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family or love life first?

Love, Friends & Family

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to all of you guyz?
if there is this situation where in you get to choose :
whether to spend the entire day with your family?
or
to spend the entire day with your girl/boyfriends?
i need everyones opinion thnx ^_^'

well i would chose both half day for lovelife half day for family

Well, you don't get to choose your family, but you get to choose who you love, sortof. And you like your love better then your family, so of course I would choose my girlfriend

well i think is family because family can help u with ur own personnal thoughts and problems so talk to ur family is the best ;)

Family, it doesn't matter about the situation. If something involves your family and someone else, it's always Family First.

dont know since i dont have a love life. assuming i did then most likely family would come first.

Quote by TwilightObsessionsWell, you don't get to choose your family, but you get to choose who you love, sortof. And you like your love better then your family, so of course I would choose my girlfriend


Just what I wanted to answer. Except that I'd choose my boyfriend (not girlfriend =P).

don't really now but it depend on the situation I guess. you can't always says that you'll one side only. many things put into consideration.

Choose which one is more dire. Who do you see less of and need some quality time with?

Well its hard, but i would spend what time i have with my girlfriend. OFC if i could i would bring my girlfriend and we could all go out somewhere. I see my girlfriend at school (free lessons) and some weekends, so if something was to happen to one of my parents/family i would go with my family and spend what time i have with them. Not like they would take me anywhere anyways, ones at work and other one is on phone :o average day in my house

If you see my point :O

You're banned, but I'll post anyway.

I'd rather spend the day with a girlfriend (I say "a" because I'm single -_-).
And that's because I believe they can understand you far more than your family can.
Also you can give and receive affection in ways that you can never with your family. (not legally anyway XD)

But you never know, your girlfriend/boyfriend might become family one day and you won't have to make a choice ^_^.

Love comes first, because, if your lucky, your love will be your family. Besides, your family can be annoying, spend as much time in the favored company as possible. If you like your family more than your boy/girlfriend then you shouldn't be together, after all, if you prefer family over love...you either need to be married or your going to be single...soon.

Well i have my own family
So i'm with both at same time

it depends of the day.

When it comes down to it, family is first unless the relationship with the "girlfriend/boyfriend" is deeper than it seems............

Definently with the love interest, my family and I don't share alot of the same interests.

Right now, I have to say MY Family, because it's ALWAYS fun being around them.

it's my POLICY to spend time with my gf first, cause' i stay too long at home that my parents are pushing me to mix with friends X-P but, though, i'll come back home at the right time whenever ordered to do so ;)

Depends on mah c2axon.
If I spent my time with my BF last time, I'll spend it with my family for now. If I spent my time with my family the last time, I'll spend this time with my BF.

It's kinda boring to see the same face many times...
^/__\^

Depends on the occasion :) My family is really important to me, I'll make sure I will spend some good quality time with them. I really don't like my love life interfere my family life. It's half and half for me. Besides my boyfriend does have family too, what about them? For me each has it's own place and I won't prioritize it.

seriously, even if i say family, sometimes, you unconciously choose your love one over your relatives, but then again, time may come that you would sacrifice your love one for your family, (But still, i choose my family!)

I rarely choose to spend time with my family these days, mainly because I feel that it's just a waste of time because everything continues along as if I wasn't there, at least my friends pay me some attention.

Family first! They are the closest to you!

If I had already made plans with both, and forgot. I'd invite my boyfriend to come with me to my family thing. ^_^ Then I get both!

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