My dad had passed away last week. left me without saying anythin...
I dont cry much coz I know its his time now, he has been at the hospital since
two months ago. but I cant saw his last face. its the thing I very regret now.
I know that everyone must has someting precious, or maybe you cant see it right
now. Try to feel it & treasure it or you may
regret it someday.
Oh~ I wonder why he was sick......sadly, me or my family wouldn't really turns
our heads if my dad died (he was a bit of a psycho). But I'd really care if my
mom died. She's the one who was able to pull us away from my dad and we're
living a good life thanks to her. Even if we don't have any money, life is still
good.
I'm sorry to hear about that. I hope that he'll see you in a dream or something
so that you can see his face once more. May the passing of time dull your
pain...
Thanx guys! kasshiopea, I feel very sorry to you.
but thanx god, you can live a better life now.
I've nothing to say anymore but just feel grateful to all of you. thanx.
i'm sorry to hear that, but life has to go on, and living things day on day,
just make sure you choice the right things, and may it be a loved one or a
person whose close to you, watch you from heaven, things happens, somtimes it's
just like that, i'm not saying you can't be sad, cause i f that happened to me,
i would feel really upset too..! just try to perk yourself up a little and do
your best for that loved one..! ^^ hope you feeling a little better now..!
I'm so sorry to hear that, my friend.
I very well understand what you feel right now and what you mean. I also
regretted not to be there when my grandfather died. I was younger back then and
I was shocked so much when we got back from holiday and I saw him so sick and
tired. He's been in the hospital only one week before he died from cancer. I
went visiting him a couple of times. One day, the hospital called to say they
were losing him and that we had to come quickly if we wanted to see him one last
time alive. I didn't dare going, not wanting to see him the moment he died.
Afterwards, I regretted somehow that I wasn't there by his side to tell him I
loved him and that I would always be proud to be his grandson. I've been so sad
for a long time, untill I became more mature and realized that I should think of
all the good moments we had together and that I was there with him that day, in
his mind and heart, and that he knew that I always loved him.
Well, I'm sorry for writing all of this down. I know it's not much of a help to
you, but it somehow reliefed me.
Keep the memory of your father alive inside of you and know he has always known
that you loved him very much. I hope your pain will be softened soon and once
again, sorry for your loss.
I'm sorry for you lost and around the hoilday season. believe me it's hurts but
you always count on your family and friends for support. i can't speak for
everyone here but you can talk to me if you help i'm sure that your father is
proud of you for being so tough in this tough hour. i wish you the best in the
future and pl3ease take care of yourself. (shake hands)
I'm sorry for your loss. You and i are both the same. I lost my dad to a few
years ago but in my case it was a sudden. I know the pain you are going through
now and my advice for you is this:
Be strong. If not for you then at least for your mother and what's left for
your family. Offer them a shoulder to cry on and encourage them from now on but
don't hold all in yourself and don't ever supress your feelings. When my father
died even though i was deeply hurt i couldn't shed even one tear and now i
regret that. Treasure your family and friends like you would treasure life and
try to make beautifull memories with them.What doesn't kill you will only make
you stronger. I give you my regards and i hope you will get through this fine.
If you need any advice i'll support you just contact me. I'll be here waiting...
I don't think you should have any regrets. Your father most likly wouldn't want
you to. He wouldn't want you to be sad. You have the memories of him healthy and
happy and doing things with you, and sometimes it makes it easier to think about
those thoughts and share them with people than to remember the sad things. It's
all going to be ok, and you aren't ever really seperated from someone as long as
you remember some small part of them.
Sorry about that. Yeah---death isn't necessarily the way it may play out in a
drama, in which the people dying lie in bed, their family all around them as
they say their last words, smile and close their eyes. My grandpa certainly
didn't die that way.
well i always say never take anything for granted cuz when it is gone you would
be filled with remorse and regret...
i hope your fathr rests in peace and that you would see him in heaven...
take care of yourself and make your father proud ...i am sure he is watching
over you...
my grandpa died out of the blue...but eh that's a different case since i did not
care...sorry and take care...
merged: 12-23-2006 ~ 10:27pm
ohh and always treasure the moments you spent with him as dearest moments in
life and that no one can promise you forever......a special person told me that
once...
I am so sorry to hear about that.You know,everyone has that kind of time,but the
matter is not all of them can stand up after it.You can't do anything about
thing that has passed away.Your dad will be happy if he knows that you are that
strong and live happily.May he rest in peace.
I don't really have a dad.He is a man whom I call 'dad' everyday but he is a
stranger to me.Oh,forget about it.
Anyway,don't think so much about the past.Enjoy the moment you have with others
so that you will never have to regret again.
AW...THATS SO SAD.........okie...yea u probably knew that...iono wat to
say....gosh...jux move on wid life, at least ur not so upset, cuz i knoe sum ppl
these days( stares at them >.>)get to caught up wid that and jux go
emo....but aniwaise happie new years eve(haha^^' a little to random^^)
Id probly not even shed a tear. My parents are dear, but Im the type of person
that through lots of hardship in my life, has hardened himself to all things
around him. If something happens, I feel nothing. Its cool in a way, in that I
never feel sad or whatever, but it also sucks in that ppl stay away from me cos
im as interesting as a rock
Sorry about your dad. I have no idea how you must be feeling, but I think you
should remember him as he was, not his last face, but all the times he was with
you and you walked together.When you were happy.I think this is the best legacy
he could give to you. Tresure these memories. Because they are all yours and
nobody can take from you.
My dad had passed away last week. left me without saying anythin...
