when I'm still junior high school,I do like a boy in my class
let me call him as "H"
at 2nd year,I confessed to him
hurm...
and..
the puppy love keep going on till I become senior in my school
but now
the feeling slowly faded away
coz there's happen sumthin between us that make me totally hate him
that's he doesnt believe in me...
he accused me want to flirt wif his best friends
and I can't stand of it!
in the mean time
there's a guy that I called "S" appeared in my life...
"S" is one year younger than me...
hurm..
all dat I can say bout "S" is...
he's totally different than "H"
"S" is more loving than "H"
he appreciated me more than "H"
and I think that I love "S" more than to "H"
*currently...*
but I can't deny it...
I still love "H" too...
and in the past 5 years
"H" is the only person that I loved wif all my heart...
but now..
the feeling is slowly faded away...
it's because I heard "H" already got a girlfriend
and the feeling of hate to him is become more and more
when he know there's sumthin between me and "S"
and he want to separate "S" and me
he'll try anything to separate us...
and that time I realised how important "S" to me
coz it showed to me how "S" appreciated +loves me....
and I really love him...
I would do anything to protect "S" from "H"
"S" is becoming more and more important to me...
and I know..I'm totally crazy in love wif "S"
but I cant deny that "H" also important to me...
who would i choose?!
Heh, here's what I think. I think, you should chill, take a few cold shower, and
think about where you want to go for college first. Not that I am trying to tell
you education first, yadda yadda. Nope. Now, what I am wondering is, seems like
you've got your feelings in order, and you've got everything you need to make
your decision in your uh... poem. Now, which part are you torn about again?
The thing is, if you want a long term relationship, and if S doesn't want to go
to a university nearby where you can meet him regularly, wouldn't it be easier
if you just wait until you get to uni to meet guys? Maybe, there are better guys
in uni than H or S?
mmm... love? love is a fish said Mr. Bungle ^^'
but u know... u are in the bottom of your heart wanna be with S and you wanna
listen from others what you think is ok...
dont think only with your heart. calm down, look around and see where are you
standing now.
good luck!
It sounds to me like you already know what you want.
It is always hard to let go of someone that you have been with for so long. But
if your feelings for H have changed and faded then it wasn't meant to be. The
best way to protect S is to make a complete and clean break from H. If you don't
break away completely then H will be close enough to make things with you and S
very difficult. Trying to be friends with ex-boyfriends almost never works out,
so in my opinion I would just stay away from him. It is hard for both of you but
it makes it easier for both of you to get over the relationship. Don't drag it
out and don't let it stop you from still being happy!
I hope everything works out for you! Good Luck!
Then, what you should do is, take out an ad in school magazine, or hijack the
school's PA system. Something that the whole school will be able to hear. Then
announce to the whole school that you have nothing to do with H. You have been
trying to avoid the emasculated bitch, and he sticks to you like a glue.
Hey girl ,look ,just send "H" to the damn hell ,kill him ,cut his head
,and...Stay with "S"he loves u right?He cares more about u than the
crappy H !Why would u care for someone who doesnt care about u?Or send S too
hell too...that would be easier..indeed.I have always wonder why girls r like
that,suffer 4 someone who is not worth. ,well am a girl too ,but am too
insensitive so I dont care that lot about boys and that crap about love,even
though they are many handsome boys!I like boys but I prefer to Focus ON MY
LIFE.U should focus ON YOUR LIFE ,why caring about 2 stupid kids?!Go to the
college and find the sexy or nerdy boy of ur dreams!Ill do that too!Well am not
saying go to gollege to look 4 boys ,go to college and study and maybe that
supposely destiny will give u ur man.
If there is no trust in a relationship the relationship is already gone. You
need to have trust but you can't be naive about it either. It's a very fine
border but if 'H' has all these accusations about you then I think he doesn't
trust you very much and it is in my opinion that you should just call it a
quits.
However, I also don't recommend running headlong into 'S's arms. Take a break to
collect your feelings, you're still young.
wow it`s really confusing...
You say your feeling fade becuz you hate him, hate him for not beliving in you?
