This cannot fit in my head ,why are boys pervert?in my school there are a bunch
of boys that if u mention a little thing ,they say a pervert thing.And boys
alwyas see pervert things...why?its an instinct or wot?They see a seminaked
super wow girl,and they turn weird,like woa tht girl I wanther,yummie!or they
see some skin and they woa!no no ,why? can u answer me?
I need to know details!
All I can tell you is that people make that only because in their sub-conscious
they think they attract attention by doing that, the others will laugh more with
them and they will get more exciting experiences through being that way...I tell
you what I've seen 'cause I've been for 3 years with that kind of people and
it's horrible, if I would comment about my disagreement about that kind of
behavior, they would rather have me whacked down...
The other thing I can tell you is that not all people are like this...they make
it only because they think that's a way to feel more "like a
man"...
I just tell you what I know from my short experience...
Quote by Elven-InccubusAll I can
tell you is that people make that only because in their sub-conscious they think
they attract attention by doing that, the others will laugh more with them and
they will get more exciting experiences through being that way...I tell you what
I've seen 'cause I've been for 3 years with that kind of people and it's
horrible, if I would comment about my disagreement about that kind of behavior,
they would rather have me whacked down...
The other thing I can tell you is that not all people are like this...they make
it only because they think that's a way to feel more "like a
man"...
I just tell you what I know from my short
experience...
Yes ,wot u mean its true ,they do that only to caught people attention,(and
thats stupid though )but
I have known very respectable boys ,very innocent that when u show them a
picture of a handsome girl or a pervert magazine ,he would get red and bleed out
of his nose,,,and he is a very shy boy indeed.
Well, it depends on their age. Before puberty girls are gross, during puberty
girls are an uncomfortable topic, and afterwards girls are just plain hot. After
while it wears off as they matures.
I (male) have a different problem - since high school I have had different types
of friends (male and female) from one end of the horny spectrum to the other.
One group will be so horny and, basically, stupid, while the other wouldn't
recognize male or female biology if they had it pointed out to them. Or they
would have died of embarrassment. Since then I am carrying a wide load of
terminology with certain euphemistic meanings that I I have to keep in reserve,
depending on which group I'm socialising at the moment. The worst is, however,
when the innocent group uses words or terms with a very definate euphemistic
meaning, none of which I had made up, but terms you should no none the less to
not make a jackass of yourself in certain contexts. So when I choke at their
inoccent usage of the term or word, then suddenly I am the disgusting
pervert.
So what now? Am I a pervert, or do I just carry knowledge of the different
usages of certain words in certain contexts?
Lol......Although I'm a girl I can say that girls are as perverted as boys with
total confidence!
Most of the time, they just don't show it openly like boys Cause
it's not that acceptable for society that girls are perverted....They do have
perverted thoughts
Maybe affraid to admit it tought I think it's stupid '
Quote by metalheadYes ,wot u mean its
true ,they do that only to caught people attention,(and thats stupid though )but
I have known very respectable boys ,very innocent that when u show them a
picture of a handsome girl or a pervert magazine ,he would get red and bleed out
of his nose,,,and he is a very shy boy indeed.
Well, that reaction is different from what you're talking about, even girls have
reactions, that vary from individual to individual...but, resuming, from my
point of view there are two attitudes:
One - The typically ape-like attitude in which one guy babbles about some skin
and he's trying to get attetion from his fellows
Two - The natural reaction of blushing and felling somehow "attracted"
by some skin. I say its natural because IT IS natural. It's a natural reaction
in the human male, just like (yes, I'm gonna say it) phallic erection. It's a
reflex, but the control of it comes from within each one psyche, that is where
the personality unique to each one comes out, and transforms that attitude from
a disgusting, rude one to a shy, discrete, respectful one...
I hope I made myself clear in what I meant...greetings ^^
Well, avoid the guys who show no restraint and go for the ones who do show
restraint. As a guy, i dont hang around foul-mouthed, ignorant boys who think
its 'cool' to say things like that. Besides, it'll wear off when they get older,
best you can do is avoid and ignore them, but you do every nice guy a disservice
by calling our entire sex 'perverted'.
