minority are younger and it just seems so wrong. I don't get why people are so desperate, I know I know, live life to it's fulless but do we have to go as far as the age of 9?

its not rong to lov... but wen yr young... do you really think of it as lov? its mor like.... going out with a frien that you prefer mor than others... almost like.. best friens.. an from that friendship lov will.. mature mor... if you think about it... along time ago... young children had arranged marriages set up... an at that young age they met with the person whom they would hav to eventually lov... so.. from their childhood they wer taught that they kould only lov an depend on each other...

i dont think people should 'look' for lov... i think it should jus... kom to naturally/gradually... no matter wat the age...

lov should not get in the way of a person's edukation... an vice-versa... it jus depends on whether or not a person is balancing lov an edukation... but then... we get better at balancing as we mature ne? thats jus wat i think ^^
m.i.a.

i think that 9 years old is way to young to know what love is. ture love comes when you find it. sure it might take years but you will know once you find that special someone whom you want to spend the rest of your life with. i should know, i already found him.

I think that you can fall in love at any age. I remeber my first boyfriend from 1st grade. I would not call it a real relationship or anything but I had such a huge crush on him and I wanted to spend all of my time with him. We both really liked each other and back then I thought that I was in love. We were best friends and hung out all the time. It is so easy to fall in love when you are that young but it still hurts just as much when things are over no matter what age you are.
So if you think you are in love then I say go for it. Plus your first true love is always the best!