I dont cry much coz I know its his time now, he has been at the hospital since two months ago. but I cant saw his last face. its the thing I very regret now.
I know that everyone must has someting precious, or maybe you cant see it right now. Try to feel it & treasure it or you may regret it someday.
Dun need to regret, his soul will be with you and his image will always be in your heart... You are strong and he will definitely be happy abt this...
Oh~ I wonder why he was sick......sadly, me or my family wouldn't really turns our heads if my dad died (he was a bit of a psycho). But I'd really care if my mom died. She's the one who was able to pull us away from my dad and we're living a good life thanks to her. Even if we don't have any money, life is still good.
I'm sorry to hear about that. I hope that he'll see you in a dream or something so that you can see his face once more. May the passing of time dull your pain...
Thanx guys!
kasshiopea, I feel very sorry to you. but thanx god, you can live a better life now.
I've nothing to say anymore but just feel grateful to all of you. thanx.
i'm sorry to hear that, but life has to go on, and living things day on day, just make sure you choice the right things, and may it be a loved one or a person whose close to you, watch you from heaven, things happens, somtimes it's just like that, i'm not saying you can't be sad, cause i f that happened to me, i would feel really upset too..! just try to perk yourself up a little and do your best for that loved one..! ^^ hope you feeling a little better now..!
I'm so sorry to hear about your loss, but i know your dad would be proud with how strong a person you are. *hugs*
I'm so sorry to hear that, my friend.
I very well understand what you feel right now and what you mean. I also regretted not to be there when my grandfather died. I was younger back then and I was shocked so much when we got back from holiday and I saw him so sick and tired. He's been in the hospital only one week before he died from cancer. I went visiting him a couple of times. One day, the hospital called to say they were losing him and that we had to come quickly if we wanted to see him one last time alive. I didn't dare going, not wanting to see him the moment he died.
Afterwards, I regretted somehow that I wasn't there by his side to tell him I loved him and that I would always be proud to be his grandson. I've been so sad for a long time, untill I became more mature and realized that I should think of all the good moments we had together and that I was there with him that day, in his mind and heart, and that he knew that I always loved him.
Well, I'm sorry for writing all of this down. I know it's not much of a help to you, but it somehow reliefed me.
Keep the memory of your father alive inside of you and know he has always known that you loved him very much. I hope your pain will be softened soon and once again, sorry for your loss.
I'm sorry for you lost and around the hoilday season. believe me it's hurts but you always count on your family and friends for support. i can't speak for everyone here but you can talk to me if you help i'm sure that your father is proud of you for being so tough in this tough hour. i wish you the best in the future and pl3ease take care of yourself. (shake hands)
I'm sorry for your loss. You and i are both the same. I lost my dad to a few years ago but in my case it was a sudden. I know the pain you are going through now and my advice for you is this:
Be strong. If not for you then at least for your mother and what's left for your family. Offer them a shoulder to cry on and encourage them from now on but don't hold all in yourself and don't ever supress your feelings. When my father died even though i was deeply hurt i couldn't shed even one tear and now i regret that. Treasure your family and friends like you would treasure life and try to make beautifull memories with them.What doesn't kill you will only make you stronger. I give you my regards and i hope you will get through this fine.
If you need any advice i'll support you just contact me. I'll be here waiting...
*hugs tight*
I don't think you should have any regrets. Your father most likly wouldn't want you to. He wouldn't want you to be sad. You have the memories of him healthy and happy and doing things with you, and sometimes it makes it easier to think about those thoughts and share them with people than to remember the sad things. It's all going to be ok, and you aren't ever really seperated from someone as long as you remember some small part of them.
Sorry about that. Yeah---death isn't necessarily the way it may play out in a drama, in which the people dying lie in bed, their family all around them as they say their last words, smile and close their eyes. My grandpa certainly didn't die that way.
well i always say never take anything for granted cuz when it is gone you would be filled with remorse and regret...
i hope your fathr rests in peace and that you would see him in heaven...
take care of yourself and make your father proud ...i am sure he is watching over you...
my grandpa died out of the blue...but eh that's a different case since i did not care...sorry and take care...
merged: 12-23-2006 ~ 10:27pm
ohh and always treasure the moments you spent with him as dearest moments in life and that no one can promise you forever......a special person told me that once...
I am so sorry to hear about that.You know,everyone has that kind of time,but the matter is not all of them can stand up after it.You can't do anything about thing that has passed away.Your dad will be happy if he knows that you are that strong and live happily.May he rest in peace.
I don't really have a dad.He is a man whom I call 'dad' everyday but he is a stranger to me.Oh,forget about it.
Anyway,don't think so much about the past.Enjoy the moment you have with others so that you will never have to regret again.
AW...THATS SO SAD.........okie...yea u probably knew that...iono wat to say....gosh...jux move on wid life, at least ur not so upset, cuz i knoe sum ppl these days( stares at them >.>)get to caught up wid that and jux go emo....but aniwaise happie new years eve(haha^^' a little to random^^)
Id probly not even shed a tear. My parents are dear, but Im the type of person that through lots of hardship in my life, has hardened himself to all things around him. If something happens, I feel nothing. Its cool in a way, in that I never feel sad or whatever, but it also sucks in that ppl stay away from me cos im as interesting as a rock
Sorry about your dad. I have no idea how you must be feeling, but I think you should remember him as he was, not his last face, but all the times he was with you and you walked together.When you were happy.I think this is the best legacy he could give to you. Tresure these memories. Because they are all yours and nobody can take from you.