Well i know some girl through MSN and after our first chat, we've been chatting
everyday!
And now ive planned a meeting each other in real life...
She doesnt feel so sure about cause she thinks it might ruin our daily
chats...
but i'm sure it wont change anything....
What do you guys think about it?
ok has she sent u a photo?
its ok ,but u should know her more ,but iits fun to meet someone that u have
never met before and that u have talk to her
and it wont change ,I have seen many cases of that and, one of them is that the
2 kids met and then they got in love.they went boyfrind and girlfriend unluckily
the boy was trash.....
it WIlL change the conversations, probably for the better, probably for the
worse, no one can tell. If she's hot, the chat might be a bit... different in a
sense that you're now attracted to her, etc. If she's not, well... you do
realise, conversations would probably go down the tube? well, not all at once,
slowly, bit by bit.
It's up to you. But then again, it IS a conversation, so, you have to think
about her as well...
wish this kind of thing happen to me :P....
anyway if u feel that u wan to know her more and has confidence on it go a
head...!
don u think chatting with her on MSN and not know her personaly feel abit
missing out there?
All real life meetups with people are exciting and nerve-wracking all at once.
But, watch out! If she says she's not too sure about it, DO NOT force her into
meeting you. It's always pretty awkward and it'll be doubly as worse if you have
'forced' her to see you.
Give it some time and tell her if she does want to meet up, to bring a friend.
It's safer for both of you.
well you are lucky, girls i have met on msm and that want to know me usually are
too far away to meet each other :S if you want to give the next step on the
relashionship, you have to met her, if not, you will be friends for a while,
then you will stop talking eventually...
Funny, same thing happened to me... I met this guy in a random mass-conversation
on msn and we continued to chat daily. I don't know what happened, but we are
now attached and addicted to each other *-*
Please don't rush things with this meeting and all that. Give it all the time,
don't push yourself too much or the girl, no forcing or it will just be
unnatural and uncomfort. Think about it hard too, do what your heart desires! Do
you really want to see her? Does she want to see you? Have you talked by
mic/phone, seen pictures? Also, if she lives faaaaaaaaar away and you're young,
do not go without parents permission, it sucks.
I know this by experience btw... Met my boyfriend by net, it took maybe 7 months
before we decided to meet for real. It was totally worth all the
complications... Give this some time, plan it well and talk to that girl of
yours! Be careful and take care ;3
Meeting someone face to face is much better than only knowing them via IM or
chat rooms. Where your relationship moves after meeting is up to both of you. I
would suggest exchanging pictures if you are going to meet so that you will
recognize each other. Also make the meeting in an easily recognized public place
with lots of people around since this is intrinsically safer for both of you.
Quote by elaeyeAll real life meetups with
people are exciting and nerve-wracking all at once. But, watch out! If she says
she's not too sure about it, DO NOT force her into meeting you. It's always
pretty awkward and it'll be doubly as worse if you have 'forced' her to see you.
Give it some time and tell her if she does want to meet up, to bring a friend.
It's safer for both of you.
Exactly! Respect her feelings, and if/when she is sure she wants to meet up,
suggest you both bring an adult with you, like a close parent/guardian (who has
a cell phone, so there's quick communication between you and the adult and
transportation services, or, in case it turns dangerous, law enforcement
services) etc.; that way, there's less of a chance of danger.
Take care, and be safe!
~"TreaGirl".
Hey guys!
Well i know some girl through MSN and after our first chat, we've been chatting everyday!
And now ive planned a meeting each other in real life...
She doesnt feel so sure about cause she thinks it might ruin our daily chats...
but i'm sure it wont change anything....
What do you guys think about it?
ok has she sent u a photo?
its ok ,but u should know her more ,but iits fun to meet someone that u have never met before and that u have talk to her
and it wont change ,I have seen many cases of that and, one of them is that the 2 kids met and then they got in love.they went boyfrind and girlfriend unluckily the boy was trash.....
......well I think it's okay but don't forget to take her feelings into consideration too..... you said she was unsure, right?
it WIlL change the conversations, probably for the better, probably for the worse, no one can tell. If she's hot, the chat might be a bit... different in a sense that you're now attracted to her, etc. If she's not, well... you do realise, conversations would probably go down the tube? well, not all at once, slowly, bit by bit.
It's up to you. But then again, it IS a conversation, so, you have to think about her as well...
Its a risk, but it could pay off. A lot of things in life are like gambling.
wish this kind of thing happen to me :P....
anyway if u feel that u wan to know her more and has confidence on it go a head...!
don u think chatting with her on MSN and not know her personaly feel abit missing out there?
All real life meetups with people are exciting and nerve-wracking all at once. But, watch out! If she says she's not too sure about it, DO NOT force her into meeting you. It's always pretty awkward and it'll be doubly as worse if you have 'forced' her to see you.
Give it some time and tell her if she does want to meet up, to bring a friend. It's safer for both of you.
well you are lucky, girls i have met on msm and that want to know me usually are too far away to meet each other :S if you want to give the next step on the relashionship, you have to met her, if not, you will be friends for a while, then you will stop talking eventually...
Funny, same thing happened to me... I met this guy in a random mass-conversation on msn and we continued to chat daily. I don't know what happened, but we are now attached and addicted to each other *-*
Please don't rush things with this meeting and all that. Give it all the time, don't push yourself too much or the girl, no forcing or it will just be unnatural and uncomfort. Think about it hard too, do what your heart desires! Do you really want to see her? Does she want to see you? Have you talked by mic/phone, seen pictures? Also, if she lives faaaaaaaaar away and you're young, do not go without parents permission, it sucks.
I know this by experience btw... Met my boyfriend by net, it took maybe 7 months before we decided to meet for real. It was totally worth all the complications... Give this some time, plan it well and talk to that girl of yours! Be careful and take care ;3
Meeting someone face to face is much better than only knowing them via IM or chat rooms. Where your relationship moves after meeting is up to both of you. I would suggest exchanging pictures if you are going to meet so that you will recognize each other. Also make the meeting in an easily recognized public place with lots of people around since this is intrinsically safer for both of you.
Exactly! Respect her feelings, and if/when she is sure she wants to meet up, suggest you both bring an adult with you, like a close parent/guardian (who has a cell phone, so there's quick communication between you and the adult and transportation services, or, in case it turns dangerous, law enforcement services) etc.; that way, there's less of a chance of danger.
Take care, and be safe!
~"TreaGirl".