Quote by xaeroak15
Conspiracy? That's a little serious...
Well, this conspiration is now being
taken to the extreme... now every time they talk about "him", they put
my name instead of his, for example; if a guy talks with him, instead of saying:
"Hey, John (guy's name), what's up?", they say: "Hey, Chia,
sorry, John; what's up?"
And whenever I'm passing by near the men, they all say, Hey John, there's your
girl!" (Haven't I mentioned that HE is ugly?)
This has been happening even in classroom, in front of the teacher!
And that's not all... Even in my notebooks, I find that someone has put there
"I love you, John" (you know, in order to make people think I wrote
that; and also to make me feel bad), and then I find "his reply" saying: I DO love you too,
Chia!" AAAARRRGGHHH! That sucks!
I know this had happened to some of you MTers, because of your replies to the
previous thread, but THIS? I don't know if I'M THE ONLY ONE that has to pass within all of this![/b]
The reason why they do it is because they think it's fun to see you frustrated.
If you show your frustration, they will continue to do it- doesn't matter what
you do back to them, they'd rather see you frustrated.
A similar thing happened back when I was in primary school- a guy in my tutoring
class used to make fun of my name, by warping it into a fictional character
because he teased me because of my laugh. Why he did that? Why did he want to
deprive someone of their laughter? Simply because he wanted me to not laugh and
turn miserable.
I would complain to the tutor to ask him to stop: no matter what she did,
including, "we'll say you like her if you don't stop teasing her", he
actually stopped for about 10 seconds thinking about it and finally said
"nah, I'll keep teasing her".
He would rather be teased himself, with the "reward" of seeing me
pissed off at him.
Anyway, the breakthrough came when I was separated into another class and I
didn't see him for a whole 2 years.
Just before we graduated to high school I saw him one last time, and he said to
me "hey *stupid nickname he gave me*, did you get into this high
school?"
By then I had changed a lot, and I just looked at him lazily and just said,
"yeah", looked away and walked off. He was shocked to see me like
that.
The moral of the story is, don't let it get to you, and don't completely ignore
it- sometimes ignoring it might have an adverse effect because they realise that
you don't care if you're teased or not.
I would say, try to approach your teacher and tell him/ her about the problem.
If it's bad, get your parents to complain to the teacher so she can contact
those boys' parents. It's not John's problem- it's his friends' problem.
Make it clear that what they're doing is completely immature and stupid- but do
not overreact.
Okay- I hope that has given you at least some direction
Remember, calm, collected, complacent- don't let them know they are getting on
your nerves, because they will enjoy it! ^^
I totally agree with kuroimisa. Don't let such an immature and childish act get
to your head. And even if it does do not show them that.
Besides, it will irk them more if u laugh at this whole thing yourself! I mean,
make it evident to them that no matter what they say, john isn't worthy of you
and you couldn't care less for him! So, their teasing is nothing more than a
joke that isn't worth crying for!
Just be your self, don't complain unless its absolutely necessary or they'll
start teasing u even more since they'll know its bothering you a lot. Only if
they cross the limits then u can make it clear to them that u will not tolerate
such non-sense!
yup ignore them and they will not disturb you, take it like it never happened,
if they mock you or anything, your innocent, y get so fustrated over something
you did not do, they enjoy getting people worked up, ignore them, they'll find
you not fun to play with and they move on, so stay calm, and no get striked
down, think of it like maybe you took your friends pencil case, and she wants to
get it back seriously, and goes chases after you, of course you will continue to
try get it back right~ or act like this: you take your friend's thing, and she
does not bother, you fine it boring and returns it to her. yup just like that,
so dun worry about the small details, if that guy does not believe what you say
and still continues to like you, then, i guess it's his problem, as long as you
already told her that you do not like him, than yeah.... or do you like
him?
merged: 06-20-2007 ~ 08:26pm
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it may be your crush, and your friend trying to help you! jk~
kill him...thats the only solution....JUST KIDDING...don't do it!well...you can
actually complain to your teacher or your parents~hmm....if it still don't work
then you can do the extreme...find a guy you can trust and pretend to be his
girlfriend~
Quote by JusticeProkill him...thats
the only solution....JUST KIDDING...don't do it!well...you can actually complain
to your teacher or your parents~hmm....if it still don't work then you can do
the extreme...find a guy you can trust and pretend to be his
girlfriend~
Actually, I can't find a guy that can hepl me on that.. but anyways... thanxs 4
the "idea"!
