Most people believe that young love should stay innocent. But recent generations
have decided this shouldn't be, and decided to take it a bit far. Now, most
adults don't see this as correct, thus creating a more want, or apparent the
youth, need, to do so. Reverse psychology is creating a vacuum where the younger
people do things considered to be inappropriate for their age, but the more its
frowned upon the more they want to do it, and this also creates peer pressure
that makes others do things. Now, as for the things, use your imagination, but
the type I'm talking about pertains to relationships...between the opposite
sex.
Now to the part of which I decided to post this. Sure, I think that my opinion
is very important, but the opinion of others is something good to hear. So, if
you could, please give your opinions on this.
-death
How the hell is this a controversial subject? The definition of controversial is
something that's considered taboo and should not be discussed openly/freely.
Such as the cloning of a human being. Another thing... be more blunt. Don't go
around the point that you're asking.
Anyway I didn't come here to rant, so I'll continue. I think the current
generation's family/social values have somewhat degraded a little over the years
when compared to the previous ones. There was a time when it was offensive for a
woman to show any bare skin (except for her face) in public, even in summer.
Nowadays no one really even gives a crap about this.
Honestly, times have changed dramatically. Let the young ones be lil' rabbits
but just as long as they know the consequences if something does go wrong.
I really didn't mean to go around the point, I was trying to provide points so
that it could be understood better. I think it's a controversial subject because
I don't hear much talking about it, and when I do, it ends rather quickly. And
some of the things I talk about are, in a way, taboo. 14 and 15 year olds having
sex is taboo, no? Just thinking...maybe I should stop doing that. And the times
have changed to the point that the "lil' rabbits" either don't know
the consequences or don't give a damn about them. It's quite depressing...
-death
Yeah I get your point there. especially in the third world country like mine.
sex subject si very taboo to talk about. if you go around talk about with people
they looked at you afraid or closed themself. I've heard myfriend even got
scolded just asking it to her parents.
For the topic itself I don't think it's right but we can't force ourway to the
young one to the least we could do is teach them the responsibility and control
them when their at home. It's sometimes very dependent of their friends and
their personality too.
yue_hikaru is rigth, you can't force a person. Even more, if you force him/her
to not to do it, he or she WILL SURELLY DO IT. Murphy's Law.
The best thing you can do is give a good advice, or had given a good education
if you're a parent, and hope.
In my humble opinion, it's inapropiate because it'll GET A PERSON INTO TROUBLE.
Why?
Because (you're not going to like it) you're just 15. I'm 33, and I have know
people in their 40's, 50's and 60's having real biiig trouble in this matter.
Doing veeeeery stupid things despite their age.
The problem is that you're playing with chances. Chances of not doing it with
the wrong person (believe me, there ARE wrong people to do this with), chances
of not catching AIDS, chances of not getting or get someone pregnat, cahnces of
not being difamed, and a long etc.
A 15 years old (you won't like it either) is still very fragile at
life.
If you're wise, you won't hurry to spoil your life. It'll come the rigth time
and person. The problem is discerning it. So, don't HURRY.
I will disagree with the comment on the degradation of values (as it pertains to
this discussion) as it is really more of a degradation of responsibility. People
these days want all the freedoms but they do not want to take the responsibility
for their actions associated with those freedoms. Using your example of the age
of first times being younger for many people. The blame is constantly pushed
towards one or the other partners or societies slowly degrading values. I got
news for you. That is the biggest bunch of BS I have ever heard. It always takes
two to tango (assuming free choice) and each individual has to make that choice
by themselves regardless of what society's values are or whether or not the
other individual is pressuring. As for the understanding of the consequences of
your actions well if you were not raised to realize that every action you take
has possible consequences (be they good or bad) then you need to look back at
your parents and ask why didn't you teach me that and if you are a parent I
suggest you go sit down with your child and have a good conversation about
actions and consequences. I also suggest you do as or before puberty hits with
respect to the sexuality questions. It really irritates me to have people cop
out by blaming anyone but themselves for their own screwups.