But if he believe in you, will you still feel that way... Fading of feeling can
be due to time and many other things but love will not... You are happier with
who? If a relationship is unhappy, i suggest you not to carry on with it cuz the
longer it is the longer both of you suffer... You love both of them but cannt
have both at the same time, others cannt choose for you, the only one can decide
is yourself, no matter who you choose in the end, do not regret... Feeling will
fade but love will not, the two of them will still be someone you love in your
heart which will not be shaken no matter what you do... So seek your heart for
the answer you want... Only you yourself know who you really want to be with
Human beings have the capacity to love more than one at a time. But you must
also decide what kind of love it is and also, whether the other person is worth
gifting your love to. If he or she doesn't appreciate it and would rather throw
it away and trample on it, and the harrass you when you've found a little bit of
happiness and try to take it away from you...well, I think you know what you
should do in your own heart.
Very simple, do watever ur "Love" tells you to do. I've always said
this: People changes all the time, whether they want or not!
You said that "H" has an other girlfriend, that he made you hate him?
Do you really think he loves you?
You've found a new love, "S", if you really love "S" you
should go for it, Do Not let your Past take away your Present!
You used to love "H" and "H" used to love you, but He's
changed and your changed. Forget the one he Was and see the one he Is.
Maybe I'm wrong and yet... maybe I'm right... but that's your decission, that's
Your Choise!
Good Luck~~ and remember that:
The way you put it sounded like you are threw with H even if you still have some
feelings for him. You sound morre attracted to S and because he feels the same
way about you i would chose S. And about H i thing jealousy kicked in.Besides
the fact that H is feeling jealous that means he still cares for you but the
fact that he keeps disturbing you even though you don't want that means that he:
1) doesn't want you to hang around another boy. He may be teritorial... he is a
boy anyway.
2) he just want's to make things harder for you and S. Maybe then you will drift
apart and he will have another chance.
There may be a nr 3 here but i have no clue what it is.
I am a boy so i don't know if i am wright or wrong about this situation but i
hope i was of some use to you.
So do just as Kaisuke told you "do whatever ur "Love" tells you
to do". This is a situation where you need to trust your hurt not your
mind.
I guess now it's up to you. Good luck. I hope the choice you will make makes you
happy.
hmm.. i say H is trying to get ur attention by dating another gal tt is
something i think a guy would do, wouldn't they?(no offense to guys) well juz
listen to wat ur heart says
when I'm still junior high school,I do like a boy in my class
let me call him as "H"
at 2nd year,I confessed to him
hurm...
and..
the puppy love keep going on till I become senior in my school
but now
the feeling slowly faded away
coz there's happen sumthin between us that make me totally hate him
that's he doesnt believe in me...
he accused me want to flirt wif his best friends
and I can't stand of it!
in the mean time
there's a guy that I called "S" appeared in my life...
"S" is one year younger than me...
hurm..
all dat I can say bout "S" is...
he's totally different than "H"
"S" is more loving than "H"
he appreciated me more than "H"
and I think that I love "S" more than to "H" *currently...*
but I can't deny it...
I still love "H" too...
and in the past 5 years
"H" is the only person that I loved wif all my heart...
but now..
the feeling is slowly faded away...
it's because I heard "H" already got a girlfriend
and the feeling of hate to him is become more and more
when he know there's sumthin between me and "S"
and he want to separate "S" and me
he'll try anything to separate us...
and that time I realised how important "S" to me
coz it showed to me how "S" appreciated +loves me....
and I really love him...
I would do anything to protect "S" from "H"
"S" is becoming more and more important to me...
and I know..I'm totally crazy in love wif "S"
but I cant deny that "H" also important to me...
who would i choose?!
Heh, here's what I think. I think, you should chill, take a few cold shower, and think about where you want to go for college first. Not that I am trying to tell you education first, yadda yadda. Nope. Now, what I am wondering is, seems like you've got your feelings in order, and you've got everything you need to make your decision in your uh... poem. Now, which part are you torn about again?
The thing is, if you want a long term relationship, and if S doesn't want to go to a university nearby where you can meet him regularly, wouldn't it be easier if you just wait until you get to uni to meet guys? Maybe, there are better guys in uni than H or S?
mmm... love? love is a fish said Mr. Bungle ^^'
but u know... u are in the bottom of your heart wanna be with S and you wanna listen from others what you think is ok...
dont think only with your heart. calm down, look around and see where are you standing now.
good luck!
It sounds to me like you already know what you want.