Well, the thing is that boys have testosterone, which is the hormone that gives
them the masculine characteristics to men. Of course you know that
already.
We as men have this "instincts" that simply "work" when we
see a girl. For girls is quite hard to understand because this is something that
you feel, is not just something that you learn. So when we see a girls smile,
her eyes or her lips, skin, or hear her voice or smell her perfume, etc.,
something "triggers" inside us making us feel many things inside
ourselves.
Of course that affects our emotions and that is why we fall for girls so easly,
that is why we can feel so excited and happy when a girl acept us or feel very
sad or frustrated when reject us.
In the other hand, there is something that you cannot ignore, and is a boy
background. Unfortunately there is a cultural world wide point of view about
women that we men have hardly get rid off and that is very destructive toward
women. That kind of thoughts and behavior move us to threat women as objects,
with no respect or care.
This cultural way of thinking plus the hormones on every new boy that borns,
keeps the same pattern of not respect for women and that is very sad and we have
to admit it an correct it.
Not all boys are pervert actually, mostly they are only curious and feel lost
and embarass when they don't know how to control theirselves in front of a
girl.
But that is why they are boys and girls, we need each other, we are not one
better than the other, we are just different.
So please try to be patient with us, since these things are normal, but also if
someone is disrespectful with a girl, we must call him to correct that, but this
has to be a rule for disrespectufl girls also.
Quote by metalheadThis cannot fit in my
head ,why are boys pervert?in my school there are a bunch of boys that if u
mention a little thing ,they say a pervert thing.And boys alwyas see pervert
things...why?its an instinct or wot?They see a seminaked super wow girl,and they
turn weird,like woa tht girl I wanther,yummie!or they see some skin and they
woa!no no ,why? can u answer me?
I need to know details!
It has roots in ancient culture, since men we're essentially denied seeing the
female naked, it becames a passion (obession,desire, etc.) to see more and more
of the woman body. thus the creation of swimsuits, bras, tight skirts, anything
that makes the body look better or reveal more cuts to this type of phenominon.
<(that spelled right?)
Quote by metalheadbut I have known very
respectable boys ,very innocent that when u show them a picture of a handsome
girl or a pervert magazine ,he would get red and bleed out of his nose,,,and he
is a very shy boy indeed.
Sounds like me
I would like to point out that not all man (though most) are perverted pig-dogs.
I think it's because they see other people that way and want to fit in I guess.
I have very perverted friends that I love dearly they may be perverted but they
are also very sweet to me.
not all boys are that outspoken ...some keep their thoughts to themselves
...including me
...and even if some girls do look great on the outside it's the inside that
should be taken in consideration as well
no matter how good a girl looks on the outside i'f she deoesn't look good on the
inside some boys don't even bother
btw... 1'st impressions can be the most deceptive ...sad but true
Depends on age and character. If they do it's because they want to express
themselves the 'ultimate' way to get into the spotlights and be seen as the
strong daring male of the group. Plus testosterone at that certain age strongens
this. But it's not as if it stays forever. Also at the same age, girls are very
easily tempored by this kind of male behaviour and might exagurate things a bit.
Personally, looking at some comments and the point in the first post clearly
stating that ALL boys/males are perverted minds offends me. Following your
statement, I am a perverted, nude sick pig too. Never ever in my entire life
have I done anything that might've been a bit offencive for a girl. I don't say
that I didn't dare let flow a little pervert remark, but that's all and thanks
to our hormones a natural thing. And there are lot lot lot more people like me.
So YES, it's wrong to throw mudd in our faces by giving us the feeling the
entire male sex is just a bunch of perverted no good drooling female flesh
spotters and nothing else. As a man, I feel offended by that. Sorry, but that's
how I feel about all of this.
Ok, Lets say all men and boys are not pervert, not a single one in this world.