Most people believe that young love should stay innocent. But recent generations have decided this shouldn't be, and decided to take it a bit far. Now, most adults don't see this as correct, thus creating a more want, or apparent the youth, need, to do so. Reverse psychology is creating a vacuum where the younger people do things considered to be inappropriate for their age, but the more its frowned upon the more they want to do it, and this also creates peer pressure that makes others do things. Now, as for the things, use your imagination, but the type I'm talking about pertains to relationships...between the opposite sex.
Now to the part of which I decided to post this. Sure, I think that my opinion is very important, but the opinion of others is something good to hear. So, if you could, please give your opinions on this.
-death
I think that the human race will eventually kill itself, and I won't be around to watch it.
How the hell is this a controversial subject? The definition of controversial is something that's considered taboo and should not be discussed openly/freely. Such as the cloning of a human being. Another thing... be more blunt. Don't go around the point that you're asking.
Anyway I didn't come here to rant, so I'll continue. I think the current generation's family/social values have somewhat degraded a little over the years when compared to the previous ones. There was a time when it was offensive for a woman to show any bare skin (except for her face) in public, even in summer. Nowadays no one really even gives a crap about this.
Honestly, times have changed dramatically. Let the young ones be lil' rabbits but just as long as they know the consequences if something does go wrong.
I really didn't mean to go around the point, I was trying to provide points so that it could be understood better. I think it's a controversial subject because I don't hear much talking about it, and when I do, it ends rather quickly. And some of the things I talk about are, in a way, taboo. 14 and 15 year olds having sex is taboo, no? Just thinking...maybe I should stop doing that. And the times have changed to the point that the "lil' rabbits" either don't know the consequences or don't give a damn about them. It's quite depressing...
-death
Yeah I get your point there. especially in the third world country like mine. sex subject si very taboo to talk about. if you go around talk about with people they looked at you afraid or closed themself. I've heard myfriend even got scolded just asking it to her parents.
For the topic itself I don't think it's right but we can't force ourway to the young one to the least we could do is teach them the responsibility and control them when their at home. It's sometimes very dependent of their friends and their personality too.
yue_hikaru is rigth, you can't force a person. Even more, if you force him/her to not to do it, he or she WILL SURELLY DO IT. Murphy's Law.
The best thing you can do is give a good advice, or had given a good education if you're a parent, and hope.
In my humble opinion, it's inapropiate because it'll GET A PERSON INTO TROUBLE. Why?
Because (you're not going to like it) you're just 15. I'm 33, and I have know people in their 40's, 50's and 60's having real biiig trouble in this matter. Doing veeeeery stupid things despite their age.
The problem is that you're playing with chances. Chances of not doing it with the wrong person (believe me, there ARE wrong people to do this with), chances of not catching AIDS, chances of not getting or get someone pregnat, cahnces of not being difamed, and a long etc.
A 15 years old (you won't like it either) is still very fragile at life.
If you're wise, you won't hurry to spoil your life. It'll come the rigth time and person. The problem is discerning it. So, don't HURRY.
I will disagree with the comment on the degradation of values (as it pertains to this discussion) as it is really more of a degradation of responsibility. People these days want all the freedoms but they do not want to take the responsibility for their actions associated with those freedoms. Using your example of the age of first times being younger for many people. The blame is constantly pushed towards one or the other partners or societies slowly degrading values. I got news for you. That is the biggest bunch of BS I have ever heard. It always takes two to tango (assuming free choice) and each individual has to make that choice by themselves regardless of what society's values are or whether or not the other individual is pressuring. As for the understanding of the consequences of your actions well if you were not raised to realize that every action you take has possible consequences (be they good or bad) then you need to look back at your parents and ask why didn't you teach me that and if you are a parent I suggest you go sit down with your child and have a good conversation about actions and consequences. I also suggest you do as or before puberty hits with respect to the sexuality questions. It really irritates me to have people cop out by blaming anyone but themselves for their own screwups.