hey, thx 2 any1 who can help me on this...and i guess i shall post it
here
well....she said we broke up...and when i told some1 eles, she was standing by
me, she said we did not but she wanted 2 wait till after basketball season....so
i dont know anymore...we still hang out alot...and the other day, she was
chilling at my house till 2am....
You obviously don't want to break up. Why did she suggest it to begin with? Did
she give you a reason? She doesn't seem to dislike you. Did she suggest a more
platonic relationship? Why don't you talk to her about it and see how it goes? I
do think saying "lets break up once so-and-so is over" sounds quite
ridiculous. Makes me think that she isn't really serious. You really need to
find out more. Can't really give you advice beyond this...
Quote by cardmageYou obviously don't
want to break up. Why did she suggest it to begin with? Did she give you a
reason? She doesn't seem to dislike you. Did she suggest a more platonic
relationship? Why don't you talk to her about it and see how it goes? I do think
saying "lets break up once so-and-so is over" sounds quite ridiculous.
Makes me think that she isn't really serious. You really need to find out more.
Can't really give you advice beyond this...
Agree, you obviously don't want to & neither does this girl. Just continue
what you've been doing & everything "should" be okay.
mm... let me get this straight... the girl you wer going out with told you that
she isnt going out with you anymor... an wen you told somone else... she sed
that you guys didnt break up but were taking a break...? she says shes stressed
bekuz her ap klasses an sports? mm you wouldnt happen to be a junior would you?
mai klasses are ap as well... an i play volleyball an basketball... so i suppose
i kan see wher shes koming from... but thers not so much stress ther to want to
take a break... mm... maybe jus giv her time... an enjoy the fakt that shes
still hanging out with you... an wen shes ready... youll be waiting ^^ but while
yr taking a break... think about if you really want a relationship with her...
it kinda sounded like she broke yr heart... an if she did it once... she kan do
it again... but thats jus wat i think.... good luck tho ^^
m.i.a. ^^
I think she does not want to break up, but she just wants to take a break. That
might be why she said that you guys did not break up in front of her friends,
because she still wants to go out. However, she probably feels overwhelmed by
other things now, so she wants to just chill. In any case, just still be her
boyfriend, but just not officially. However, do not fall into the friend zone,
because that is death. Well, that is just my opinion, and I might be totally
wrong too.
Quote by uzumakinoaimm... let me get
this straight... the girl you wer going out with told you that she isnt going
out with you anymor... an wen you told somone else... she sed that you guys
didnt break up but were taking a break...? she says shes stressed bekuz her ap
klasses an sports? mm you wouldnt happen to be a junior would you? mai klasses
are ap as well... an i play volleyball an basketball... so i suppose i kan see
wher shes koming from... but thers not so much stress ther to want to take a
break... mm... maybe jus giv her time... an enjoy the fakt that shes still
hanging out with you... an wen shes ready... youll be waiting ^^ but while yr
taking a break... think about if you really want a relationship with her... it
kinda sounded like she broke yr heart... an if she did it once... she kan do it
again... but thats jus wat i think.... good luck tho ^^
m.i.a. ^^
Well it could be that she's totally stressed out n all that and she needs a
break. (hey, if you got so frustrated about this, then she must be important to
you).
From what you said it really doesn't seem that she actually wants to break up.
It's just that she's prolly overwhelmed by school n all that. Be there for her
and be supportive to help her trough this. Just as uyo said. Be her BF, but
don't cling to her all the time. Allow her to get herself ou tof this and help
if need be. Oh, and yea, avoid the friend zone.
hey, thx 2 any1 who can help me on this...and i guess i shall post it here
well....she said we broke up...and when i told some1 eles, she was standing by me, she said we did not but she wanted 2 wait till after basketball season....so i dont know anymore...we still hang out alot...and the other day, she was chilling at my house till 2am....
thx again 4 any
You obviously don't want to break up. Why did she suggest it to begin with? Did she give you a reason? She doesn't seem to dislike you. Did she suggest a more platonic relationship? Why don't you talk to her about it and see how it goes? I do think saying "lets break up once so-and-so is over" sounds quite ridiculous. Makes me think that she isn't really serious. You really need to find out more. Can't really give you advice beyond this...
I agree with cardmage; you two (your girlfriend and you) should definately get everything out in the open.
i agree with cardmage and Trigun......, it's right, maybe she doesn't wanna breakup with u.
=D
her reason was that she was stress out with school (since she takes ahh AP classes) and also basketball.
Agree, you obviously don't want to & neither does this girl. Just continue what you've been doing & everything "should" be okay.
mm... let me get this straight... the girl you wer going out with told you that she isnt going out with you anymor... an wen you told somone else... she sed that you guys didnt break up but were taking a break...? she says shes stressed bekuz her ap klasses an sports? mm you wouldnt happen to be a junior would you? mai klasses are ap as well... an i play volleyball an basketball... so i suppose i kan see wher shes koming from... but thers not so much stress ther to want to take a break... mm... maybe jus giv her time... an enjoy the fakt that shes still hanging out with you... an wen shes ready... youll be waiting ^^ but while yr taking a break... think about if you really want a relationship with her... it kinda sounded like she broke yr heart... an if she did it once... she kan do it again... but thats jus wat i think.... good luck tho ^^
m.i.a. ^^
I think she does not want to break up, but she just wants to take a break. That might be why she said that you guys did not break up in front of her friends, because she still wants to go out. However, she probably feels overwhelmed by other things now, so she wants to just chill. In any case, just still be her boyfriend, but just not officially. However, do not fall into the friend zone, because that is death. Well, that is just my opinion, and I might be totally wrong too.
She's playin headgames... there's nothin else that it could be w/ the limited info you gave us.
i think u might be right on this?
Well it could be that she's totally stressed out n all that and she needs a break. (hey, if you got so frustrated about this, then she must be important to you).
From what you said it really doesn't seem that she actually wants to break up. It's just that she's prolly overwhelmed by school n all that. Be there for her and be supportive to help her trough this. Just as uyo said. Be her BF, but don't cling to her all the time. Allow her to get herself ou tof this and help if need be. Oh, and yea, avoid the friend zone.