Theres no attraction to the opposite sex. A mindless robot. Go to school, study,
work, go old and die. What would happen?
Quite a few people here think it depends on a mans age. This is not entirely
true. I am very respectable towards women, and I stopped believing in 'cooties'
and started liking girls when I was 6, well before puberty. Its mainly
experiances.
And as for why we think the way we do, is exactly what peole have been saying.
It stimulates sertain parts of our bodies and brains. Its a natural reaction to
seeing something attractive. But how a male outwardly exerts this is dependant
on his experiance.
sorry about that post ...not all boy are pervert ,,and its naturall to be for u
guys,,I just wanted to know ur opinion, sorry i didnt meant to offend u.
This cannot fit in my head ,why are boys pervert?in my school there are a bunch of boys that if u mention a little thing ,they say a pervert thing.And boys alwyas see pervert things...why?its an instinct or wot?They see a seminaked super wow girl,and they turn weird,like woa tht girl I wanther,yummie!or they see some skin and they woa!no no ,why? can u answer me?
I need to know details!
All I can tell you is that people make that only because in their sub-conscious they think they attract attention by doing that, the others will laugh more with them and they will get more exciting experiences through being that way...I tell you what I've seen 'cause I've been for 3 years with that kind of people and it's horrible, if I would comment about my disagreement about that kind of behavior, they would rather have me whacked down...
The other thing I can tell you is that not all people are like this...they make it only because they think that's a way to feel more "like a man"...
I just tell you what I know from my short experience...
One word: Hormones (and also perhaps because they are at "that age").
Yes ,wot u mean its true ,they do that only to caught people attention,(and thats stupid though
Scientifically, it's cause by the male hormones known as Testerone i think..
Well, it depends on their age. Before puberty girls are gross, during puberty girls are an uncomfortable topic, and afterwards girls are just plain hot. After while it wears off as they matures.
I (male) have a different problem - since high school I have had different types of friends (male and female) from one end of the horny spectrum to the other. One group will be so horny and, basically, stupid, while the other wouldn't recognize male or female biology if they had it pointed out to them. Or they would have died of embarrassment. Since then I am carrying a wide load of terminology with certain euphemistic meanings that I I have to keep in reserve, depending on which group I'm socialising at the moment. The worst is, however, when the innocent group uses words or terms with a very definate euphemistic meaning, none of which I had made up, but terms you should no none the less to not make a jackass of yourself in certain contexts. So when I choke at their inoccent usage of the term or word, then suddenly I am the disgusting pervert.
So what now? Am I a pervert, or do I just carry knowledge of the different usages of certain words in certain contexts?
It's called "animal instinct" :P
After reading your (the OP's) post, I've concluded that your ignorance knows no bounds. Please, think a little before you slander my entire sex.
because they are boys :P
Lol......Although I'm a girl I can say that girls are as perverted as boys with total confidence!
Most of the time, they just don't show it openly like boys
Cause
it's not that acceptable for society that girls are perverted....They do have
perverted thoughts 
Maybe affraid to admit it tought I think it's stupid
'
Well, that reaction is different from what you're talking about, even girls have reactions, that vary from individual to individual...but, resuming, from my point of view there are two attitudes:
One - The typically ape-like attitude in which one guy babbles about some skin and he's trying to get attetion from his fellows
Two - The natural reaction of blushing and felling somehow "attracted" by some skin. I say its natural because IT IS natural. It's a natural reaction in the human male, just like (yes, I'm gonna say it) phallic erection. It's a reflex, but the control of it comes from within each one psyche, that is where the personality unique to each one comes out, and transforms that attitude from a disgusting, rude one to a shy, discrete, respectful one...
I hope I made myself clear in what I meant...greetings ^^
Well, avoid the guys who show no restraint and go for the ones who do show restraint. As a guy, i dont hang around foul-mouthed, ignorant boys who think its 'cool' to say things like that. Besides, it'll wear off when they get older, best you can do is avoid and ignore them, but you do every nice guy a disservice by calling our entire sex 'perverted'.
