I'm having trouble because a girl I loved wants to go out with me, but my
friends will hate me for it. I don't want to loose my friend's, but this might
be my only chance.
uhmm as i said, if i were you i would stay with my friends
but you said its your only change... so damn im confused, i dont know sry :/
i dont wanna tell you something that you will regret later..
Why doe your friends hate you, if you start dating that girl? If they were
friends they should be supportive, unless they had conflict with that girl in
the past.
How do you even know it's your only chance? You may have another chance at love
in the future, it may not be soon but there may still be a chance that is
waiting for you to stumble across it.
Ok, IF I WAS YOU; find out why your friends hate you if you dated that girl. If
the reason isn't good enough, then I guess it wouldn't hurt and try and convince
them not to hate you.
If the reason is that they like the girl too, had bad conflict with her and etc,
and they know how she is as a person, then I'd choose friends.
Since there's not alot of detail and all... that's all I can help you with. Hope
I was any help.
is the girl nasty to your freind or evil then i understan. but... are they
jealous on you? ask them why. but freins are important and there are MANY girls
in the world! so don't worry! that will be fine!
Well true friends shouldn't do that.......
If they truely are your friends........ they shouldn't be so....... what's the
word I'm looking for.....?
Anyways...... but personally, I would keep my friends
Because....... I see all the times..... couples breaking up
Because they never truely loved each other
well, my teacher said that u need 2 know what u need & want. so if ur
comfortable with ur girlfriend more than ur friends or the other way around, but
in my case i'd say ur friends. love begins with a single step right?
try to balance your feelings. will go with your friends or your girl..if i were
you i go with my girl, cause friends is not the one you will spent your lifetime
with..
just ignore your friends cause they doesnt know what you really
felt.†RITZOZâ€
Well, one question: how sure are you that you're going to spend the rest of your
life with this girl? I mean, realistically. How old are you and how old is she?
How well do you know her? Seriously, if it isn't going to result in anything
long term, choose your friends. We often think we "love" people, only
to realized that it wasn't love, far too late.
Why do you even have to choose? What's wrong with wanting to be with all of
them? You can't really compare who you need more. They can all give you
different things. Choosing might make you feel sad about it afterwards.
I choose friend over love (except for love of my family) because they know me
better! plus I don't want to hurt anyone so if with my friends or family, I'm
likly to not hurt them then the person who likes me!
Well! I'd say stay with the girl and keep your friends at the same time! Friends always undrestand your situtation.
Sometimes...well...ermmm...sometimes love turns out to become selfish. In my
case I was the friend who was left behind becuase of someone else! It was really
hard for me in the begining since I realized my presence was not appreciated by
this certain girl. I try to understand my friend and leave him alone but at the
same time allow him to approach me whenever he wants. We don't see each other
much as it used to be, and to be honest, there are times that I really miss our
long conversation and funny adventours.
Try to bring your girl and introduce them to your friends. Who knows, maybe it
turns out better if they mingle and interact a bit.
Sending mail or call her? Go out with her when your friends are not busy with
you. Find out the reason why the don't like her. If all else fails, stick with
your friends...
i whould keep my friends. they are the most inportant thing in my like, and i
CAN survive with out love but with out freindship i whould die. and be utterlye
depressed.
I'm having trouble because a girl I loved wants to go out with me, but my friends will hate me for it. I don't want to loose my friend's, but this might be my only chance.
What should I do?
how many years do you know your friends?
well if it was me i wouldnt go out with the girl cause i know my friends for 8years...
and they are like unique to me
I knew them since the 5th grade, so about 8 years too.
uhmm as i said, if i were you i would stay with my friends
but you said its your only change... so damn im confused, i dont know sry :/
i dont wanna tell you something that you will regret later..
That o.k.
Thanks for trying
Why doe your friends hate you, if you start dating that girl? If they were friends they should be supportive, unless they had conflict with that girl in the past.
How do you even know it's your only chance? You may have another chance at love in the future, it may not be soon but there may still be a chance that is waiting for you to stumble across it.
Ok, IF I WAS YOU; find out why your friends hate you if you dated that girl. If the reason isn't good enough, then I guess it wouldn't hurt and try and convince them not to hate you.
If the reason is that they like the girl too, had bad conflict with her and etc, and they know how she is as a person, then I'd choose friends.
Since there's not alot of detail and all... that's all I can help you with. Hope I was any help.
^ok wateva i wanna say all up there saw tt^^^^^^^
is the girl nasty to your freind or evil then i understan. but... are they jealous on you? ask them why. but freins are important and there are MANY girls in the world! so don't worry! that will be fine!
Well true friends shouldn't do that.......
If they truely are your friends........ they shouldn't be so....... what's the word I'm looking for.....?
Anyways...... but personally, I would keep my friends
Because....... I see all the times..... couples breaking up
Because they never truely loved each other
well, my teacher said that u need 2 know what u need & want. so if ur comfortable with ur girlfriend more than ur friends or the other way around, but in my case i'd say ur friends. love begins with a single step right?
your frinds wil be with u longer then anyone u date keep ur friends
try to balance your feelings. will go with your friends or your girl..if i were you i go with my girl, cause friends is not the one you will spent your lifetime with..
just ignore your friends cause they doesnt know what you really felt.†RITZOZâ€
Well, one question: how sure are you that you're going to spend the rest of your life with this girl? I mean, realistically. How old are you and how old is she? How well do you know her? Seriously, if it isn't going to result in anything long term, choose your friends. We often think we "love" people, only to realized that it wasn't love, far too late.
hmmm... if tt dosent happens too often tt u nv go out with ur friends anymore it is ok. if ur friends hates u, they shldnt be ur friend.
Can ANYONE tell me what the person above me said?
Why do you even have to choose? What's wrong with wanting to be with all of them? You can't really compare who you need more. They can all give you different things. Choosing might make you feel sad about it afterwards.
I choose friend over love (except for love of my family) because they know me better! plus I don't want to hurt anyone so if with my friends or family, I'm likly to not hurt them then the person who likes me!
Well! I'd say stay with the girl and keep your friends at the same time!
Friends always undrestand your situtation.
Sometimes...well...ermmm...sometimes love turns out to become selfish. In my
case I was the friend who was left behind becuase of someone else! It was really
hard for me in the begining since I realized my presence was not appreciated by
this certain girl. I try to understand my friend and leave him alone but at the
same time allow him to approach me whenever he wants. We don't see each other
much as it used to be, and to be honest, there are times that I really miss our
long conversation and funny adventours. 
Try to bring your girl and introduce them to your friends. Who knows, maybe it turns out better if they mingle and interact a bit.
Sending mail or call her? Go out with her when your friends are not busy with you. Find out the reason why the don't like her. If all else fails, stick with your friends...
i whould keep my friends. they are the most inportant thing in my like, and i CAN survive with out love but with out freindship i whould die. and be utterlye depressed.
That is a very good question. I think in the end, I'd take my friends over my girlfriend, just like the New Found Glory song, "My Friends Over You".
why would you lose your friends? o.O well your friends should respect your choice, if you love her then they shouldnt stop you
go for
it!
go with your friends, they won't hate you cuz they're your friends. why would they do such a thing? :/
I think that your freinds are having a stupid behave. they should understand your situation.