It is always hard to let go of someone that you have been with for so long. But if your feelings for H have changed and faded then it wasn't meant to be. The best way to protect S is to make a complete and clean break from H. If you don't break away completely then H will be close enough to make things with you and S very difficult. Trying to be friends with ex-boyfriends almost never works out, so in my opinion I would just stay away from him. It is hard for both of you but it makes it easier for both of you to get over the relationship. Don't drag it out and don't let it stop you from still being happy!
I hope everything works out for you! Good Luck!
Then, what you should do is, take out an ad in school magazine, or hijack the school's PA system. Something that the whole school will be able to hear. Then announce to the whole school that you have nothing to do with H. You have been trying to avoid the emasculated bitch, and he sticks to you like a glue.
Let him have a taste of his own medicine, eh?
Hey girl ,look ,just send "H" to the damn hell ,kill him ,cut his head ,and...Stay with "S"he loves u right?He cares more about u than the crappy H !Why would u care for someone who doesnt care about u?Or send S too hell too...that would be easier..indeed.I have always wonder why girls r like that,suffer 4 someone who is not worth. ,well am a girl too ,but am too insensitive so I dont care that lot about boys and that crap about love,even though they are many handsome boys!I like boys but I prefer to Focus ON MY LIFE.U should focus ON YOUR LIFE ,why caring about 2 stupid kids?!Go to the college and find the sexy or nerdy boy of ur dreams!Ill do that too!Well am not saying go to gollege to look 4 boys ,go to college and study and maybe that supposely destiny will give u ur man.
gee...
Thats a cold reaction from metalhead here....
Well can't help yah with such things but i do wish you good luck and stuff like that...
GUTS!
If there is no trust in a relationship the relationship is already gone. You need to have trust but you can't be naive about it either. It's a very fine border but if 'H' has all these accusations about you then I think he doesn't trust you very much and it is in my opinion that you should just call it a quits.
However, I also don't recommend running headlong into 'S's arms. Take a break to collect your feelings, you're still young.
choose the guy who:
loves you
understand your strenghts
understand your weakness
faithful
and
makes you happy
:)
wow it`s really confusing...
You say your feeling fade becuz you hate him, hate him for not beliving in you? But if he believe in you, will you still feel that way... Fading of feeling can be due to time and many other things but love will not... You are happier with who? If a relationship is unhappy, i suggest you not to carry on with it cuz the longer it is the longer both of you suffer... You love both of them but cannt have both at the same time, others cannt choose for you, the only one can decide is yourself, no matter who you choose in the end, do not regret... Feeling will fade but love will not, the two of them will still be someone you love in your heart which will not be shaken no matter what you do... So seek your heart for the answer you want... Only you yourself know who you really want to be with
Human beings have the capacity to love more than one at a time. But you must also decide what kind of love it is and also, whether the other person is worth gifting your love to. If he or she doesn't appreciate it and would rather throw it away and trample on it, and the harrass you when you've found a little bit of happiness and try to take it away from you...well, I think you know what you should do in your own heart.
Very simple, do watever ur "Love" tells you to do. I've always said this: People changes all the time, whether they want or not!
You said that "H" has an other girlfriend, that he made you hate him? Do you really think he loves you?
You've found a new love, "S", if you really love "S" you should go for it, Do Not let your Past take away your Present!
You used to love "H" and "H" used to love you, but He's changed and your changed. Forget the one he Was and see the one he Is.
Maybe I'm wrong and yet... maybe I'm right... but that's your decission, that's Your Choise!
Good Luck~~ and remember that:
"The one worth your tears won't make you cry"
The way you put it sounded like you are threw with H even if you still have some feelings for him. You sound morre attracted to S and because he feels the same way about you i would chose S. And about H i thing jealousy kicked in.Besides the fact that H is feeling jealous that means he still cares for you but the fact that he keeps disturbing you even though you don't want that means that he:
1) doesn't want you to hang around another boy. He may be teritorial... he is a boy anyway.
2) he just want's to make things harder for you and S. Maybe then you will drift apart and he will have another chance.
There may be a nr 3 here but i have no clue what it is.
I am a boy so i don't know if i am wright or wrong about this situation but i hope i was of some use to you.
So do just as Kaisuke told you "do whatever ur "Love" tells you to do". This is a situation where you need to trust your hurt not your mind.
I guess now it's up to you. Good luck. I hope the choice you will make makes you happy.
hmm.. i say H is trying to get ur attention by dating another gal tt is something i think a guy would do, wouldn't they?(no offense to guys) well juz listen to wat ur heart says