First off, I'm sorry to hear that your friend did that; secondly, I suggest
explaining calmly to your friend that you're offended (you sound that way, a
little), and that it wasn't your friend's place to do that. After that, try to
speak to the person you like, and explain what happened-be honest, especially if
he asks about your feelings (keeping feelings inside is a heavy strain-stress
weakens immune system, etc.). Hear the both of them out for their reasons for
doing what they did (your friend, and your crush). Other than that, I wish you
luck with your problem; I hope it turns out for the best.
Take care,
~TreaGirl.
well that guy is horrible, if you believe in god this was meant for a reason.
there is some one else out there for you, some one better who will love you for
who you are. just keep looking and dont mind those who make you feel bad because
they will be punished one way or another.
I can't say much about the situation besides that you should take care of your
feelings better and not trust many people, this person was not trust worthy as
is apparent. Good luck with however it goes, on a second thought you could go
and experience gay camps and become a comedian, making fun of everyone...people
laugh at that but it is mean. I don't mean to pick on anyone by saying that, but
do whatever you need and enjoy what you will.
~death
That exact same thing happened to a friend of mine recently. He talked it out
with his friend that told the guy he liked that he liked him. His friend took it
well, I mean, he didn't get mad or anyting. Leaving that awkwardness between you
and your crush might not be the best idea.THings might feel even more awkward if
you don't talk things out with him...
Yeah I so agree wiyh jeanie727. If you were hurt by the friend then talk to the
friend. Don't get too mad, talk calmly unless the friend is still insensitive
and doesnt feel sorry for what she/he had done then someone like that isn't
worth being friends with. Anyway to the real problem... Try to act normal around
your crush and remain yourself. Put yourself in the crush's shoes and imagine
what it would be like if a friend of yours (who is a girl) tells you that she
likes you, how would you react? It might not be the same as how your crush
reacted but try to imagine yourself in his shoes. This can help on how you can
make things better cos you'll know what the crush may be afraid of and know the
right things to say. If this awkwardness continues talk about it to him. Tell
him it's not like you're going to wear skirts and pink shoes and wear tiaras
(sorry) and make it clear you're still yourself!
im gay and my friend told the guy i like that i love him and now he wont look at me chere me up plz
First off, I'm sorry to hear that your friend did that; secondly, I suggest explaining calmly to your friend that you're offended (you sound that way, a little), and that it wasn't your friend's place to do that. After that, try to speak to the person you like, and explain what happened-be honest, especially if he asks about your feelings (keeping feelings inside is a heavy strain-stress weakens immune system, etc.). Hear the both of them out for their reasons for doing what they did (your friend, and your crush). Other than that, I wish you luck with your problem; I hope it turns out for the best.
Take care,
~TreaGirl.
well that guy is horrible, if you believe in god this was meant for a reason. there is some one else out there for you, some one better who will love you for who you are. just keep looking and dont mind those who make you feel bad because they will be punished one way or another.
I can't say much about the situation besides that you should take care of your feelings better and not trust many people, this person was not trust worthy as is apparent. Good luck with however it goes, on a second thought you could go and experience gay camps and become a comedian, making fun of everyone...people laugh at that but it is mean. I don't mean to pick on anyone by saying that, but do whatever you need and enjoy what you will.
~death
That exact same thing happened to a friend of mine recently. He talked it out with his friend that told the guy he liked that he liked him. His friend took it well, I mean, he didn't get mad or anyting. Leaving that awkwardness between you and your crush might not be the best idea.THings might feel even more awkward if you don't talk things out with him...
omg that is horrible. why are people insensitive. it makes me angry and sometimes disappointed in people.
Yeah I so agree wiyh jeanie727. If you were hurt by the friend then talk to the friend. Don't get too mad, talk calmly unless the friend is still insensitive and doesnt feel sorry for what she/he had done then someone like that isn't worth being friends with. Anyway to the real problem... Try to act normal around your crush and remain yourself. Put yourself in the crush's shoes and imagine what it would be like if a friend of yours (who is a girl) tells you that she likes you, how would you react? It might not be the same as how your crush reacted but try to imagine yourself in his shoes. This can help on how you can make things better cos you'll know what the crush may be afraid of and know the right things to say. If this awkwardness continues talk about it to him. Tell him it's not like you're going to wear skirts and pink shoes and wear tiaras (sorry) and make it clear you're still yourself!
You should strip infront of the guy and if he jumps into your arms then he likes you aswell
merged: 04-08-2007 ~ 11:44am
Actually, its the truth and there is no point getting angry over someone telling the truth, because it is true