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my parents keep ellin me to get a gf

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my parents keep on telling me to get a girlfriend
i dont know how to tell them i have a crush on a guy

tell them that "love cannot be forced" and such... Hopefully they'll shut up

Yeah tell them straight into d face!
Then tell them to just be patient.

Oh shi-. I really hope your parents aren't like strict and traditional and all that. o_0 But I think that they MIGHT some day find out that you like a guy, so I think it's better for you to tell them before that day comes... Tell them one day when both of them are in a good mood. XD
Also, it's your business if you get a gf/bf or not and they should mind their own =P.

are you really sure you like that guy? maybe you just admire him and confused it with "like". but if you really have a crush on him then i would suggest you not to tell your parents about that. give some excuse such as "I'm not ready to go out with a girl", or "This is not the right time" and stuff. it'll be better than telling them the truth.

elbonytarzan
*sarcastic* well, aren't u the mature one? he should tell them, not necessarily now, but he'll have to someday. do you really think he'll hide the fact all life or should? good point on the "I'm not ready to go out with a girl" and "This is not the right time".

imconfused
dunno if they're pestering you cuz they're worried about you or have misconceptions about dating age.... you know them better. if you want to let them know, i'd say first hint to it, then tell... if they suspect even a little, i think they would take it easier... that is if they're not the strict, conservative type.
you know their mentality, plan your strategy according to that.
missyg is right, they should be in a good mood or else it might have some unpleasant effects.....
also, there's the drastic way of telling them bluntly while they're saying you should get a gf, but i don't really recommend it.
i'm sure they only want your best and if you tell them they will eventually understand and support you (again, if they're more conservative, cuz if they're ok with it, they won't say anything bad).
take a deep breath, prepare yourself mentally, and tell them. remember it's not embarasing to like another guy. gambatte.

If they're really your parents, they will accept your sexuality as is. But if they're uptight parents (such as mine) then you might have to reconsider telling them until a better time has been reached. Forced love is impossible and will momentarily create friction. You have to break the ice sometime. Take a deep breath, approach your parents and just say it. I guess it all varies on how your relationship with your parents is. It may be easy or it may be hard. Measure it by your friendliness and see will that get you.

i just agree w/entity and etoo... nuff said..

goodluck to yOu.. get a hold of yourself.. ^_^

well, wut's wrong with the gurl?

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