Well, the thing is that boys have testosterone, which is the hormone that gives them the masculine characteristics to men. Of course you know that already.
We as men have this "instincts" that simply "work" when we see a girl. For girls is quite hard to understand because this is something that you feel, is not just something that you learn. So when we see a girls smile, her eyes or her lips, skin, or hear her voice or smell her perfume, etc., something "triggers" inside us making us feel many things inside ourselves.
Of course that affects our emotions and that is why we fall for girls so easly, that is why we can feel so excited and happy when a girl acept us or feel very sad or frustrated when reject us.
In the other hand, there is something that you cannot ignore, and is a boy background. Unfortunately there is a cultural world wide point of view about women that we men have hardly get rid off and that is very destructive toward women. That kind of thoughts and behavior move us to threat women as objects, with no respect or care.
This cultural way of thinking plus the hormones on every new boy that borns, keeps the same pattern of not respect for women and that is very sad and we have to admit it an correct it.
Not all boys are pervert actually, mostly they are only curious and feel lost and embarass when they don't know how to control theirselves in front of a girl.
But that is why they are boys and girls, we need each other, we are not one better than the other, we are just different.
So please try to be patient with us, since these things are normal, but also if someone is disrespectful with a girl, we must call him to correct that, but this has to be a rule for disrespectufl girls also.
It has roots in ancient culture, since men we're essentially denied seeing the female naked, it becames a passion (obession,desire, etc.) to see more and more of the woman body. thus the creation of swimsuits, bras, tight skirts, anything that makes the body look better or reveal more cuts to this type of phenominon. <(that spelled right?)
Sounds like me
I would like to point out that not all man (though most) are perverted pig-dogs.
I think it's because they see other people that way and want to fit in I guess. I have very perverted friends that I love dearly they may be perverted but they are also very sweet to me.
not all boys are that outspoken ...some keep their thoughts to themselves ...including me
...and even if some girls do look great on the outside it's the inside that should be taken in consideration as well
no matter how good a girl looks on the outside i'f she deoesn't look good on the inside some boys don't even bother
btw... 1'st impressions can be the most deceptive ...sad but true
Depends on age and character. If they do it's because they want to express themselves the 'ultimate' way to get into the spotlights and be seen as the strong daring male of the group. Plus testosterone at that certain age strongens this. But it's not as if it stays forever. Also at the same age, girls are very easily tempored by this kind of male behaviour and might exagurate things a bit.
Personally, looking at some comments and the point in the first post clearly stating that ALL boys/males are perverted minds offends me. Following your statement, I am a perverted, nude sick pig too. Never ever in my entire life have I done anything that might've been a bit offencive for a girl. I don't say that I didn't dare let flow a little pervert remark, but that's all and thanks to our hormones a natural thing. And there are lot lot lot more people like me. So YES, it's wrong to throw mudd in our faces by giving us the feeling the entire male sex is just a bunch of perverted no good drooling female flesh spotters and nothing else. As a man, I feel offended by that. Sorry, but that's how I feel about all of this.
Ok, Lets say all men and boys are not pervert, not a single one in this world. Theres no attraction to the opposite sex. A mindless robot. Go to school, study, work, go old and die. What would happen?
Quite a few people here think it depends on a mans age. This is not entirely true. I am very respectable towards women, and I stopped believing in 'cooties' and started liking girls when I was 6, well before puberty. Its mainly experiances.
And as for why we think the way we do, is exactly what peole have been saying. It stimulates sertain parts of our bodies and brains. Its a natural reaction to seeing something attractive. But how a male outwardly exerts this is dependant on his experiance.
Comparatively, seems like girls are more perverted physically, while boys are perverted orally.
Women make us this way. I didn't find a better reason (laughs).
aha ahahahaha ahem
I loved that line....
In a perverted way of course
sorry about that post ...not all boy are pervert ,,and its naturall to be for u guys,,I just wanted to know ur opinion, sorry i didnt meant to offend u.