can anyone teach me how to close with a certain girl?
and not to mess things up?
cause when ever i am near her or when ever we are talking...
i seems to act a li'l foolish and clumsy
...
Dude it always different with each person
start speaking with her normaly and try to start a frienship with her after
that the time will tell just don't try to rush thing up
for now that is the best advise i can give you
You know, everyone makes mistakes. Give the girl sometime, and then rebuild the
friendship with a even more concrete foundation. Remember that Love is
friendship set on fire.
It's normal to act foolish and clumsy. Everyone goes though that awkardness.
You'll get better at it with experience. I know it's hard, but try to relax when
you are around her. Don't think about having to make an impression on her.
Yup i agree what melodyfpf says
You have to treat her as a friend and then understand each other better
If she is in a CCA (boy and girl, not like guides), maybe u can join the cca and
try to understand her like too
And if things go well you can ask her for her phone no. or e-mail
But make sure u don't say anything wrong Think
before answer
Because girls are veri emotional
Good luck to you
yeah.... its hard to talk to girls u like rather than ones u dont. i guess its
because we tend to be more cautious with what we do and say i know thats the
case for me so it makes it harder to start conversations with her. so i guess
the trick is to relax more and dont try to think up of scenarios of how it
should go because things barely end up that way so let the conversation flow and
like melodyfpf and gallopia try to be her friend first rather than going
straight to the relationship because it makes things less complicated. so i hope
i was helpful. ^^
how you're acting is called Flustered, and it is natural for people to act when
they really like someone and are not very confident. Just try and beat the goofy
act and just don't say anything stupid to her to make her scared of you ^__^
Other than that I would suggest that you just continue talking to her and
eventually you will become more confident talking to her and not looking like an
idiot. It may sound hard, but it is worth it in the end!
Look, life isn't like it is in the movies. Movies are always someone else's
fantasies that are put up on a big screen so we can watch them too (Unless of
course they're based on a true story ").
You don't ask someone to be your girl/boyfriend. It's not a black and white
thing. It's a transition. If you want to get closer to someone you like, or
anyone for that matter, become friends. Share your thoughts, ideas, what makes
you tick, likes and dislikes. This has been said, but it's all a matter of
understanding. But just some advice from me to you; Do NOT push anything. If you
want to be in any sort of special relationship with this person, you have to be
sure that they WANT it too. You're not going to be the only one calling the
shots.
hehe well first look at your own reaction, some girls find the 'clumsy-foolish'
response adorable, since they know you're making an effort to talk to
them.
The best advice i could really give is to take things one step at a time, and
not to let your mind get focused on a future or past event which you perceived
as good or bad relating to this sort of thing, as focusing on the present now is
a certainty to help someone calm themselves.
The simplest thing, though? Sharing yourself. Girls love talking, well, most of
them, and there's an infinite set of things to talk about, really. And try to
keep the conversation balanced between a focus on one person, this is what i
mean by sharing yourself, not just your appearance with another but what's going
on inside of you as well.
Hope my opinion was of some help,
Keep happy and good luck!
you can give signs... say something sweet but dont make it so direct like
"i love you" a good sign is look into her eye and then when she looks,
smile and look away. im a girl and if a guy did that i would think he likes me.
also you could tell her some compliments about herself. ... those 2 things will
definately help u. and yeah.. i guess develop a friendship first. hope that
helped. good luck.
Just calm down
Talk with her kindly and sweet
But only treat her like this, one way special
Try to develop a friendship
Good luck hope you and the girl end up together
can anyone teach me how to close with a certain girl?
and not to mess things up?
cause when ever i am near her or when ever we are talking...
i seems to act a li'l foolish and clumsy
...
Dude it always different with each person
start speaking with her normaly and try to start a frienship with her after that the time will tell just don't try to rush thing up
for now that is the best advise i can give you
I'm in the same boat as lostlove, because of that I've made mistakes and all I can say is that you should always be sensitive to their feelings.
You know, everyone makes mistakes. Give the girl sometime, and then rebuild the friendship with a even more concrete foundation. Remember that Love is friendship set on fire.
It's normal to act foolish and clumsy. Everyone goes though that awkardness. You'll get better at it with experience. I know it's hard, but try to relax when you are around her. Don't think about having to make an impression on her.
it is normal to do tt but wat i think is better to start off as a friend, and make her feel comfortable
Yup i agree what melodyfpf says
Think
before answer 
You have to treat her as a friend and then understand each other better
If she is in a CCA (boy and girl, not like guides), maybe u can join the cca and try to understand her like too
And if things go well you can ask her for her phone no. or e-mail
But make sure u don't say anything wrong
Because girls are veri emotional
Good luck to you
hayz,.. hope it works,..
i will be back here in a while to tell you the results
thnx guyz
yeah.... its hard to talk to girls u like rather than ones u dont. i guess its because we tend to be more cautious with what we do and say i know thats the case for me so it makes it harder to start conversations with her. so i guess the trick is to relax more and dont try to think up of scenarios of how it should go because things barely end up that way so let the conversation flow and like melodyfpf and gallopia try to be her friend first rather than going straight to the relationship because it makes things less complicated. so i hope i was helpful. ^^
how you're acting is called Flustered, and it is natural for people to act when they really like someone and are not very confident. Just try and beat the goofy act and just don't say anything stupid to her to make her scared of you ^__^
Other than that I would suggest that you just continue talking to her and eventually you will become more confident talking to her and not looking like an idiot. It may sound hard, but it is worth it in the end!
~Dr. Wilson~
Look, life isn't like it is in the movies. Movies are always someone else's fantasies that are put up on a big screen so we can watch them too (Unless of course they're based on a true story
").
You don't ask someone to be your girl/boyfriend. It's not a black and white
thing. It's a transition. If you want to get closer to someone you like, or
anyone for that matter, become friends. Share your thoughts, ideas, what makes
you tick, likes and dislikes. This has been said, but it's all a matter of
understanding. But just some advice from me to you; Do NOT push anything. If you
want to be in any sort of special relationship with this person, you have to be
sure that they WANT it too. You're not going to be the only one calling the
shots.
Best of Luck!
hehe well first look at your own reaction, some girls find the 'clumsy-foolish' response adorable, since they know you're making an effort to talk to them.
The best advice i could really give is to take things one step at a time, and not to let your mind get focused on a future or past event which you perceived as good or bad relating to this sort of thing, as focusing on the present now is a certainty to help someone calm themselves.
The simplest thing, though? Sharing yourself. Girls love talking, well, most of them, and there's an infinite set of things to talk about, really. And try to keep the conversation balanced between a focus on one person, this is what i mean by sharing yourself, not just your appearance with another but what's going on inside of you as well.
Hope my opinion was of some help,
Keep happy and good luck!
Yeah, start with step one.
Oh LostLove... Keep us all in suspence, you went and got banned :l
Anyways good luck with her,
Dont try to impress her be yourself
you can give signs... say something sweet but dont make it so direct like "i love you" a good sign is look into her eye and then when she looks, smile and look away. im a girl and if a guy did that i would think he likes me. also you could tell her some compliments about herself. ... those 2 things will definately help u. and yeah.. i guess develop a friendship first. hope that helped. good luck.
^^ Hehe a girl i know just came out with it... "I LOVE YOU" ... hehe anyways i guess just give hints and move slowely :O
Just calm down
Talk with her kindly and sweet
But only treat her like this, one way special
Try to develop a friendship
Good luck hope you and the girl end up together