Remember my last thread, What would you do if everybody says you and a boy you don't know, are crushes?
OK, now, as xaeroak15 said in the thread:
Well, this conspiration is now being taken to the extreme... now every time they talk about "him", they put my name instead of his, for example; if a guy talks with him, instead of saying: "Hey, John (guy's name), what's up?", they say: "Hey, Chia, sorry, John; what's up?"
And whenever I'm passing by near the men, they all say, Hey John, there's your girl!" (Haven't I mentioned that HE is ugly?)
This has been happening even in classroom, in front of the teacher!
And that's not all... Even in my notebooks, I find that someone has put there "I love you, John" (you know, in order to make people think I wrote that; and also to make me feel bad), and then I find "his reply" saying: I DO love you too, Chia!" AAAARRRGGHHH! That sucks!
I know this had happened to some of you MTers, because of your replies to the previous thread, but THIS? I don't know if I'M THE ONLY ONE that has to pass within all of this![/b]
What do you think?
>.<
Chia-chan 
The reason why they do it is because they think it's fun to see you frustrated. If you show your frustration, they will continue to do it- doesn't matter what you do back to them, they'd rather see you frustrated.
A similar thing happened back when I was in primary school- a guy in my tutoring class used to make fun of my name, by warping it into a fictional character because he teased me because of my laugh. Why he did that? Why did he want to deprive someone of their laughter? Simply because he wanted me to not laugh and turn miserable.
I would complain to the tutor to ask him to stop: no matter what she did, including, "we'll say you like her if you don't stop teasing her", he actually stopped for about 10 seconds thinking about it and finally said "nah, I'll keep teasing her".
He would rather be teased himself, with the "reward" of seeing me pissed off at him.
Anyway, the breakthrough came when I was separated into another class and I didn't see him for a whole 2 years.
Just before we graduated to high school I saw him one last time, and he said to me "hey *stupid nickname he gave me*, did you get into this high school?"
By then I had changed a lot, and I just looked at him lazily and just said, "yeah", looked away and walked off. He was shocked to see me like that.
The moral of the story is, don't let it get to you, and don't completely ignore it- sometimes ignoring it might have an adverse effect because they realise that you don't care if you're teased or not.
I would say, try to approach your teacher and tell him/ her about the problem. If it's bad, get your parents to complain to the teacher so she can contact those boys' parents. It's not John's problem- it's his friends' problem.
Make it clear that what they're doing is completely immature and stupid- but do not overreact.
Okay- I hope that has given you at least some direction
Remember, calm, collected, complacent- don't let them know they are getting on your nerves, because they will enjoy it! ^^
I totally agree with kuroimisa. Don't let such an immature and childish act get to your head. And even if it does do not show them that.
Besides, it will irk them more if u laugh at this whole thing yourself! I mean, make it evident to them that no matter what they say, john isn't worthy of you and you couldn't care less for him! So, their teasing is nothing more than a joke that isn't worth crying for!
Just be your self, don't complain unless its absolutely necessary or they'll start teasing u even more since they'll know its bothering you a lot. Only if they cross the limits then u can make it clear to them that u will not tolerate such non-sense!
Hope ur issue gets solved soon!
yup ignore them and they will not disturb you, take it like it never happened, if they mock you or anything, your innocent, y get so fustrated over something you did not do, they enjoy getting people worked up, ignore them, they'll find you not fun to play with and they move on, so stay calm, and no get striked down, think of it like maybe you took your friends pencil case, and she wants to get it back seriously, and goes chases after you, of course you will continue to try get it back right~ or act like this: you take your friend's thing, and she does not bother, you fine it boring and returns it to her. yup just like that, so dun worry about the small details, if that guy does not believe what you say and still continues to like you, then, i guess it's his problem, as long as you already told her that you do not like him, than yeah.... or do you like him?
merged: 06-20-2007 ~ 08:26pm
jk~
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it may be your crush, and your friend trying to help you!
Sakura-chan, that's impossible...
{hahax..! okie than~
tell
him directly you dun like him! 
}
kill him...thats the only solution....JUST KIDDING...don't do it!well...you can actually complain to your teacher or your parents~hmm....if it still don't work then you can do the extreme...find a guy you can trust and pretend to be his girlfriend~
Actually, I can't find a guy that can hepl me on that.. but anyways... thanxs 4 the "idea"!
lols~wahahahas~