You fell in love in this guy. And one day, he confessed that his parents decided
to transfer him to a place away from you. He told you that he don't want to go
to that place because he has you here with him. To make matters worse, he's
trying to push you away so that you will break up with him so that you will not
get hurt by the time he goes away. You made a decision. You broke up with him,
but you still loved him.
The next week, you've learned that his departure was postponed and both of you
end up in the same class but it WAS NOT LIKE BEFORE. How can you handle this
situation? The truth is, I'm in this state right now and I'm in the verge of
breaking down. I don't know what to do anymore! Sometimes I want to forget what
I felt for him just like what my closest friends told me to do. But, it was not
easy you know. So, you guys have any ideas? The last talk I have with him
happened a month ago, where I told him that I loved him so much...
ohhh my dear I`m sorry for what ur going through u_u things like this happen
ofthen
it remind me of something that happend to me long ago,in that time I made a
pssion for a guy..that I felt it was love
Are u sheur that is not the same thing for u too ? ..now ur sheur that u love
him and all but i don`t think that it was a good thing to say that to him
ok u have confess ur feelings..but in some cases guys think that `ok I can have
this girl when I want`
from what I read I think he did not take u in serious..u make ur self too
available to him
for now the best thing is to try to ignore him..believe me his pride will feel
hurt
then oberve his reation..
Right,so let me see,I never gone thru' anything like that before,and you may not
take me seriously,but well if you excuse,my friends counted me as a
counsellor,especially when it's about things like this.
So,you feel pain,my friend,talk to him just like you do to normal friends,you
may have broken up but no matter how you look at it,you know each other,just be
friends and don't think that he was your ex-boyfriend,it'll just make you feel
more painful than you are now.Don't run to him again after you broke up
with,this will make him think that you're easy,he will be playing you.He was the
one trying to make you break up with him and so you did but what matters now is
that you just act as though you've just know each other,don't care that you love
him or whatever.Treat the love like a crush,you might feel better.And you could
try dianas-san's way,ignore him...Either you acknowledge his existence or you
treat him like a part of the wall,it's your choice.
Hmm...like FutatsuNoNegai, Ive never gone through a situation like this before
either. My advice is to just act normal and talk to him. In a way, I would say
dont ignore him because its rude, but then again, dianas's advice to ignore him
makes sense as well. It would just depend on what kind of guy were talking about
here. If hes a player sort of guy where he likes to tease, then you should take
Dianas's advice. But if hes more...modest and the sort of guy that gets serious
about relationships, then you should play it cool and just talk to him. I see
soo many of my friends going through this...they go out with a guy, and when
they break up, they totally dont talk to each other or look at each other
anymore. to me....well that just feels kind of sad. Were they going out with the
guy just to hook up? I mean, i think relationships are all about friendships as
well. First, I think you need to tell him how you feel. If he doesnt feel the
same way about you...T-T Im sowwy, but you cant really do anything about it. I
would just be friends at that point, because you can never have too many good
friends. and plus, im sure you guys know each other pretty well. There are
people that have very close friends of the opposite gender (and then....of
course theres the friends with benefits thing that I dont approve much
of)
You fell in love in this guy. And one day, he confessed that his parents decided to transfer him to a place away from you. He told you that he don't want to go to that place because he has you here with him. To make matters worse, he's trying to push you away so that you will break up with him so that you will not get hurt by the time he goes away. You made a decision. You broke up with him, but you still loved him.
The next week, you've learned that his departure was postponed and both of you end up in the same class but it WAS NOT LIKE BEFORE. How can you handle this situation? The truth is, I'm in this state right now and I'm in the verge of breaking down. I don't know what to do anymore! Sometimes I want to forget what I felt for him just like what my closest friends told me to do. But, it was not easy you know. So, you guys have any ideas? The last talk I have with him happened a month ago, where I told him that I loved him so much...
ohhh my dear I`m sorry for what ur going through u_u things like this happen ofthen
it remind me of something that happend to me long ago,in that time I made a pssion for a guy..that I felt it was love
Are u sheur that is not the same thing for u too ? ..now ur sheur that u love him and all but i don`t think that it was a good thing to say that to him
ok u have confess ur feelings..but in some cases guys think that `ok I can have this girl when I want`
from what I read I think he did not take u in serious..u make ur self too available to him
for now the best thing is to try to ignore him..believe me his pride will feel hurt
then oberve his reation..
Right,so let me see,I never gone thru' anything like that before,and you may not take me seriously,but well if you excuse,my friends counted me as a counsellor,especially when it's about things like this.
So,you feel pain,my friend,talk to him just like you do to normal friends,you may have broken up but no matter how you look at it,you know each other,just be friends and don't think that he was your ex-boyfriend,it'll just make you feel more painful than you are now.Don't run to him again after you broke up with,this will make him think that you're easy,he will be playing you.He was the one trying to make you break up with him and so you did but what matters now is that you just act as though you've just know each other,don't care that you love him or whatever.Treat the love like a crush,you might feel better.And you could try dianas-san's way,ignore him...Either you acknowledge his existence or you treat him like a part of the wall,it's your choice.
Hmm...like FutatsuNoNegai, Ive never gone through a situation like this before either. My advice is to just act normal and talk to him. In a way, I would say dont ignore him because its rude, but then again, dianas's advice to ignore him makes sense as well. It would just depend on what kind of guy were talking about here. If hes a player sort of guy where he likes to tease, then you should take Dianas's advice. But if hes more...modest and the sort of guy that gets serious about relationships, then you should play it cool and just talk to him. I see soo many of my friends going through this...they go out with a guy, and when they break up, they totally dont talk to each other or look at each other anymore. to me....well that just feels kind of sad. Were they going out with the guy just to hook up? I mean, i think relationships are all about friendships as well. First, I think you need to tell him how you feel. If he doesnt feel the same way about you...T-T Im sowwy, but you cant really do anything about it. I would just be friends at that point, because you can never have too many good friends. and plus, im sure you guys know each other pretty well. There are people that have very close friends of the opposite gender (and then....of course theres the friends with benefits thing that I dont approve much of)
Good Luck!