Yeah, this is a hard one... our emotions.
I am very interested how others feel this...
I mean the emotion term ''jealousy''
- When You fall in love and you are together with the other person... Are you
''Jealous'' about your partners past rlationships?
- I mean that are you questioning yourself if You are better or not from the
ones who were before you?
- or maybe are you Jealous about the thing theu experienced before she/he meet
You?
- is this normal? how to fight it? any suggestions or conclusive
opinions?
The only thing I do to overcome jealousy is best the one before me. Giving your
partner something he/she hasn't experienced from the ones before will make you
stand-out from the past ones.
I think sometimes, i will think about the things that you wrote.
Is this normal? yes, in certain degree.
How to fight it? simple, don't think about it. you can only do what you can
sometimes it's not what you expected but that is yourself, life with it because
even if you lack in something you are more other part.
Jealousy is one of the worst feelings you can come up with. My ex screwed up our
relationship because he was extremely jealous all the time; we'd just stay put,
and then at some point he'd go all like, 'OK, admit it, there's someone in your
life, isn't there?'. So try to avoid jealousy at all costs. Don't think about
the things that cause it; just let them go. Like Toya999 said, the past is all
history, so live the present and look forward to the future. But most of all,
don't make up false problems if you don't have any. And if you can't help it and
think of it regardless, then by all means, don't let the other notice, because
then he'll most likely freak out and drift away from you.
Yeah, this is a hard one... our emotions.
I am very interested how others feel this...
I mean the emotion term ''jealousy''
- When You fall in love and you are together with the other person... Are you ''Jealous'' about your partners past rlationships?
- I mean that are you questioning yourself if You are better or not from the ones who were before you?
- or maybe are you Jealous about the thing theu experienced before she/he meet You?
- is this normal? how to fight it? any suggestions or conclusive opinions?
I am waiting for your opinions...
The only thing I do to overcome jealousy is best the one before me. Giving your partner something he/she hasn't experienced from the ones before will make you stand-out from the past ones.
"Love is not jealous."--1 Corinthians 13:4
I think sometimes, i will think about the things that you wrote.
Is this normal? yes, in certain degree.
How to fight it? simple, don't think about it. you can only do what you can sometimes it's not what you expected but that is yourself, life with it because even if you lack in something you are more other part.
the past is all history...so why not just live the present and look forward to the future.
Jealousy is one of the worst feelings you can come up with. My ex screwed up our relationship because he was extremely jealous all the time; we'd just stay put, and then at some point he'd go all like, 'OK, admit it, there's someone in your life, isn't there?'. So try to avoid jealousy at all costs. Don't think about the things that cause it; just let them go. Like Toya999 said, the past is all history, so live the present and look forward to the future. But most of all, don't make up false problems if you don't have any. And if you can't help it and think of it regardless, then by all means, don't let the other notice, because then he'll most likely freak out and drift away from you.
it's normal be jeaulous at first
But it's bad
You have to trust in your partner
Love it's about trust
So try not to be jealous
I second that ^^
everything that is "pathological" cannot be good, cause it makes you fall into extremes
this may also effect at your mind creating ilusions that are not true...
I don't think it's as much jealousy as it is of the battle between the havs and the have-nots.